Do You Have Leadership Presence?If you think being in charge makes you a leader, then think again. True leaders rely more on emotion and authenticity than authority or power. By Clare Fitzgerald
When American Express identified a need for company leaders to better engage staff teams, it didn’t beef up managers’ titles or increase their authority. Neither did Deloitte & Touche when it witnessed managers who had been promoted based on technical skills failing to connect with employees. But both companies did enlist the help of the Ariel Group, an Arlington, Mass.-based leadership consultancy that uses theater techniques to help managers enhance their leadership skills. What both of these firms realized—and what many other organizations and executive leaders could benefit from learning—is that commanding presence and leading a group of people to achieve results isn’t about personal power. In fact, it’s more about connecting with and empowering others. Sean Kavanagh, CEO of the Ariel Group, defines it as, “The ability to connect with the thoughts and feelings of others, in order to motivate and inspire them to achieve a desired outcome.” Good leaders bring out the best in people—and businesses benefit in the process. But while it sounds simple enough, the misconceptions abound. Read on to see if you truly have leadership presence. Present and accounted for The dynamic, charismatic leader who rallies the troops is more myth than reality when it comes to motivating and inspiring followers within an organization. Rather, how executives communicate and interact with the people they lead may be the biggest determining factor when measuring leadership success. Leadership coaches and experts tend to agree that the foundation of a strong leader begins simply with being present, in a highly focused, non-distracted sense. “They’d rather have less time with their leaders if it means they aren’t distracted during that time,” says Bill McCarthy, an executive coach specializing in the interpersonal side of leadership at LeaderSource, a Minneapolis, Minn.-based leadership development and executive coaching consultancy. Leaders who are truly present and in the moment also are much better able to tap into their insight and instinct, to see the obvious, and to notice what’s happening to those around them. Authenticity and strong communication skills also are key. “Employees would much rather work for someone they think is authentic,” explains McCarthy. Leaders must have and project confidence and emotional intelligence to build trust and communicate effectively with their teams. Those who genuinely connect with the people around them generally do so through insight, intellect, honesty, listening, instinct, vision, clarity, confidence, appreciation of others, compassion and empathy. In short, they display characteristics that make other people willing to trust and follow them. Kavanagh describes the emotional elements that business leaders use to inspire teams as, “Connecting to the hearts and minds of an audience to achieve a desired outcome. It’s really what a good actor does,” he states. “Anyone can read and understand Shakespeare, but people go to the theater because it adds that emotional impact.” Leadership lacking? Many executives confuse being in charge with being a leader, mistakenly playing off authority over emotion and genuineness. Other common and potentially costly mistakes include:
Tapping into leadership Devoting the time and attention it takes to avoid pitfalls and cultivate a strong leadership presence can translate into deep results. And it’s an area of effort where finance professionals especially stand to benefit. McCarthy has been working more and more with finance and IT professionals over the past five years. “These professionals have risen to the top based on their technical competence. But when they move into a CFO or other executive-type role, technical competence isn’t enough. A more complete approach to leadership is required.” Luckily, most leadership experts agree that the skills and capabilities that translate into a strong leadership presence can be taught. “Some people have a head start; they have a natural predisposition to being good with people,” says Kavanagh. “But, like everything in life, it can be taught. There’s emotion and passion in all of us. You just need to learn how to bring it out.” According to Gunn, many important leadership traits are evident in young children. “Kids are so in the moment,” he says. “It isn’t until we start becoming adults that ego kicks in and we pick up assumptions. We start worrying about the way we look or what other people are thinking.” Leadership presence requires self-assurance and self-knowledge. Because leaders must communicate what matters to them in a way that makes it matter to other people, leadership coaches advise showing staff who you really are. “Tell stories about yourself,” Kavanagh suggests. “It might reveal that you’re not perfect, but telling staff how you overcame challenges will be much more motivating than just being an authority figure.” Some measure of training and focus can make a big difference. “For some people it’s a transformation,” says Kavanagh. “We get people to start thinking differently about themselves and give them confidence to go out and apply the techniques.” Leading with impact Many professionals use their heads to rise to the top. But adding heart and emotion can make a difference when it comes to achieving business and personal objectives. On a personal level, focusing on leadership skills will help improve the ways in which you execute your job. Being present and plugged in, you’ll work more effectively and hear and implement good ideas. What’s more, this can be an avenue through which to build your credibility. After all, what leaders say can carry less weight than how they appear and sound when interacting. Focusing on body language, tone of voice and overall emotion to convey energy and enthusiasm can give you a better presence and communication style. But more importantly, cultivating a stronger leadership presence allows professionals to better relate to staff. When you lead with warmth and emotion, you gain trust and guide with a subtle—but effective—authority. In short, when a good leader leads, decisions are made expediently and are executed more successfully. People become energetically engaged in the common mission, positively impacting the firm’s performance and growth. After all, true leaders have the ability to connect with the thoughts and feelings of their audience—inspiring others to do their best work. “Leadership isn’t about doing, doing, doing,” notes McCarthy. “Leaders remind other people what’s important.”
领导力不是个人权力
(《洞见》杂志,2006年3月) 根据明茨伯格的定义,管理者其实是一个具有十种角色的综合体:人际关系方面,他是挂名首脑、领导者和联络者;在信息传递方面,他是信息监听者、信息传播者和发言人;在决策方面,他又是资源分配者、混乱驾驭者、企业家和谈判者的身份。 每一种角色都要求管理者们具有有效的人际沟通能力,因为仅仅拥有单个人的能力对于有效领导是远远不够的。好的管理者更多的是依仗良好的沟通协调能力,具备影响他人朝既定目标共同努力的感召力。 那么如何培养领导感召力呢?本文提出的PRES模型就是一个有益的方法。 P-亲临现场,现身说法(Being Present)。亲临现场领导,并且有足够的能力处理不可预见的状况。 R-延展领导空间和影响面(Reaching out)。通过移情、倾听和真诚交流等方式与其他人建立良好的联系渠道,延展自己的领导空间。 E-表达能力(Expressiveness)。不仅通过语言来表达自己的情感,还可以灵活运用文字、肢体语言和面部表情向受众传递信息,运用赋予情感的表达方式感染对方,增强领导的传递性和感染力。 S-自明(Self-knowing)。培养了解自己的能力,仔细衡量和判断自己的行为和决策,确保这些行为和决策与自己向他人传递的价值观念一致,体现“言行一致”领导特质的真实和诚恳。 |
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