男人最吸引女人的100件事

1.明澈，俊秀，健康的眼睛。眼睛提供了在健康层面深入洞察个人的渠道，健康的眼睛也意味着她有一个健康的伴侣。根据各种女性杂志中问卷调查显示，男士的眼睛是最具吸引力的身体特特征。

A confident attitude towards life. Confidence indicates that you are successful and are to be trusted. When you trust yourself, others will as well. Women will trust you with themselves

2.自信的生活态度。自信意味着你将会成功和值得信任。当你相信自己的时候，别人也会相信你。女人会向相信她们自己一样相信你。

Physical height. Height provides a sense of security and comfort which is very attractive to women. Being taller is also a dominant trait which is attractive. Ultimately, if you are short but can provide a feeling of security and comfort, this will be equivalent to height.

3.身高。身高之所以具有吸引力是因为能给女性带来安全感和舒适感。较高的身高是吸引别人注意的一个很重要因素。如果你比较矮，但是你能够给到她们安全感和舒心的感觉，最终也能够达到和身高一样的效果。2

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Physical strength, muscles. Being muscular provides a sense of excitement and security in women. It also alludes to dominance which will seduce most women.

4.身体力量，肌肉。强壮可以给女性带来兴奋感和安全感。同时还暗示着支配控制，而这一特点能够吸引到大多数女子。

Being funny. Laughter makes people feel more comfortable and happy. Also, when people are laughing at your jokes, you immediately gain social status which is attractive. If you can make her laugh, you’re half way there. Read how to make a girl smile.

5.幽默。笑能够使人们感到更加的舒适自在和开心。当人们因你的玩笑而发笑的时候，你的也会因此获得颇具吸引力的社会地位。如果你使她发笑了，那么你就成功一半了。参看《如何让女孩子笑》

Being witty. This is very attractive as it alludes to being smart, and intelligence is attractive to women. If you are dating then wit will be a big part of your evening.

6.机智。机智会很吸引女性，因为这表明你有智慧，而智慧对女人是很有吸引力的的。如果你和女士约会，展现机智将是着你们整晚大部分时间所应该做的。2

Being wealthy.Wealth indicates power, security, comfort and even excitement. This is very attractive to women whom crave all these feelings.

7.富有。财富意味着权利，安全，舒适，和更多的兴奋。对于渴望这些感觉的女性，富有是很具吸引力的。3

Being playful. Playfulness means that you are fun to be with, consequently triggering feelings of attraction in women.

8.爱嬉戏逗趣。爱打闹意味着和你们在一起会很开心，最终将触发女士对你的喜爱之情。

Being touchy. Human touch is a powerful way to trigger feelings of attraction. Naturally touchy people have a lot more sex than people whom refrain from human contact. This is important when you flirt with a girl.

9.触摸。触摸是引起人类好感的一种非常之有效地方式。经常喜欢爱抚触摸的人会比总是克制着不接触的人有更多的性爱。这在你和女孩打情骂俏的时候尤为重要。1

Bravery. Being brave, alert in emergency situations is very attractive and indicates that you will be able to protect her from danger.

10.勇敢的行为。在紧急时候表现出来的勇敢是很吸引女性的，那也意味着你将有能力使她远离危险。2

Being excited about life. The energy that people emit when they are excited about living is contagious and very attractive.

11.对生活感到兴奋。当人们对生活感到兴奋的时候产生的能量是有感染力和吸引力的。

Being unavailable. People want what they can’t get. Being hard ( but not impossible! ) to get is attractive.

12.不轻易被得到。人们总是想要得到那些他们不能得到的东西。表现的不轻易倾心于女性（但不是不可能）是很吸引她们的。

A cocky smile is attractive. Cocky smiles, demonstrated in movies such as James Bond and Top Gun triggers feelings of confidence and dominance which is extremely arousing. Read up on how to pick up girls for more information.

13.神气活现的微笑。神气活现的微笑，在James Bond和壮志凌云中都有所展现自信和优越感是极度让女生们意乱情迷的。到《如何追求女孩子》一书了解更多吧。

Genuine smiles in general are attractive. As long as they are a reaction to something that occurred and not because you are being polite or awkward.

14.真诚的笑容通常都是很迷人的。只要那不是因为表示礼貌或者尴尬而做出的反应。

Being concentrated on a task is attractive to women. If a woman can watch you while you are completely involved in a task, then she is likely to be attracted to you. Examples of this can be her watching you paint, play an instrument, anything you do well that requires full absolute concentration on your part.

15.男人专注的时候是很吸引女人的。如果一个女性捕捉到你正全身心地专注于某事的一刻，那么她们很大可能会被你所吸引。比如看到你在绘画，或者演奏乐器，所有那些需要你全身心投入的事。

Playing an instrument is attractive to women. Wonder why the rock stars get the girls… there are many reasons but those whom play music are automatically ranked more attractive than those who don’t.

16.演奏乐器的时候。想一下为什么摇滚巨星们为什么让那么多女孩疯狂……虽然有很多理由，但是显然的是那些在演奏音乐的人自然而然地就比其他人更加吸引人。

Being famous.If you’re famous, then by definition a lot of people know you. If a lot of people know you, you are therefore important. Being important is very attractive to women.

17.出名。如果你出名了，那就是说很多人都认识你。如果很多人都认识你，那么你就变得重要了。重要的人是很容易引起女性注意的。

Not caring. A care free attitude is liberating and very attractive.

18.玩世不恭。玩世不恭的态度意味着自由，洒脱，迷人。

Being well dressed. Wearing nice clothes demonstrate social status; accentuate your physical features and shows that you take care of yourself.

19.穿着讲究。穿着漂亮的衣服可以显示你的社会地位和身份，突出你的身材且说明你懂得照顾自己。

Unique accessories that match our personality. In our society, accessories that stand out provoke curiosity, confidence and will attract women. “What’s that necklace you are wearing”, says the girl at the bar. That is one of the dating tips for how to attract women.

20.佩戴与自己性格相称的独特饰品。在社交界，醒目的装饰物能够激起人们的好奇心，自信心而且能够吸引女性。“你戴着的是什么项链？”在酒吧的女孩会这样问。这是如何在约会的时候吸引女性的一个技巧。

Shoes that are in style. The first thing that most girls notice in guys is what kind of shoes they are wearing. Shoes speak more about you than all clothes. You can be wearing a diaper on your head, jeans from the 80’s… but if you’re wearing brand new shoes that are in style, girls will automatically see you as attractive. If you don’t have the shoes… get them.  

21.鞋子的穿着。大部分女孩首先注意到的都是男生穿着什么类型的鞋子。鞋子比你的衣服更能说明问题。你可以戴着花格头巾，甚至穿着80年代的牛仔裤，但是你穿着的是一双时髦的鞋子的话，女生们会很自然而然地被你所吸引。但是如果你没有那双鞋子呢？……去买。

Well fitting shirts. Baggy shirts are out! Shirts should complement your body and show off your features. Now I’m not talking about spandex, but regular well fitting shirts. You know why suits look good? Because they are tailored to fit you perfectly. This is attractive to women.

22.合身的衬衫。宽松下垂的衬衫过时啦！你的衬衫应该和你的身体互补同时突出你的身材。我并不是叫你穿有弹性的衣物哦，只是说一般那些合身的衬衫。你知道西服为什么那么好看吗？因为他们被裁剪得和你身材完美地相衬。这也是吸引女士的一点。

A deep, commanding voice. Your voice says a lot about you, literally. The next time you strike up a chat with a woman, don’t sound squeaky.

23.深厚深沉，有威严的声音。你的声音能够很清楚的说明你这个人。下次你开始和一个女士交谈的时候，不要让人觉得你说话的声音起来好像吱吱作响的声音。

Body posture. Within 1 second, just from how you stand, women will judge you as attractive or not. Good body posture indicates that you are a healthy mate and is very attractive to women. Lean back.

24.身体姿势。只需要一秒钟女士们就能从你的站姿判断出你是否具有吸引力。良好的身姿表明你是一个健康的伙伴，这也是非常吸引女性的。往后仰直咯。

Human smell. Sweat, at a very basic level, is very attractive to women. It triggers feeling of arousal in women. However, don’t go too far and stink. That’s repelling.

25.身体的气息。通常情况下，男人的汗味是很吸引女性的。因为那可以焕发女人心中的兴奋感。但是汗味汗味不要太重太丑，因为反而会让女性厌恶。

Some light, musky cologne. These smells will mimic the natural smell that males produce and used lightly, will arouse some females.

26.淡淡的花香或香水味的古龙水。女性会将之与男性自身的味道混淆，用一点点就可以激起女性内心的异样感觉了。

Leadership. Being a leader is very attractive to women, it demonstrates social status and importance. Make decisions, lead the pack.

27.领导者。成为一名领袖是很吸引女性的。它显示了社会地位和重要性。去做决定，去做领袖吧。

Being dominant. Women are naturally submissive, and men should be naturally dominant. Unfortunately with all our yoga classes and hormonal milk, this has changed in the past century.

28.处于主导地位。女人是习惯自然顺从的动物。所以男人就应该占据主导地位。遗憾的是，由于那些瑜伽课程和荷尔蒙牛奶，这在过去的一个世纪已经发生了改变。

Being dangerous. Danger is hot, exciting, energising and can be very addictive. Women love the bad boy.

29.危险一点。危险使人躁动，兴奋，使人有活力，而且还会让人上瘾。女人都喜欢坏男孩。

Being intelligent. Intelligence, demonstrated by high grades, an impressive line of studies or career is very attractive.

30.睿智。高分数，开展令人印象深刻的研究和在职业所表现出来的智慧都是很迷人的。

Being good with animals. Being good with living things indicates that you will be a good mate, capable of protecting and caring for any offspring you could potentially have. This is very attractive.

31.善待小动物。善待生命说明你将是一个好伴侣，也具有很好呵护你们将来潜在的子女的能力。所以这一点对女性也是具有吸引力的。

Being good with kids. Same as above.

32.善待孩子。同上。

Being genuinely interested in her. People love people whom are interested in them. If you genuinely want to know what makes her tick, this will be attractive.

33.真正的对她感兴趣。人们都喜欢那些对自己感兴趣的人。当你真正想知道什么会让她给予肯定的时候，这其实就是在吸引她了。

Being the best, in a group of men. If you are the best out of the competing men, then out of that group, you will be the most attractive to women.

34.当一群男性中最杰出的一个。如果你在所有竞争的男性中是最棒的，那么在整群人中你将最吸引女士们。

Being disciplined. People want to be surrounded by competent individuals. If you are able to control yourself when she can’t, she will see you as having a lot of willpower. This demonstrates that you are in control of your life.

35.遵守纪律。人们想身边都是有竞争力的人。如果你能够在她控制不住自己的时候控制住你自己，那么她们就会认为你很有意志力。同时那也就意味着你正掌控着你的生活。

Not taking life too seriously. Having the gift to be able to laugh at life and embrace it as an enjoyable experience. You don’t have to think about marriage every time you talk to a girl.

36.不要太严肃地生活。 有笑面人生的天赋，并能够把生活当做是一次享受的历程。你没必要每次和女孩子聊天的时候都想到结婚。

Being positive. Positive people are attractive. If you can show her the sunny side of things, she will thank you for it.

37.积极。积极的人往往都让人着迷。如果你能够让她看到事物积极地一面，她会因此而感谢你的。

Being a little selfish. Being slightly selfish indicates that you care a lot about yourself and your well being. This relates to confidence and importance which are attractive. Don’t be a martyr.

38.有一点点自私。有一点点自私意味着你在乎自己并关心自己的幸福。这和自信，重要这些令人着迷的特点是相关联的。不要当殉道者把自己给逼死。

Being generous. The complete opposite of being selfish, being generous can be attractive as well because it demonstrates that you are not needy and that you are wealthy. Note! Being generous does NOT mean you should buy things for people so they like you… this is not attractive. A good example of being generous would be, if you’re with friends, you could purchase the pitcher of drinks. This subconsciously communicates that you are in charge, dominant and wealthy.

39.慷慨。这和自私完全相反，慷慨大方也是能够吸引人的，因为那就显示出你不贫穷和富有。记住，慷慨大方并不是说你买东西给别人，以此来让她们喜欢你。。。这不是不具吸引力的。表现慷慨大方的一个比较好的例子是：如果你和朋友一起的，你买得起一大罐酒。这就在潜意识里告诉别人你能够掌控自己的生活，你并不窘困而且富有。

Spontaneity. Very attractive, alludes to excitement.

40.不被约束，做想做的事。这样会使你非常具有吸引力，因为这也意味着和你一起会有激动兴奋。

Good hair. Having nice, healthy and well groomed hair shows that you take care of yourself.

41.一个好的发型。拥有令人赏心悦目的，健康的和梳得整齐的头发表明你把自己照顾的很好。1

Trimmed nails. Women notice, if you take care of yourself, she’ll appreciate it.

42.修剪整齐的指甲。女士们会注意到的，如果你把自己照顾好，她们会很欣赏的。

A slight tan. These days, a tan indicates that you wealthy and physically healthy.

43.稍稍棕黄色的肤色。现在的人认为棕黄一点的肤色表明你富有和身体健康。

Relaxed attitude. Being relaxed shows a lot of confidence.

44.轻松的态度。轻松自在可以很好地表现你的自信。

Being driven. If you know what you want in life, and you’re pursuing it, this is attractive.

45.有雄心干劲。如果你知道自己一生中想要什么，你就已经是在往目标奋斗了，这也会吸引她。1

Nice teeth. It is very important to have nice teeth, women think about it every time they consider kissing you.

46.美丽的牙齿。拥有美丽的牙齿很重要，女人每次想到亲你的时候都会联想到你的牙齿。1

Having nice possessions, such as a car, house or a boat. These indicate wealth, excitement and power, all of which are attractive.

47.拥有华丽的财产，诸如汽车，房子，船等东西。这些东西意味着财富，兴奋，和能力，所有这些东西都是很迷人的。1

A sense of adventure. If you’re curious about life, and are willing to take risks. You can lure her into your world and she’ll be happy to follow you past her limits.

48.冒险精神。如果你对生活感兴趣，并乐于冒险，你就能够把她引诱到你的世界，而她也会乐于跟随你，即使是突破她们的底线。1

Honesty. Being able to speak the truth is difficult and shows that you have accepted who you are as a person. It also shows that you don’t care what others think, which is very attractive.

49.诚实。说真话是一件不容易的事，说真话表明你接受了你是一个人，那也表明你坚持自己认为对的，不在乎别人的看法，这也是很具吸引力的。2

Whispering in her ear. The sense of secrecy, mysteriousness and excitement that comes from a whisper is very attractive.

50.和她耳语。替人保守秘密的感觉，通过耳语带来的神秘感和兴奋的感觉是很令人着迷的。

Being busy. If you are busy, then you are important, independent and have a life.

51.忙碌。如果你忙，那就说明你重要，独立，过得充实。

Being a man. Women love men who do manly things, stop doing yoga and go play a sport, hit the gym and get dirty.

52.有男子气概。女人喜欢男人做有男子气概一点的事，不要再练瑜伽了，转而去做运动，去运动场上锻炼，不要怕弄脏你自己。

Having a nice butt. A sexy fitness indicator, attainable through the gym.

53.迷人的臀部。臀部是性感的标志，可以通过在体育馆的锻炼获得。

Pre-selection. If other women want you, then there must be a reason. Having many people want you makes you attractive. You aren’t a guy who has time to look at personals.

54.筛选恋人。如果其他女性想得到你，那么肯定是有理由的，让许多女性想要得到你将会让你对女性很有吸引力。但你并没有时间去和每个人都交往。

Being genuine. Say what you mean and do what you say. This is hard, but attractive.

55.真实。说自己想说的话，做自己想做的事。这虽然有点难，但是这会让你很迷人。1

Physically picking her up. Ever heard of sweeping her off her feet? This is it.

56.自然地追求她。听过“博得她的欢心”吗？就是要这样子。

Touching her hair. There is something about having your hair touched that is relaxing and arousing at the same time.

57.触摸她的头发。头发被抚触会让人感觉到轻松愉快并且会激发内心的感觉。

A nice face. Women love men with an attractive face. That’s what she’ll be kissing and you better believe it makes a difference.

58.英俊的脸庞。女性们都喜欢拥有迷人脸蛋的男士。因为那里可能是她将来要亲吻的地方，你最好相信这的确重要。

Originality. Women crave excitement, originality provides that. Seduction is never the same and being original is an essential part of it.

59.有创造性。女性们渴望兴奋感。创造性就能够给到她们那种感觉。创造性是使你对她的诱惑永远不不显得老套所必备的。1

Experience. Maturity can be very arousing; if you know what you’re doing she’ll appreciate it and you’ll get laid more often.

60.做事老练。成熟可以使你很振奋人心。如果你清楚自己正在做什么，她们会欣赏你的。你也会因此而容易追到女孩子。

Speaking to her true self. If you can see past the walls that most people put and truly speak to the real person inside of them, you’ll be one of the few that understands them. This makes you very important.

61.和真正的她交流。如果你能够穿过人们在交往时设置的防线，并且能够与真实的她进行心与心的沟通，那么你将会成为仅有几个了解她的人的其中一员。这回让你在她心目中变得很重要。

Independence. People don’t like neediness, being independent shows that you are self sufficient and can take care of yourself.

62.自立。人们不喜欢贫穷，自立意味着你能够养活自己并能够照顾好自己。

Teasing her. Playfulness, excitement, she loves it.

63.逗弄她。活泼俏皮，兴奋感，都是她所爱。

Composure. If you can keep your cool under stressful situations, she'll notice.

64.镇定沉着。如果你能够在有压力的情况下显得冷静，她会注意到的。

Being selective. If you are selective, then it implies that you aren’t needy and are valuable enough to want many people want you.

65.会挑选东西。如果你懂得如何精心挑选。那么就意味着你不贫困且值得人们去喜欢。

Being challenging. Playing hard to get is as true for women as it is for men. People want what they can’t have, and if they have to work for something, they’ll appreciate it much more.

66.富有挑战性。要表现的不轻易让对方得到，这不仅适用于女性，男性也是适用这一点的。人们渴望得到他们不能得到的东西，如果是她们经过努力后才获得的东西，她们会更加珍惜。

Focus. If you know what you want, and are determined to get it, then that’s attractive.

67.专注。如果你知道自己想要什么并且下定决心要得到，这也是令人着迷的。

Modesty. No one likes a show-off. Being modest is great, and attractive. There is nothing better than a girl finding out something good about you through a friend.

68.谦逊。没人会喜欢爱表现的人。谦虚是一种很好且很吸引人的品质。没有什么东西会比女生通过她的朋友发觉你的优点来的更好了。

Muscular abs. An indicator of health.

69.发达的腹肌。这是健康的一个标志。

Being natural. If you’re genuine about how you feel, without caring what others think, then that’s attractive. You want to know if people can handle the real you.

70.自然。如果你真实地表现自己的感受，不在乎别人的看法，这也会吸引人。你可能会想知道人们怎么对待真实的你。

Charismatic. If your spoken words and gestures can warm up a room, she’ll notice and be warmed up as well. If she doesn’t, her matchmaking friend will tell her about you.

71.有感召力或者领袖气质。如果你说的话和姿势能够使激励整个房间的人，她也会注意到并且也会被你所鼓舞。如果她没发觉，那么她的媒人朋友也会把你的事迹告诉她。1

Sensual. Some people are frigid and cold. Some people are warm and very alert to their senses. If you are in tune with your body, you’ll likely be in tune with hers as well.

72.放荡不拘。一些人会冷漠或者冷淡。一些人比较热情，对自己的感觉也比较敏感。如果你能够和你的身体合拍，那么你也很可能会和她的身体合拍。1

A man that loves to have fun. Everyone wants to be around a guy who enjoys himself, be that guy.

73.当一个喜欢快乐地生活的人。人人都喜欢和一个过的快乐的人呆在一起，现在就把你自己塑造成那样的人吧。1

Goes against the rest of society. No one likes a follower. If you have a conviction about something, stick with it. Make up your own mind about things and people will respect you.

74.与众不同。没人会喜欢人云亦云的人。如果你对某事有自己的信念，那就坚持吧！下定决心去做事，别人会因此而尊敬你。

Caring. Compassion and caring show that you will be a good father and is therefore very attractive.

75.有同情心。有怜悯同情之心和懂的关心表明你将是一个好爸爸，因此这也是很吸引人的。

Persistent. If you go after your goals, other will notice. This is very attractive as it shows will power that not many people have.

76.坚持。当你在向自己目标努力地时候，别人会发现的。这是非常具有迷人的，因为那会展现许多人所没有的意志力。

Being respected. If your entourage respects you, then she will as well.

77.被尊敬。如果你的伙伴尊敬你，那么她也会尊敬你。

Loyal. People do not want to get hurt, and will avoid you if aren’t loyal. It is better to remain single than to get into a relationship you don’t plan on staying in.

78.忠诚。人都不希望受伤害，如果你不忠诚，她们就会避开你。所以如果你不准备长期保持的恋情，那最好还是保持单身。

Romance. Spicing it up in a relationship is critical and attractive. Don’t always do the same thing because it will get boring really fast.

79.浪漫。给你们的恋情增添情趣是很关键很诱人的。不要老是做同样的事情，因为那样会让她很快就会感到厌倦。

Drama. Ever wonder why women love soap opera’s? It is because they crave drama, gossip, secrets. It is exciting and attractive. If you have an eventful life, people will be attracted to it.

80.戏剧般丰富多彩的生活。有没有想过为什么女士们这么喜欢肥皂剧呢？因为他们渴望戏剧般精彩的生活，流言，秘密。这是让她们很兴奋和很吸引她们的。

The way you move. If you have calm, controlled and relaxed gestures, then you will be seen as someone that is confident.

81.你走路的方式。如果你有冷静，有规律，和放松的姿势，那么别人会觉得你是一个自信的人。

A mysterious grin. There’s something about a grin that arouses curiosity and intrigue.

82.诡秘的嬉笑。有人会被你的坏笑给激起好奇心和兴趣的。

Being extravagant. Sometimes going over the top is good, if you can let yourself go from time to time, people will notice.

83.放纵不羁。有时脱离束缚是好的，如果你能够让自己一次又一次地冲破束缚，人们会注意到你的。1

Loving yourself. If you truly love yourself for who you are, then others will as well.

84.喜欢现在的自己。如果你真的爱你自己，那么别人也会。

Being a teacher. Have you ever wondered why so many girls have crushes on their teachers? It is because being a teacher is a sign of power and knowledge, be a teacher.

85.当一名教师。你是否曾经疑惑为什么那么多的女生迷恋她们的老师呢？其实那是因为教师是权力和知识的标志。你也去当一名教师吧！

Clean, clear skin. Physically, nice skin is a health indicator and women will naturally be attracted to healthy looking skin.

86.干净，清爽的肌肤。身体上，漂亮的皮肤是健康的标志，女性们会自然而然地被你那看起来很健康的皮肤所吸引的。

Being energetic. Have you ever heard the expression, “he was the life of the party” This is energy, its contagious and most people don’t have enough of it. It is very attractive.

87.有活力。你是否听说过这么一句话：“他的生活除了派对还是派对”。这就是活力，活力不仅能感染人，而且但部分人都不够。这也是很吸引人的。

Being passionate. Be in the moment and enjoy life every day. It’s not about the destination, but about the journey. You’ll find your true love along the way.

88.有激情。享受生活的每一刻。人生重要的不是终点，而是旅途的过程。在这段旅程中你会找到你的真爱的。

Quick mind. If you can think on your feet, and are quick to reply to her playful teases, you’ll be seen as smart and alert. A woman would rather be with a man that stimulates her intellectually rather than someone who is brain dead. It is much better to find something original to say on the spot rather than to use pick up lines.

头脑灵活。如果你能够反应迅速，随机应变并能够快速的对她的逗趣玩笑做出反应，那么她会认为你聪明又机灵。女人都更喜欢和一个激发她智慧的人在一起，而不愿和一个呆瓜在一起。随时随地做出说一些有新意的话肯定比人人都在说的搭讪台词好啦。

Attentive to details. It’s the little things that matter, if you notice that she’s done something different with her hair when no one else does, she will appreciate and be attracted to that.

90.注重细节。细节决定成败，如果当其他人都没有发现她的头发有所不同的时候，你却发现了，她会欣赏你的细心并被你所吸引的。

Convicted and has strong beliefs. Be opinionated about things. If you ask someone a question about a topic and they have something interested to say about it, that’s attractive. Be opinionated.

91.有自己的价值观和有强烈的信念。对事物有自己的看法。当人们被问到一个关于某个话题的问题的时候，他们能够就这个话题说出一些有趣的东西，这就会很吸引人。做一个懂的发表自己看法的人吧。

Being in tune with her. Being in tune with someone is one of the biggest factors in relationships. Have you ever felt chemistry? Have you ever felt like you were on the same wavelength? If you and your partner are similar (and you should!) this will come naturally and will be one of the most attractive traits. The same applies for meeting women during the day or night. If you’re picking up a girl in a club, then high energy is appropriate because your energy will be matching hers. If you arrive with high energy during the day and she is reading in the library, this will clash. Read the article on how to approach girls for more information.

92.与她合拍有默契。合拍是情侣关系其中的一个最重要的因素。你们两个曾经感觉到好像总是互相吸引吗？你们是否感觉到好像两个人总是观点一致。如果你和你的伴侣很多方面是趋向于相似的（你们也应该这样！），这会自然而然地发生，并且将是最吸引人的特征之一。这在白天或者晚上和女性约会的时候同样适用。如果你正在追求一个酒吧里的女孩，那么比较适合的就是你的精力也比较充沛，因为你的的精力和她相符合。如果你白天的时候精力充沛，而她却在图书馆里阅读，这就会产生冲突了。读一下这篇关于《如何靠近女孩子》的文章来了解更多吧。2

Being attentive to details in your life. Are you meticulous? Being attentive to the details in your life will mean that you will pay attention to the details in her life.

93.关注生活中的细节。你做事非常仔细吗？注重生活中的细节意味着你也会关注她生活中的细节。

Being knowledgeable about various subjects. If you are versatile, then you’ll never be short of conversational topics. Being flexible and able to adapt to all kinds of situations is attractive. Go read some books.

94.具备多个学科的知识。如果你有多种学问，那么你谈话时就不会缺少话题了。能够在各种情形下灵活的转变是很吸引人的。还不快去多读点书。1

Innocence. It’s no fun when you know everything, have tried everything and have been to the edge and back. A little bit of innocence is attractive because it makes you more human. There’s always something that you haven’t tried, let her know and invite you to try it with you. Asking for her advice is alright as well.

95.天真。无所不知并浅尝则止接触过了很多东西并不是那么有趣。稍微天真一点会让你更具吸引力，因为那样会让你更想一个一般人。肯定有东西是你还没有尝试过的，让她知道并邀请她和你一起尝试。询问她的建议也可以。1

Challenging her. Forcing her to be on her toes, teasing her, is exciting and attractive.

96.挑战她。使她窘困，逗趣他，那是很让她兴奋和吸引她的。

Be a planner. If you are always organising events, you are automatically the leader that has a high social status and a lot of energy. This is very attractive; everyone wants to be invited to outings.

97.当一个策划人。如果你总是在组织活动和事件，那么无形中就是一个拥有较高社会地位和很有活力的领导者。这很吸引人，因为每个人都想被邀请出去郊游或者远足。

Being open. Tell her about your life, the real one. Cut the B.S. and you’ll stand out as someone who’s not trying to prove anything to anyone.

98.敞开心扉。告诉她有关你的人生，记住是那个真是的你。把那些废话都去掉，这样才会让人感觉到你并不是想向谁证明什么。2

Being direct. Being direct is very powerful and attractive. People use indirect methods because they want to ‘feel things out’ and not get hurt. Being direct shows that you are confident, bold and not scared of rejection.

99.清楚直接地表白。直接是很有作用的且很吸引她的。人们用之所以要委婉是因为他们想让自己的意思“被感觉到”，那样就不那么容易受伤害。直接的表白会让她感觉到你的自信，勇敢和无畏被拒绝。5

Be yourself, the good yourself. You shouldn’t try to pretend to be something that you aren’t. You should grow and continually improve, but remain genuine. Don’t hide your faults, everyone has them. The old saying,” be yourself” is very true and is ultimately what will attract the woman of your dreams.

100.做你自己，发扬你自己的优点。你不应该装出成为另一个和你自己不相同的人。你应该成长起来并继续提高，但是你应该保留自己最真实的一面。不要掩盖自己的缺点，因为每个人都会有缺点。正如一句老话所说：“做你自己”，这很正确，同时也是吸引你梦中情人的最根本的一点。1

Does it mean that you have to be all these things in order to attract beautiful women into your life? No way! The universe has a weird way of working and you’ll be attracted to the one you were meant to be with. She’ll love your faults, your weaknesses and your strengths. Have faith, believe in destiny and you shall meet your soul mate. You’ll know it when it happens.

想要吸引漂亮的女生进入你的生命是否就意味着你一定要具备所有这些东西呢？肯定不是啦！宇宙有着一套奇怪的运转模式，你将会被你生命中的那个人所吸引。她会爱你的缺点，她既会爱你的弱点也会爱你的优点。要有信心，相信命运终会让你遇到你的心灵伴侣。当它到来的时候你会发现的。1

Digg it!

顶一下哦！