坦白说吧,以我个人观点真的不赞成”裸婚”,人的一生就一次,真的希望风风光光的.
Frankly to say , in my opinion I don’t agree with the “Naked wedding “. In one’s life , just have the one marry , everyone hope that rich and colorful . 在我身边就有一个活生生的例子,确确实实说是裸婚吧.当时我还参加了她所谓的婚礼(其实就是和BB的满月酒一起办), 没有装修如画的房子,没有纵贯半条马路的车队,没有亲朋纷至的宴会,没有特别订制的衣装,只有两人手中各持一个的红本本见证,这就是他们的婚礼。看着让我感到心酸.她当时不顾父母的反对,毅然和他结婚了,记得她和我说的一句”我用我一生的幸福作赌注”,不管我怎么的劝说都无济于事,你太傻了。。. Have an example in my life , that is the Naked Wedding for sure . In that time , I had joined her wedding ( accturly , that is the party with her baby ) . No delicated house, no bride team, no banquet for the relatives and no custom-made wedding dresses. The only thing that Duan and Wang had were just two certificates proving their marriage to be legal . when I see the everything , I was so dowdy . She against the wishes of her parents, resolutely, and he married . I had rememberd that she said “ she would use her happiness of one life to stake “ no matter how I persuade , it all fell apart . You are so silly . 如今,她却要说真的很想离婚,这样的生活真的没法过了,我不禁问了一句BB怎么办? Now , she said she want to divorce , she can not suffer from this live , I compulsive to ask the baby how to do ? 我们要认清一个观点,爱情可以风花雪月,婚姻却是柴米油盐,没有物质作基础的,再璀璨的爱情也会凋谢的. We are all to identify a point of view , love can be romantic , but the marriage is rice and salt , If there was no material as a basis, and then love will be withered bright. 我喜欢他,我爱他,并不是爱他的物质,并不需要现车,现房,而是爱上了他的才华横溢,品德兼优,他就是一个潜力股.通过我俩的努力,相信以后的日子会过得滋润. I like him , and l love him , by no means his money , by no means that he have car , have villa now , but for him brilliant ,character , and he has potential , has ability , by our efforts , believe that we would have better live . 所以我的爱情是细水流长的,我们的婚姻是经得起考验的.只要我们共同努力创造了一切,再结婚吧. So our love is a long thin flow , our marriage will stand the test of . As long as we work together to create everything, and then get married . |
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