一个夫妻处理家庭关系的铁律,那就是:坚决不在对方家人面前做恶人!这是处理好婆媳以及家族矛盾的金钥匙。
几点建议:
2)怀孕及哺乳期尽可能岳母照顾孕妇;(怀孕妇女更需照顾,矛盾多发,亲妈尚可抵御)
二、丈夫篇 基础理念: 1)自强自立,坚决不做啃老族; 2)婆婆不是媳妇亲妈,凡事自己多主动,对媳妇要求不要太高; 3)婆媳问题关键在丈夫,对媳妇要引导而不是斥责。 技巧秘籍 1)创造条件,让婆媳保持适当的距离;(朝夕相处,矛盾自生) 2)劝说婆婆免于照顾怀孕或者生育的媳妇;(矛盾多发,适当避让) 3)撑面子讨好的事让媳妇干;(诸如:给婆婆送钱、送礼、问候……) 4)容易得罪婆婆的原则性问题丈夫出头;(毕竟是亲的,仇恨大不到哪里去) 5)创造解决夫妻矛盾的私人空间,婆婆在场时,尽量避免夫妻矛盾;(儿子情绪好,婆婆情绪就不会差) 6)做婆婆和媳妇的桥梁,间接传递友好信息;(背后的传言更能打动人) 7)坚决不在婆婆面前抱怨媳妇。(婆婆为儿子出头,自然激发矛盾)
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