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从8个月大的小孩那儿得到的8个启示

 词叟 2011-09-05

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从8个月大的小孩那儿得到的8个启示

 

    

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婴儿是上帝赐予你的礼物,她既丰富了你的内心情感,也同时成为你的一个激励大师。

How?

怎么会这样呢?

In fact, she can be your biggest motivator if you pay close attention to her activities.

Let me share with you some interesting observations that I believe serve as great motivational lessons.

事实上,如果你关注她的一举一动,她能成为你最重要的激励大师。让我跟你分享我观察到的一些有趣的东西,我相信它将成为伟大的激励课程。

1. Innocence

1、天真

Just look at the innocent activities the baby does. Sometimes, they may not make any sense to others but the baby gets herself involved in those small happy activities.

看看婴儿们那些天真的举动。有时,他们的举动对于大人来说没有任何意义,但婴儿能完全沉浸在那小而快乐的活动中。

That’s innocence. Happiness has its root in innocence.

这就是天真的表现。快乐蕴含在天真烂漫中。

We, adults on the other hand are getting drowned in information, bath in knowledge pools. With every information on our fingertips, we have lost our innocence to overload of information.

另一方面,我们成年人被信息所淹没,在知识的海洋中翻滚。随着指尖流淌的信息,在背负这些信息的同时我们已经丧失了天真烂漫的特质。

Can we turn OFF the information channel for a moment and live and experience happiness in innocent ways?

我们能够关闭一下这些信息渠道吗,用一种天真烂漫的方式去享受一下生活?

 2. Curiosity for learning new things

4. Struggle is natural

4、奋斗是本性。

Baby struggles to crawl, she fails. She holds the edge of door to stand, but she slips and falls. She cries for help but she continues her struggle to stand. Baby finally succeeds and the victory is clearly visible in baby’s sparkling eyes.

婴儿挣扎着爬起来,她失败了。她抓住门的边缘站起来,但她滑倒在地。她哭着嚷着寻求帮助的同时继续挣扎着站起来。婴儿最后成功了,胜利在婴儿闪烁的眼睛里清晰可见。

That’s the way the things are learnt, methods are explored and victories are enjoyed. Struggle is natural. It’s the way we humans have always created amazing things.

这就是婴儿学到东西,探索方法,享受成功的方式。奋斗是一种本性。这是我们人类创造奇迹的一种方式。

Why we adults run away from struggle? Why do we look for shortcuts? Let’s all of us get inspired and realize our goals by putting hard work. Struggle keeps you moving, no matter what the speed is. Struggle is beautiful.

为什么我们成年人总远离奋斗?为什么我们只看到劣势?让我们受到启示,从而意识到我们的目标是通过努力工作获得的。无论多慢或多快,奋斗促使你前进。奋斗是美丽的。

5. Forgiveness

5、谅解

A baby never keeps anything in heart though you might have showed your irritation to her. She might have felt bad at that moment and that’s the end of story. Next time, when you meet her, she is a breeze again.She has forgiven you already. What a wonderful example of human element.

婴儿从来不会把你对她的厌烦记在心里。也许当时她会感到不舒服,但也就仅此而已。下次,你遇见她,她又和你嬉戏。她早已原谅了你。这是多么好的一个人为因素的例子。

This is something, we all need to practice and implement in our own lives. Have a great heart, consciously ignore minor mistakes of others and give them a chance to correct, excel and grow in the life. When you help others grow, you grow even more.

我们时刻需要去谅解别人,将它融入到我们各自的生活中去。怀有一颗包容的心,潜意识地忽视别人的小错误,给他们一次机会去改正、超越和成长。当你帮助别人成长,你会成长更多。

6. Trust

6、信任

Baby completely trusts you. The trust is always 100%. She is fearless; she believes that you are always there for her. When you throw her up in the air for play, she laughs instead of crying. That’s the beauty of trust. She trusts you that you will hold her anyways when she is falling back.

婴儿会完完全全地信任你。这种信任是100%的。她不会害怕,她相信你会永远对她好。当你留她在外面玩耍,她会开心而不是难过。这就是信任的动人之处。她相信在任何时候,当她要摔倒时,你都会扯住她。

So, if you trust someone, trust them 100%. There is no mid-way here. Complete trust can create wonderful and long lasting relationships.

所以,如果你信任某人,就100%地相信她。这没有折中。完完全全的信任能够创造出美好而持久的关系。

7. Laugh From The Heart

7、发自内心的笑

When was the last time you laughed loudly? We can surely get inspiration from the baby from the way she laughs when she feels good. She laughs from heart.

你上一次开怀大笑是什么时候?我们绝对能从开心就笑的婴儿那得到启示。她是发自内心地笑。

Aren’t we so busy in life that we don’t even have time for laughing loudly? See the humor in small things, laugh and relieve stress. Laughter is the best medicine, indeed.

难道我们是太忙碌了以至于没有时间开怀大笑吗?关注蕴含在细小事物中的幽默,大笑一下从而舒缓压力。大笑确实是最好的良药。

8. Unconditional love

8、无条件的爱

Baby loves you unconditionally. In the heart of the little baby, resides the greatest wealth on the earth, love.

婴儿会无条件地爱你。在小婴儿的内心,存放着世上最大的财富,爱。

I am leaving this space intentionally blank for you….

我有意留下这空白的空间给你……

 

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2、学习新东西的好奇心

A baby has amazing curiosity to see, explore and for understanding how things work. She interprets the lip moments, learns entirely new language, and understands mannerisms at a stage of life where she still does not have any base language. Isn’t it incredible?

婴儿会带着惊人的好奇心去看待、探索和理解事情是怎样发展的。他不会说话,用嘴唇来解释、学习新语言,理解特殊习惯。这是不是很不可思议?

We, adults, why are we so rigid when it comes to learning new things? Why we let our curiosity factor die even though it's still green inside us?

我们成年人为何会如此排斥去了解新的东西?为什么我们会丧失好奇心,即便它仍旧存在在我们的内心?

Aren’t we equipped with so many tools for learning?

我们不是有许多方式去学习吗?

3. Live life in present

3、活在当下

A baby always lives the life in present. No neither has worries of yesterday, nor plans of tomorrow. Isn’t it a beautiful way to live? Live in the present moment.

婴儿总是活在当下。无论昨天有多少烦恼,或是明天又怎样的计划。这难道不是一种悠闲地活着的姿态吗?活在当下这一时刻。

Why do we adults surround ourselves with past regrets and future plans? Why do we miss to live in today, in the present moment? Let’s enjoy the “now”. Bring back your mind from past regrets and future worries and sync it with today.

为什么我们成年人要用过去的懊悔和未来的计划把自己包围起来呢?为什么我们会错过活在今天,活在当下这一时刻呢?让我们享受现在吧。使你的思想从过去的懊悔和对未来的担忧中脱离,让你的思想与今天同步。

 

                                                                         

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