I'm going to be showing you how to forget a girl. We've all liked a girl that hasn't liked us back. Whether you are an amazing player when you get loads of girls for fun or you're guy who has trouble speaking to any girl at all, we've all liked someone and they haven't returned that affection.
Here's how to forget that person. First of all, take the positives out of the situation. Then, tell yourself "Why didn't I get this person's attention"? "Why didn't I get this person to go out with me"? This is not going to be a negative experience where you are going to go, "Oh, I didn't have any girl because I'm boring", or "I didn't have any girl because of this".
Think about it. Do I make my affection known to them? Did I make enough of an effort to make them like me? Did I talk in a way which made them know that I liked them? Analyze your posture and your body language. Think next time when you speak to someone that you really like.
Think of it like this, when you're speaking to somebody you really like, "Do I keep my shoulders back? Am I relaxed? Do I hang chat"? You really shouldn't hang chat when you talk with someone you like because it's defensive. It puts a barrier across. If you're going to forget the girl that you used to like and move to talking to new girls that you do like, we are going to take the little parts of you that are slowly wrong and change them and turn you into a polished new package.
When you are trying to forget a girl, it's really hard to forget and get over them if you are constantly reminded about them. If they are there everywhere you look, if these reminders of them are there, so what you're going to do is you are going to take your confident brand new self out with a new group of friends and this might sound harsh to your old mates but it's not. You're not really going to forget your old mates but you are just going to meet some new friends temporarily because they are going to introduce you to new people and you will be going out of town to new places and you will have a good time.
It's often very hard if you are in the same group of friends to meet new people. You tend to know all of their friends very quickly. You tend to know all the people that you hang around with.
You don't get to meet new people. So, it's easy for you to meet someone that you do like and you can be fixated with them because you don't meet anyone else you like. Why don't you set yourself right out there and go out and try to meet as many new people that you might like as possible? That was how to forget a girl.
如何忘掉一个妹子
嗨，大家好，我是安迪.琼斯。我是约会，恋爱以及嘿咻方面的专家。
我来告诉你们怎么忘掉一个妹子。我们都曾迷恋过从来没鸟过我们的妹子。不关你是把着一坨妹子的情圣，还是和任何女生交流都障碍的哥们儿，我们都爱过某些人，而她们从不知恩图报。
忘掉一个人，首先从中吸取经验教训。问问自己：“我引起过她的注意幺?”“为神马我没法把她约出来呢？”搞清楚这些问题挺有意义的。“哦，我单身至今是因为我无聊透顶。”或是“我但是是因为这个那个。”
仔细想想。我有向她吐露过心声幺？我有做足够的努力让她喜欢上我幺？我有通过任何方式告诉她我喜欢她幺？钻研一下你的造型和肢体语言。想想下次你和一个真心喜欢的妹子聊天时（该怎么做）。
当你在和心上人聊天时，想想这些问题，“我耸肩了麽？我会不会太紧张了？我有刻意停止谈话幺？”在和心上人聊天时你真的不该刻意收场，因为这显得你自闭了。这样无异于将一道铁犁横与身前。如果你想忘记一个你喜欢过的妹子，并找另一个正迷恋着的妹子聊天，我们就去掉这些小小的瑕疵，让你
改头换面。
当你在努力忘记一个妹子的时候，如果你还总是对她肠牵肚挂，那真正忘掉并从中缓过神来还是挺难的。如果你目之所及总是她的影子，如果她的音容笑貌无处不在，那么你就该重振自信，和一帮新朋友出去。这可能会伤到老朋友，但其实不是这样的。你并不是要真的忘记你的老朋友们，你只是偶尔见见新朋友，因为他们会向你介绍更多的人，而且你也会出城去到新的地方，换一个心情。
总和相同的一帮人赖在一起可不容易交到新朋友。你总是很快就认识了他们的所有朋友，总是很快认识了所有一起出去玩的人。
你不交新的朋友，所以你总会是不是见到心爱的妹子，你会一直对她恋恋不舍，因为你不会遇到下一个意中人。为什麽不把自己从泥潭里拉出来，尝试着认识你可能会喜欢的新朋友，越多越好。这就是如何忘掉一个妹子。
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