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《悬崖前的困惑》
前面就是悬崖，百丈深渊。你清楚地知道，它近在咫尺。 你看见你爱的人或者是你在乎的人，他可能是你的配偶，可能是你的子女，可能是你的亲人，可能是你的闺蜜或者是发小，可能是你最亲密的朋友，在一步步走向这悬崖，而浑然不知。你会怎么办？
你一定会说：你一定会奋力阻拦。问题是：你如果知道阻拦是徒劳的怎么办？是顺其自然，让他在生命的最后时刻还留有片刻的幸福时光，还是奋力阻拦，让他在最后时刻带着伤心离去？
对于最终的死者，顺其自然是幸福的。对于我，看着自己心爱的人一步步走向悬崖而无所作为，心里一定会忍受着百倍的痛苦煎熬。如果我奋力阻拦，我的心里是得到了暂时的安慰，但是我心爱的人却可能在生命的最后时刻恨我。孰是孰非，我在困惑之中。。。
Comprehend life -- Confusion in front of the cliff
You see the cliff, the abyss. You are well aware that it is so close.
You see your beloved one or someone you care about, who may be your spouse, may be your child, may be one of your relatives, may be one of your friends playing together when you were a toddler, may be one of your closest friends, walking forward, step-by-step to a cliff, but unaware. What would you do?
You will say: you will be struggling to stop him.
The question is: What if you know that your stop will be in vain? Let him go and leave him a moment of happiness in his final moments, or do your best to stop him and leave him at the last moment with sad?
To the person to be dead, he will be happy when he follows the flow of the nature. For me, watching my beloved one moving forward, step-by-step, to the cliff and do nothing, my heart will suffer a hundred times the painful torment. If I was trying to stop him, my heart can get temporary relief, but my beloved one may hate me in the final moments of life. Right and wrong, I am in the confusion. . . |
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