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攻克拖延症

 蕙籣留香 2012-08-16

肯尼Kenny

许多年前,当我还在路易斯安那州立大学(LSU)读书的时候,拖延症这个坏习惯可真把我给害惨了。每逢大考前一天晚上我总会洗洗衣服、打扫打扫宿舍楼,或者是修理我的发型,而不是去复习迎考。

自那以后我就决心去攻克拖延症,下面就是我的经验心得;

克服拖延症第一步:

告诉自己手头有充足的时间去完成一项任务。

要是你每天只能通过透晰治疗机才能够维持生命,你会腾出时间去完成某项任务吗?还是说,“我都快要死了,哪有空去做这等事!”

去年,我在我医生的办公室里等体检报告,发现墙上贴了一副漫画简报。画中有一个看上去非常忙碌的商人站在他的医生的办公室里,手上拿着一份不乐观的体检报告和医生说着什么。从画上就可以看出来他超重了。医生对这个商人说,“我觉得你最好还是每天锻炼1小时,要不然你就是死气沉沉地度过了24小时。”除了幽默之外,这幅卡通宣传画还道出了非常重要的一点,那就是对事情进行优先排序。为了实现你的梦想,你必须要腾出一些时间去行动。

对于人生中的大多数梦想而言,只要你每天都留出1个小时去做这件事,你就能最终实现它。每天卖力地奋斗一个小时,一年加起来就是360个小时。这么多时间足够你减掉40磅肥肉,也能让你多花些时间陪孩子,或是创业,也可以去提升一下自己的高尔夫球技术。阅读:一万小时天才理论

克服拖延症第二步:

开始行动。

耐克公司的标语就是“开始行动”。立刻开始行动要比正确地去做一件事更加重要。现在就开始行动的话,你就会犯更多的错误,这样你成功的可能性也就大大提高了。

有句名言是这么说的,“伟大,就是勇于做梦;当你青春年少时,意气风发;但拥有更难忘的人生经历就在于向命运发起挑战,在你走到终点时可以说声‘梦想成真了’。“奋斗是人生过程中不可缺少的一部分,而此时此刻便是开始奋斗的最佳时机。

记住:成功人士之所以成功就是因为他们做了别人不愿意去做的事情,所以,现在就开始行动吧。阅读:Outliers异类:不一样的成功启示录)。

克服拖延症第三步:

做重要的事情,其它的事先放一边。

哪些事情对你来说是重要的呢(如,创业,择偶等)?列份清单出来吧。而且一定要确定你每天所做的事情都能够让你离目标更近一步。如果你想去芝加哥,而你目前居住在洛杉矶,那么只要朝着芝加哥的方向前进,你最终就会到达目的地。所以不要浪费时间了,快点制定计划吧!

制定计划是非常重要的,它自有其重要的地位。但要是你稍不留意的话,你就会纠结于制定出一个万全之策的话,你就很少去采取实际行动。所以,当你有了一个粗略的计划之后,立刻就开始行动。细节方面的东西你慢慢地就会知道的,要是你等到明天再去行动的话,你可能就会一直拖延下去。

克服拖延症第四步:

制定一个有截止期限的短期目标。

基于你的主要目标去设定一个为期3个月或6个月的短期目标,这样能让你保持良好的势头继续走下去。如果你只有一个五年计划的话,你很容易就会陷入拖延的泥沼中。

实现长期目标需要你投入更多的时间与耐心,这意味着这一过程会少一些愉悦。所以,把你的长期目标分解成几个短期目标的话,会让你产生更多的成就感。

对于这些短期目标,你必须要定期地对其进行评估。至少一周一次,最好是一天一次。

克服拖延症第五步:

确定自己工作效率最高的时间段,依此来安排计划。

有些人在早上工作效率不错,就像我一样;也有人在晚上工作很有效率;还有的人喜欢在深夜工作。其中的关键就是要找出属于自己的最佳工作时间段,并且把最重要的任务都安排到这段时间里去完成。当我还在读大学的时候,我喜欢在清晨的时候去学习。因为在那个时候我的思路非常清晰、精力非常充沛、动力十足,和任何一个时间段相比我在此时的效率也更高。

克服拖延症第六步:

随身携带一本记事簿。

当你在做重要的任务之时,你手头要准备一本记事簿。在开始学习之前(读大学时),我脑子里总会闪现其它的一些想法。比如,”最好还是先把房间打扫干净吧,因为整洁的环境有益于我思考。“这个想法很不错,也很靠谱,不过要是在考试前一天晚上去打扫房间就显得有些主次不清了。此外,有时我也会冒出这样的想法,”先给父母亲打个电话吧,有好长时间都没和他们联系了。“这是应该要去做的事情,不过不是优先级别最高的事情。

手头有记事簿的话(大部分手机都有记事簿功能),你就可以把这些想法都记录下来,然后在选一个恰当的时间去做这些事。写下这些事情,然后安排好你的时间去完成这些任务(如,晚六点去洗衣服等),这样你就对自己要做的事情有个清晰明确的认识了,也能更好地掌控自己的生活。总之,这样做能让你思路清晰并把注意力都放在手头的任务上去。

现在你已经知道了克服拖延症的6个步骤了,那就立刻去行动吧。阅读:拖延心理学

记住,所有的成功人士都是行动的巨人,所以现在就开始行动。做一些事情,然后就会有改变发生;除非你作出改变,否则是不会有改变的。 

6 Steps to Overcoming Procrastination

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Dear Mr. Self Development,

How do you overcome procrastination?

Kenny

Years ago when I attended Louisiana State University (LSU), I suffered badly from procrastination -itis. Every night before a big exam, instead of studying, I would be washing clothes, cleaning my dorm, or trimming my hair. 

This article is about what I have learned since then, to end my procrastination -itis.

Overcoming Procrastination Step 1:

Recognize that you currently have enough time to accomplish your task – If you needed to be connected to a dialysis machine everyday to live, would you find the time to do it, or would you say, “I’m too busy, I guess I’ll just have to die….”

I was in my doctor’s office getting a physical last year when I noticed a newspaper cartoon clipping on the wall. In the drawing was a very busy businessman in his doctor’s office….obviously overweight….talking to his doctor after getting a bad medical report on his health. The doctor said to the businessman, “What fits into your schedule better, working out one hour a day, or being dead 24 hours a day.” Although humorous, this cartoon clipping makes a great point about priorities. You must make time to accomplish your dreams.

Recognize that most things in life can be accomplished by dedicating an hour a day to it. Just one hour a day is over 360 hours per year of pure concentrated effort. In this time you could easily lose 40lbs, spend more time with your kids, start a business, or improve your golf game.

Overcoming Procrastination Step 2:

Just Do It - In the words of the Nike Corporation, “Just do it.” Doing something now is typically more important than doing it right. Doing something now gives you more time to make mistakes and thereby more time to succeed.

There’s a quote that goes something like this, “Great it is, to dream a dream, when you stand at youth, by the starry stream, but a greater thing, is to fight life through, and say at the end, the dream is true.” There has to be that fighting life through process, and there’s no time like the present to start fighting. 

Remember: Successful people do what unsuccessful people are unwilling to do, so get into action now.

Overcoming Procrastination Step 3:

Do the important things, postpone everything else - Make a list of what’s most important to you (e.g. starting a business, finding a spouse, etc.) and make sure you do something that takes you closer to that goal everyday. If you wanted to go to Chicago and you lived in Los Angeles, as long as you made steps in that direction of Chicago everyday, you would eventually get there. So don’t waste time, planning and planning and planning.

Planning is important, and it has its place, but if you’re not careful, you can get caught up in the comfort of planning and never get out there and do it in the real world.  After you create your initial plan, get started. You can learn the details along the way, if you wait until tomorrow, you may be waiting a long time.

Overcoming Procrastination Step 4:

Create Short Goals with Timelines – Three to six month goals toward your main goal can help you build momentum and keep you on track. When you only have five year goals, it can cause you to procrastinate.

Long term goals give you too much time to play with and they postpone pleasure.  Come up with short term goals that lead up to the accomplishment of your long term goals.

You should review these short term goals at least weekly, preferably daily.

Overcoming Procrastination Step 5:

Determine the time that works best for you and schedule it – Some people work well in the morning, like me, some people work well in the evening, and some strange people work well at night :) . The key is to find the time of day that works best for you, and to do your most important task during that time. When I was in college, it would have been best if I studied in the morning’s, because in the morning my mind is the clearest, I have the most energy, and I am more motivated to get things done than throughout any other time of the day.

Overcoming Procrastination Step 6:

Keep a notepad nearby – You should always keep a notepad near you when working on important tasks. When I would start studying (at LSU), I would always have ideas of other things I could be doing. A thought would come that said, “You should probably clean your room, because you think better in a cleaner environment.” That thought was important, and it was also true, but cleaning my room the night before an exam is certainly not a priority. Another thought would come and say, “Call your parents, you hadn’t talked to them in a few days,” and although true, also not a priority. 

You should keep a notepad with you (most cell phones have notepads in them) to write down these thoughts, and an appropriate time to accomplish them. Writing these ideas down, and briefly scheduling them (e.g. Wash clothes tomorrow at 6:00pm), gives you clarity on the tasks, and puts you back in control. It clears your mind and allows you to focus on the task at hand.

Now that you have the six steps to overcome procrastination, get into action right now.

Remember, all successful people become masters of taking action, so take action TODAY…right now…go do something, because change, isn’t change, until you change.

Thank you for reading mrselfdevelopment.com where every article expands your mind, increases your faith, and changes your life.

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