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如何在10分钟内发现你的人生目标?

 蕙籣留香 2012-10-23

麦克·默多克(Mike Murdock)说过,”凡被创造的皆解决了一个问题。“你的眼睛,可以看到;你的耳朵,可以听到;你的鼻子,可以闻到。凡被创造的皆解决了一个问题

你的手表解决了一个问题,它告诉你时间。你的衣服、鞋子、地毯、窗户都为你解决了某个问题。”凡被创造的,皆解决了一个问题。“

在我看来,每一个人都是为了解决某个问题而存在的;医生治病救人,会计解决财务问题,律师解决法律问题,心理医师解决心理问题。

你的存在也是为了解决某一类问题;直到你找到了那个问题,然后解决了它,你才可能会成功。找到这个问题的过程也就是找到你的人生目标的过程,解决这个问题的过程也就是实现你的人生目标的过程。

最新一项调查显示,有75%的人还没有意识到自己到底是为了解决哪一类问题而存在着的。这真是一个悲剧,因为只有当你在履行天生的使命去解决某个特定的问题时,你才能过上快乐幸福、成功美满的生活。那么,我是为了解决哪一类问题而存在着的呢我很高兴你问了这个问题,也很愿意告诉答案。

首先,我想要你拿出一支笔和一张白纸。一支笔和一张白纸,你准备好了吗?

然后,我想要你回答下面的几个问题,写在那张白纸上(可能,你没有能力全面地回答完所有问题。但你也要用尽全力,动用自己全部的知识与认识回答它们,好吗?)。每个问题都是你今天的”发现自己的人生目标“之旅上的一个个重要的指向标。

回答下列问题:

1.我喜欢做什么?我发现,所有的成功人士无不在做着自己所热爱的事情。老虎伍兹(Tiger Woods)热爱高尔夫运动,唐纳德·特朗普(Donald Trump)热爱房地产事业,托尼·罗宾斯Tony Robbins)热爱激励他人的潜能。

你的目标要与你喜欢去做的事情相关。写下你喜欢去做的事情、活动。也许你喜欢写文章,也许你喜欢聊天,也许你喜欢阅读,也许你喜欢锻炼,也许你喜欢听人讲话,也许你喜欢体育运动,也许你喜欢卖东西。

不论你喜欢的是什么,把它们统统写下来,不要有遗漏。你可以按照”我喜欢…“句式来写这份清单。

2.我看到的是什么?一位理发师能够看出别人的发型是否合适;一位设计师能够看出别人的衣服存在哪些问题;一位技师可以用耳朵听出一辆车出现了什么毛病;一位歌手可以听出别人是否走了音;一位演说家可以看出一场演讲精彩与否。那么,你看到的是什么?哪些事情吸引了你的注意力?你所看到的问题是什么?人际关系?车子?人?不论它是什么,写下来。

3.哪些事,我愿意不求回报地付出?哪些事,我想要去了解更多?哪些话题,我乐于谈论?哪些事,我要是不去尝试的话就会后悔?它是烹饪?运动?教书?还是?写下这些问题的答案。

4.要是我能到你的书房来看看的话,我会发现哪一类书籍呢?如果我发现了200本与房地产相关的书籍,那也就说明你的激情就在那里;如果我发现了300本汽车类杂志,那么你就该投身进与汽车相关的行业。如果我看到了150本小说,那就说明你想逃避现实(而这又是与本文不相干的另一范畴下的问题了,在此不讨论)。

如果你有一间书房,写下这些书的种类条目在那张纸上。

5.哪些事会激发我的创造力?哪些事我觉得自己很容易就能做到?哪些事是我所擅长的?什么让我感到快乐?它是画画?设计?健身?聊天?写文章?还是?考虑一下,写下你的答案。

暂时停一下,回顾一下你的答案。它们的共同点是什么?

想一下,拥有这种独特天赋与激情的人怎样才能取得成功呢?

然后再花几分钟时间,尽可能多地写下与你类似的人可以去尝试的任何一个职业、工作或创业方案,就好像他很清楚自己一定不会失败那样!

写完这份清单后,作一下评估。

终于,最终时刻总算到来了,在这份清单上用圈圈标出你最感兴趣、你最喜欢、你最想要去做,如果现在不去做的话就会后悔一辈子的那一件事。现在就把它给圈出来。

恭喜你,你已经找到了你的人生目标!

注:你有可能同时对两件事满怀激情,这当然也是可以的。

  • 标题:How to Discover Your Life’s Purpose in the Next 10 Minutes
  • 来源:http://www.
  • 推荐人: 花鱼雪
  • 原文作者: Mr. Self Development
  • This article will show you how to discover your life’s purpose in the next 10 minutes, but let me begin by convincing you that you have a purpose.

    It was Mike Murdock who said, “Everything created solves a problem.”  Your eyes see; your ears hear; your nose smells.

    Everything Created Solves a Problem

    Your watch solves a problem, it tells you the time.  Your shirt solves a problem, your shoes solve a problem, the carpet solves a problem, the windows solve a problem.  “Everything created, solves a problem.”

    It has been my observation that everyone created solves a problem; doctors solve medical problems, accountants solve financial problems, lawyers solve legal problems, psychologists solve mental problems.

    There’s a specific problem that you were created to solve, and you will only succeed if you discover that problem and solve it.  Finding this problem is discovering your purpose, solving this problem is accomplishing your purpose.

    According to a recent survey, 75 percent of the population is unaware of the problem they were created to solve.  This is quite tragic because you can only become truly happy and successful, doing what you were created to do.

    How do you discover the problem you were created to solve?

    I’m glad you asked; I would like to show you!

    First, I want you to get out a pen and a piece of paper.  Did you get the pen and paper?

    Secondly, I want you to answer the questions below, on the paper you just took out.  (You may not be able to completely answer to all of the questions below, but answer them to the best of your knowledge.) These questions are “sign post” on the path to discovering your purpose today.

    Answer these questions below:

    1. What do you love to do? I’ve noticed that people who are successful, do things they love to do. Tiger Woods loves to play golf, Donald Trump loves real estate, Tony Robbins loves to motivate.

    Your purpose is related to what you love to do.  Write down the activities that you love.  Maybe you love to write, maybe you love to talk, maybe you love reading, maybe you love exercising, maybe you love listening to others, maybe you love playing sports, maybe you love selling things.

    Whatever you love, write it down.  Write down as many things as you love.  You can begin by saying, “I love to…”

    2. What do you notice? A hairdresser notices someone’s hair is out of place, a designer notices a problem with your outfit, a mechanic hears something wrong with the car, a singer notices when someone’s voice is out of pitch, a speaker notices a boring speech.  What do you notice?  What grabs your attention when it’s not functioning properly?  Is it relationships, cars, people?  Whatever it is, write it down.

    3. What would you do for free? What do you love to learn about?  What do you love to talk about?  What would you regret never trying? Is it cooking, sports, teaching…write down the answers to these questions.

    4. If I was able to look in your library, what would I find? If I found 200 books on “real estate,” then maybe that’s your passion, if I found 300 car magazines, then you should probably be doing something related to cars.  If I see 150 novels, that means, you just want to escape reality (and that’s a whole ‘nother issue).

    …if you have a library, write down the types of books we would find in your library, or the kinds of books that you wish were in your library.

    5. What sparks your creativity?  What do you find easy?  What are you good at? What makes you happy? Is it painting, designing, building, speaking, writing; think about it, then write it down.

    Take a moment and review the answers to the questions you’ve just answered.  What are some commonalities?

    Think about some ways that individuals with these specific talents and passions could be successful….

    Now, take the next two to five minutes and write down as many career, job or business opportunities that someone with your passions would pursue, if they knew they could not fail!

    When you’re done with the list, take a moment to review it.

    Finally, the moment we’ve all been waiting for, circle the item on the list that you feel the most passionate about, the one that seems the most enticing to you, the one that you could see yourself doing forever, the one that deep down inside you believe you can do, the one that you would regret never trying.  Circle it now.

    Congratulations, you’ve just discovered your purpose!

    Note: You may feel equally passionate about one or two items, and that’s ok.

    Thank you for reading where every article expands your mind, increases your faith, and changes your life.

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