Mother's Day gifts that show your care最贴心的母亲节礼物导读:在这样一个表达对母亲的爱的节日里,大多数礼物都会显得那么的单薄。如果你还在为送什么母亲节礼物而发愁,不妨来听听我们的建议。
I`m not going to beat around the bush here. I`ll just say it like it is. All the hype around Mother`s Day is ridiculous. For a holiday that`s supposed to celebrate the precious relationship between a mother and her child, there sure is a lot to distract me from that relationship.
我不打算在这里绕圈子,直话直说好了。所有有关母亲节的宣传炒作都那么滑稽可笑。对于一个人们应该庆祝母亲和孩子之间的珍贵关系的节日,肯定有许多东西会分散我对这种关系的注意力。 I mean, give me a break. My mother does not need any more bath stuff. If she`s at all like me, she`s gotten enough lotion over the years to soothe her skin into the 23rd century! And she doesn`t want any chocolate. In fact, it`s my dad who likes that, way more than she does. Let`s face it. If you have a strong enough relationship with your mother to want to buy her a gift for Mother`s Day, most of the gifts out there scream GENERIC!!! Over the years, I`ve come up with some ways to give to my mom that avoid all the hype and the sappy generic-ness of the holiday as its often celebrated. As a bonus, if you think about it now, you`ll be ready for the day when it comes! Spend time with your mom I know, it`s a shocker. But the truth is that most moms I know want to hear from their kids more than they do. You can even do this if you live far away from your mom. Give her a call and let her know you want to talk for a while, or set up a phone date ahead of time so you`ll both be free to focus on each other. Then ask her about herself, how her days are going and what she`s feeling. Focus on hearing her heart. After all, this is the woman who birthed you...maybe knowing her will help you know yourself better, and that`s never a bad thing. Write down your memories of her Many moms love to know what their kids remember from childhood and how they perceived the things that happened then. Make a list of these for your mom, focusing on ones that highlight positive changes in your relationship with her. Make the list pretty, and give it to her. Or, tear each memory off in a strip, fold it up and put it in a jar. Give her the sealed jar for Mother`s Day, and she can pull out a memory every day until they`re gone. If you run short on memories, do the same with lessons you`ve learned from her. Take photos with her Was your mom one of those people who has every family event for the last 30 years documented in extensive photographic detail? Then spend some time getting pictures taken with her. Take her to a favorite park or garden, or do it in your own backyard. While you can hire a professional photographer, all you really need is a digital camera and someone who knows how to operate it. Your poses can be silly or serene, but no matter how they turn out, taking them will make your mom`s day. Clean her house I know a few people who like to clean, but even they can find it overwhelming when life gets busy. So pick up a bucket and a mop and show mom that you really do remember all her lessons on scrubbing the house. You don`t have to clean everything and you don`t even have to to the best job ever. As long as you`re willing to get your hands dirty, she`ll be happy, and relieved that she didn`t have to do it herself! Remember her Instead of focusing your love on your mom only at Mother`s Day, come up with a comprehensive plan to love her year-round. This doesn`t have to be hard. Maybe it means you call her every-other Sunday instead of whenever-you-feel-like-it-which-sometimes-means-a-month-goes-by-without-talking. Put her in your calendar, or ask an assistant to put it in theirs and remind you when the time comes. Your mom might not notice the difference on Mother`s Day, but she`ll appreciate the thought throughout the year. Here`s hoping that one of these ideas will work for you, or will spark a desire in you to do something that will show your mom how much you value that relationship. |
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