Are You Losing Your Life To Television? Few people realize the number of
issues that television causes in our
life. While many people will argue that a little bit of TV never hurt anyone, the
amount of a “little bit” is constantly in debate. A Neilson report found that
the average American watches more than 34 hours of television each
week. If that number doesn’t shock you I don’t know what will. If you’re now
thinking “Those people are crazy—I’d never watch that much” then I invite you to
do your own maths. Simply write down all the shows you watched this week and how
long they were (including commercials if it was live) plus movies, YouTube
videos, etc. and work out roughly how much time you spent in front of the
screen. That number is how many hours you’re losing each week to television. This is
time that could be spent with your family, friends or relaxing in other ways.
Today we’ll look at some more reasons why you should stop watching television,
and how it will improve your
life. 1. Wasting Time It’s pretty obvious that when you’re watching TV you’re not doing anything
else. Time spent watching television is similar to being asleep. The question is
whether you want to spend even more time in your precious day
asleep. 2. Missing Out on Social Interaction Every hour you spend in front of the TV is another hour you’re not making the
most of your life. You could be playing with your family, hanging out with
friends or doing an activity you enjoy. Connection is one of the basic human
needs we all have and it will never be fulfilled by your television
set. 3. Programming Yourself with Negativity Just about every television show, from comedies to drama to reality TV and
the news, is negative. If you look at almost any TV show there is a complete
lack of positive redeeming messages. While there are exceptions to this rule
they are few and far between, so choose carefully what you decide to spend your
time
watching. 4. TV Poisons Your Belief Systems In comedies, we laugh at the stupid/overweight/socially awkward/different
people. The news is filled with stories of pain/suffering/disaster/death, and
arguing and drama has to be about problems in order to create the drama. All of
this is affecting your outlook on life and the way you see the
world. 5. It Creates Unrealistic Expectation Television distorts our understanding of reality. It’s filled with beautiful
people doing amazing things and having great adventures every show. Ask any TV
or movie star with half a brain and they’ll tell you that the images you see of
them on the screen and magazine covers are completely
fake. 6. Feelings of Inadequacy Life is never going to be like a TV show and this can make people very
disillusioned when they compare it with their real life. The messages within
television imply on a regular basis that we’re not pretty/smart/funny enough.
Our lives can feel quite empty when compared to the perfection of the TV
world. 7. Subliminal Programming and Advertising Make no mistake that there is only one reason why television exists, and that
is to sell products. Every single part of every single TV program is designed to
keep you in front of the TV and prepped to buy the advertised products through
traditional advertising or product
placements. Television is designed to make you feel bad so you will buy products that
make you feel better. It’s the ultimate in mind control systems. Companies
figured out how to get us to voluntarily brainwash ourselves for their
benefit. 8. It Degrades Your Self Control and
Discipline Thanks to the incredible psychological hooks that television uses, it’s very
hard to stop watching it. We lose our self control and cannot turn off the
television even though we may want to. As this continues, our self control and
discipline decrease even further and the harder the battle
becomes. 9. The Health Effects of Sitting Down We now live a more sedentary life than ever before with most people having
jobs behind a desk. We compound this problem when we go home and sit down in
front of the TV as well, because the electrical activity in our muscles stops
when we’re sitting. Research is showing even the most basic movement of walking
or moving our bodies in subtle ways can make a big difference to our
health. 10. We Teach Our Children These Habits Children are now being trained to watch TV and live a sedentary lifestyle.
There is a lot of research showing the negative effects on a child’s development
due to both inactivity and the influence of television. Your children will
imitate your lifestyle. so any choice you make will be echoed in the generations
that
follow. 11. Is It Really Relaxing? My personal argument for watching TV is that it’s easy. You stop working for
the day and get to relax and turn off your brain for a while, but the reality is
that what is easy for us is hardly ever the best
thing. I also get to relax when I’m out at a kung fu or dance class. I get to relax
when I’m hanging out with friends or spending time with my girlfriend. I also
get to relax when reading a book, listening to uplifting audio or even watching
uplifting videos (like TED talks or educational
materials). We get one life to live and it’s up to us to make the most of it. Every hour
of the day is an investment that pays off right now and in our future. Invest
wisely and your life will actually be filled with truly beautiful people doing
amazing things and having great
adventures. |
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