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跟世相做普鲁斯特问卷 | 你不知道你心里的暗与光

 断桥鸥鹭 2014-08-05

(Sayings:这是一份“普鲁斯特问卷”。它本来流传在英国社交圈中,普鲁斯特年轻时对问卷做了修改并且做出著名的回答。至今,美国的《名利场》(VANITY FAIR)杂志仍会每期刊登不同人的答案。你也许听说过它,但只有很少人真的勇于回答。


假如你一个人坐下来,思考每一个问题的答案,不允许自己轻易跳过,并把答案写出来,你会为自己的充实或空洞而感到意外。没有一个问题容易回答。大多数时候,我们通过回避回答问题来保护自己,思维懒惰只是答案太残酷的一个借口。


对自我而言,快乐总是不值一提,阴郁总是挥之不去。这是一种常态,它是不对的,应该被克服,但克服它的前提是真切地挖掘它。总要有一个起点,认清自己就是最好的起点。我们最大的怯懦并不是在面对他人时的表现,而是当他人离去,房间空寂,面对自己时发生的。


假如你把自己的回答通过后台发送给我,我也会把我的回答回复给你。)



普鲁斯特问卷


1,你认为完美的幸福是什么?

What is your idea of perfect happiness?


2,你最大的恐惧是什么?

What is your greatest fear?


3,你最认同哪位历史人物?

Which historical figure do you most identify with?


4,在世的人当中,你最钦佩谁?

Which living person do you most admire?


5,你最痛恨自己哪一点特质?

What is the trait you most deplore in yourself?


6,你最讨厌别人哪一点特质?

What is the trait you most deplore in others?


7,你最奢侈的是什么?

What is your greatest extravagance?


8,你最喜爱的旅程是什么?

What is your favorite journey?


9,你认为最被高估的美德是什么?

What do you consider the most overrated virtue?


10,你在什么情况下会撒谎?

On what occasion do you lie?


11,你对自己的外表哪点最不满意?

What do you dislike most about your appearance?


12,你最轻视在世的什么人?

Which living person do you most despise?


13,你使用最频繁的单词或短语是什么?

Which words or phrases do you most overuse?


14,你最遗憾的是什么?

What is your greatest regret?


15,你生命中的至爱是什么人或物?

What or who is the greatest love of your life?


16,你最期望拥有什么才能?

Which talent would you most like to have?


17,你现在精神状态如何?

What is your current state of mind?


18,如果你能改变你家庭的某一点,你期望是什么?

If you could change one thing about your family, what would it be?


19,你认为自己最大的成就是什么?

What do you consider your greatest achievement?


20,如果你死后会变成别的人或东西回归人世,你觉得你会变成谁或者什么东西?

If you were to die and come back as a person or thing, what do you think it would be?


21,你最珍视的财产是什么?

What is your most treasured possession?


22,你认为最轻的痛苦是什么?

What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery?


23,你希望住在哪里?

Where would you like to live?


24,你最喜爱的职业是什么?

What is your favorite occupation?


25,你最出众的特质是什么?

What is your most marked characteristic?


26,你最欣赏男人的哪种品质?

What is the quality you most like in a man?


27,你最欣赏女人的哪种品质?

What is the quality you most like in a woman?


28,你最重视朋友身上的哪点?

What do you most value in your friends?


29,你最喜爱的作家是谁?

Who are your favorite writers?


30,你最喜爱的小说英雄人物是谁?

Who is your favorite hero of fiction?


31,现实生活中你最喜爱哪些英雄人物?

Who are your heroes in real life?


32,你最喜欢的名字有哪些?

What are your favorite names?


33,你最不喜欢什么?

What is it that you most dislike?


34,你希望以何种方式死去?

How would you like to die?


35,你的座右铭是什么?

What is your motto?


来源:名利场杂志,该版本与普鲁斯特曾经回答的版本出入很大,与网上常见的版本也有出入。

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