101.世上的一半人嘲笑另一半人,其实他们都是蠢人/119 One half of the world laughs at the other, and fools are they all
102.天降大福需有大心胸消受/119 Be able to stomach big slices of luck
103.让每人都保有尊严/121 Let each keep up his dignity
104.明确不同工作的要求/123 Know the demands of different occupations
105.勿遭人烦/123 Don’t be a bore
106.勿炫耀你的地位/125 Do not parade your position
107.勿自鸣得意/127 Show no self-satisfaction
108.与人同行是成为伟人的捷径/129 The path to greatness is along with others
109.不要吹毛求疵/129 Be not censorious
110.不要坐以待毙/131 Do not wait till you are a sinking sun
111.赢得朋友/131 Have friends
112.博取他人的好感/133 Gain good-will
113.未雨绸缪/135 In prosperity prepare for adversity
114.避免与人相争/135 Never compete
115.习惯熟人的缺点/137 Get used to the failings of your familiars
116.只和可敬之人交往/137 Only act with honourable men
117.决不谈论自己/139 Never talk about yourself
118.要赢得谦恭有礼的名声/139 Acquire the reputation of courtesy
119.避免惹人厌烦/141 Avoid becoming disliked
120.生活讲求实际/143 Live practically
121.不要小题大做/145 Do not make a business of what is no business
122.言行应有威信/145 Distinction in speech and action
123.避免矫揉造作/147 Avoid affectation
124.要被他人想念/147 Get yourself missed
125.不要成为污点记录簿/149 Do not be a black list
126.愚蠢并非做了蠢事,而在于做后不知掩饰/151 Folly consists not in committing folly, but in not hiding it when committed 1
27.凡事从容优雅/151 Grace in everything
128.要有高远的志向/153 Highmindedness
129.从不抱怨/153 Never complain
130.要干,且要让人看见/155 Do and be seen doing
131.慷慨大度/157 Nobility of feeling
132.修正自己的判断/157 Revise your judgments
133.宁可同醉,而不独醒/159 Better mad with the rest of the world than wise alone
134.加倍储存你的资源/159 Double your resources
135.不要滋长唱反调的习气/161 Do not nourish the spirit of contradiction
136.抓住事情关键/163 Post yourself in the centre of things
137.圣人自足/163 The sage should be self-sufficing
138.任其自然的艺术/165 The art of letting things alone
139.冷静面对倒霉的日子/165 Recognize unlucky days
140.一眼看到事物好的一面/167 Find the good in a thing at once
141.不要只倾听自己的声音/169 Do not listen to yourself
142.当对手先站在正确的一方时,你不能固执地站在错误的一方/171 Never from obstinacy take the wrong side because your opponent has anticipated you in taking the right one
143.别为免俗而玩弄诡辩之术/173 Never become paradoxical in order to avoid the trite
144.开始于他人,受用于自己/173 Begin with another’s to end with your own
145.藏好你受伤的手指/175 Do not show your wounded finger
146.透过现象看本质/177 Look into the interior of things
147.采纳他人的建议/177 Do not be inaccessible
148.掌握谈话的艺术/179 Have the art of conversation
149.懂得推罪于人/181 Know how to put off ills on others
150.推销得法/181 Know how to get your price for things
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