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1共事二三年，始尔未为久。女行无偏斜，何意致不厚？”
何乃太区区！此妇无礼节，举动自专由。吾意久怀忿，汝岂得自由，焦母说的都是表面原因。【真正不喜悦刘兰芝的原因是：刘兰芝还没有生育！3年没动静儿！婆婆受不了啦！不生育是古代七出之条。是休妻的足够理由！十三能织素，十四学裁衣，十五弹箜篌（kōng hóu），十六诵诗书。相见常日稀。鸡鸣入机织，夜夜不得息。三日断五匹，大人故嫌迟这些才能都没用！婆婆要的不是才能；是孙子！若刘兰芝生了白胖小子，在家里就有地位。儿子休妻；婆婆也不依。 】
2为何不生育？贱妾留空房，相见常日稀。公务员放假少。可见为提高中国的人口汇率，也顶多放假！
3刘兰芝坑人。【你答应了；却在结婚那一天自杀！多晦气啊！人家欠你神魔啦！《孔雀东南飞》中最倒霉的就是 太守之子。人家多好的孩子呀！未婚娶一个二婚！高干子弟。富贵人家。你不同意，早说呀！也不该自杀呀！】云有第五郎，娇逸未有婚。府君得闻之，心中大欢喜。视历复开书，便利此月内，六合正相应。良吉三十日，今已二十七，卿可去成婚。交语速装束，络绎如浮云。青雀白鹄舫[fǎng]，四角龙子幡。婀娜随风转，金车玉作轮。踯（zhí）躅（zhú）青骢（cōng）马，流苏金镂鞍。赍（jī）钱三百万，皆用青丝穿。杂彩三百匹，交广市鲑（xié）珍。从人四五百，郁郁登郡门。
4焦仲卿不孝？子死母何依。这是最大的不孝！
5两人没有变通的爱情智慧！在外面买一所小房子单过呗。或瞒着母亲。等一年有了孩子。婆婆还不屁颠屁颠地把媳妇接回家！
6愚蠢的殉情。对父母的最大不孝！
7如陆游一样。{陆游发明的路由器？William (Bill) Yeager 这位生于1940年的66岁老人作为多协议路由器的发明者。在斯坦福当研究员开发第一台路由器。}我们不要笑话陆游与焦仲卿，你在父母之命不可违的时代，恐怕也得和他们一样休妻！因为你背不起舆论不孝的大罪名！你在社会上无法立足，被人人藐视！这是儒家教训害人不浅的地方！
8夫妻应当离开父母单过！儿媳与婆婆往往是天敌，争夺一个男人的爱。如果婆婆守寡对儿子的霸占更大！ 离开父母单过不是不照顾父母。而是应当有自己独立的房子；经济能力。
9基督的教训：不可休妻，哪怕妻子不生育！
可10:6 但从起初创造的时候， 神造人是造男造女。 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. 可10:7 因此，人要离开父母，与妻子连合，二人成为一体。 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; 可10:8 既然如此，夫妻不再是两个人，乃是一体的了。 And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. 可10:9 所以 神配合的，人不可分开。” What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 可10:10 到了屋里，门徒就问他这事。 And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. 可10:11 耶稣对他们说：“凡休妻另娶的，就是犯奸淫，辜负他的妻子； And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. 可10:12 妻子若离弃丈夫另嫁，也是犯奸淫了。”
弗5:25 你们作丈夫的，要爱你们的妻子，正如基督爱教会，为教会舍己。 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 弗5:26 要用水藉着道把教会洗净，成为圣洁， That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 弗5:27 可以献给自己，作个荣耀的教会，毫无玷污、皱纹等类的病，乃是圣洁没有瑕疵的。 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 弗5:28 丈夫也当照样爱妻子，如同爱自己的身子，爱妻子便是爱自己了。 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 弗5:29 从来没有人恨恶自己的身子，总是保养顾惜，正像基督待教会一样， For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 弗5:30 因我们是他身上的肢体（有古卷在此有“就是他的骨、他的肉”）。 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 弗5:31 为这个缘故，人要离开父母，与妻子连合，二人成为一体。 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 弗5:32 这是极大的奥秘，但我是指着基督和教会说的。 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 弗5:33 然而你们各人都当爱妻子，如同爱自己一样；妻子也当敬重她的丈夫。 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
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