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骄傲和傲慢：是两个不同只有一线相隔的情感状态。 1.Proud people are always confident while arrogant people are unsecure 骄傲的人总是自信，但是傲慢的人则缺乏安全感 Proud people know what they do. They are usually masters of their profession and they always like to do things properly. They don’t want to mess around and they definitely can’t stand time-wasters. 骄傲的人清楚自己的所作所为。他们通常擅长本专业，总是合理地处理事情。他们不想把事情搞砸，他们总是不愿意浪费时间。 Arrogant people often use their arrogance to cover their sloppiness and inability to cope with the task. Deep inside, they know they are not able to do the thing they are doing. They are full of doubts. 傲慢的人通常会用他们的傲慢去这样他们的粗心大意和能力不足。在内心深处，他们知道自己不能把自己正在做的事情做好。他们有满心的疑问。 It is scientifically proven that arrogant people are prone to shame. 科学研究表明，傲慢的人更容易害羞。 2.Proud people use their language wisely while arrogant people usually use strong language 骄傲的人会使用聪明的语言，而傲慢的人通常说比较强势的话 Pride people always talk wisely and there are two main reasons for it: 骄傲的人说话总是很明智，这里列举了两个主要的原因： a)they always talk from their own experience 他们总是从自身经历出发 b) they regularly work on themselves, controlling their thoughts. 他们通常都是为自己工作，掌控着他们自己的想法。 They know their pride is coming from those two things so it is natural for them to speak positively and inspiring to others. 他们知道他们的骄傲是来自于以上这两点，所以自信的讲话，鼓励别人那都是很自然而然的事儿。 3.Proud people think all people deserve to be treated equally while arrogant people think they are better than others 骄傲的人认为所有人都值得平等对待，但是傲慢的人认为他们比别人更好 Pride people have high self-esteem but still think they are as good as others. 骄傲的人有高自尊心，但是仍相信他们和别人是一样的好。 4.Proud people look at hard work as their way to success while arrogant people are only opportunity seekers 骄傲的人将所有的辛苦努力视为成功的垫脚石，但是傲慢的人只是寻找机遇 Studies show that proud people are achievement-oriented viewing their hard work as the key to their success. They highly rely on themselves whilst always prepared to listen to other people’s advice. 研究表明骄傲的人是将成功视为成功的关键。他们高度依赖自己，但是总是准备着听取别人的意见。 On the other hand, arrogant people view success as pure luck so they are always on the run for the next best opportunity. 另一方面，傲慢的人将成功视为幸运，所以他们总是寄希望于下一次的好机会。 5.Proud people always praise their team while arrogant people want to take all the credits for the job 骄傲的人总是赞美他们的团队，但是傲慢的人总想将所有的功劳都揽到自己身上 Proud people know the power rests in the teamwork so they always praise all their colleagues. They know that by doing so they lose nothing but only empower the people around them. 骄傲的人知道团队合作的力量，所以他们总是赞美同事。他们知道这样做不会有什么损失，反而还会给周围的人正能量。 Arrogant people think only of their own success. When they work in a team, after the task is completed they are first on the stage to take the prize for it. 傲慢的人只认为那是他们自己的功劳。当他们参与团队工作的时，工作完成后，第一个站到功劳台前的就是他们。 |
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