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【成功人生 - 做人的極致境界「守住本分」】

 音乐人吧吧小丝 2016-11-18







 
 






【成功人生 - 做人的極致境界「守住本分」】



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很多人都講做人做事要做到極致,極致是個什麼概念?是不是只有成功的人才算極致,那是我們想像錯誤,極致並非高不可攀。
今天讀到一篇文章,其中闡釋發揮傳統儒家的仁愛思想,作者不惜一切崇高、偉大等溢美之辭,如此積極向上的態度,值得學習,但以此解讀經典,卻失之膚淺。
以我的理解,儒家所說的仁愛,不是什麼外在高大上的東西,而是指我們的本心,何謂本心,本然就有,忽然迷失。
因為迷失,我們的愛總有範圍,又因為迷失,我們這個愛的圈子越劃越小,最後只愛自己一個,甚至連自己都不愛,一怒開車撞人(最近身邊發生一例)。
我們從愛自己身邊的人做起,孝敬父母,友愛兄弟,從日常生活中培養真性情,使之不失,然後感情充沛還有多餘的,就擴展開去,老吾老以及人之老,幼吾幼以及人之幼,所有的這些,並不是為了什麼崇高偉大,僅僅是為了找回自己的迷失的本心,做一個完整的有感情的人,僅此而已。
又比如愛國,中國人愛中國,日本人愛日本,這是天性,保養之使之不失,愛有多餘,則愛及本國以外的國家,這就是儒家所謂的仁。
無獨有偶,西方的宗教思想,認為人生而有罪,是為原罪,所以人生的目的不是什麼崇高偉大,而是努力做到接近無罪,說法不同,道理是一樣的。
仁愛不是高大上,做人做到極致,只是本分。
做人的極致是平淡,傾心於平淡的生活,這才是真正的享受人生。
如果有一天清晨醒來,沒有緊張的節奏,使我們的心靈得到清淨;沒有油膩的食物,使我們的身體清潔;沒有可望而不可及的夢,使我們的睡眠更加安恬。放下那些關於一切物質的壓力,從平談的生活中去提煉體會,高興就大聲的笑出來,傷心就大聲的哭出來,不去追求時尚潮流,不去計較過往的得失,一切返璞歸真,追求的只是平淡的生活。
面對這個美與醜,假與真並存的社會,太多的時候不得不讓我們為了生存左右逢迎而變得世故精練、圓滑。哲人常說“做人的極致是平淡”但真正能做到這一點的又有幾人,人的慾望、道德、修養、自身素質的不同,人也不盡相同。
每當看著那些為了金錢而失去快樂的人,我盡會心生憐憫,無盡的慾望充斥著大腦,金錢的誘惑束縛著心靈。每一個人都說,在這個時代裡,我們不再自然;每一個人又說,我們要求的只是那一點心靈的舒服。對於生命,它要求的並不高,只需要把一切看淡一點就能獲得快樂。
在我們成長的路上或是人生任何的時刻,都需要不斷地去校正自己的律行,讓自已以善美的心姿融入到生活的舞台上,贏得社會、生活、他人的信賴。一個安守本分發人才最易得到心靈的平和,一個內心善美的人才最接近幸福的生活。

Many people are talking about something being done to the extreme to extreme, what is a concept? Success is not only extremely talented count, that's what we imagine, extreme error is not unattainable.
Today's read an article about the play, which explained the confucian tradition of caring thoughts, writers at all costs, such as the great lofty words, such a positive attitude to learn, but worth to read the classic, but the shallow.
To my understanding, the confucian of benevolence, not what the external tall things of this world, but rather the conscience of our conscience, what is this, if there is, suddenly lost.
Get lost, because we love, there is always scope again because we lost, this love circle more smaller, zoned last love only yourself a, even if he doesn't love a nu drive hit anyone (recently happening around an example) .
We love ourselves from the people around me, his parents, fraternity brothers, from daily life in emotion, so never lose the feelings of vitality, then there are redundant, expansion, as well as caring for the elderly, people Love and care of all these, and not for the sake of what noble great, only to find themselves lost heart and do a complete emotional person, that's all.
Another example is that patriotic, Chinese people love Chinese, Japanese, love Japan, this is the maintenance of nature, so don't lose a redundant, love, love this country and outside the country, this is the so-called Albert Confucianism.
Coincidentally, Western religious ideologies that are born guilty, is a sin, therefore, for the purpose of life is not what the great and noble, is making an effort to close the claim innocence, different, the truth is the same.
Caring is not tall, do life to the max, just part.
The Ultimate in life is worth fighting in plain, plain life, this is the only way to truly enjoy life.
If one day I woke up in the morning, there is no tension of rhythm, make our hearts were pure; no greasy food, make our body clean; no elusive dream to make our sleep more at ease. Down on all those substances, the pressure from ping to talk about life to refine, happy's loud laugh, sad on the loud cry, don't go after the fashion trend, not going to care about the past, all the pros and cons, fǎn pú guī zhēn The Pursuit of just plain living.
In the face of this beautiful and ugly, fake really coexist with social, too often we have to let us in order to survive around sycophancy and become worldly concise, smoothie. Philosopher always said "life is the ultimate in plain" but really can do this again, there are several people who desire, ethics, cultured, their own qualities, of different people differ.
Whenever I look at these to lose money and happy person, I make every heart health mercy, endless desire jars the brain, the temptation of money bound soul. Everyone says, in this era, we no longer natural; each person also said that we are just requesting that a little bit of comfort the soul. For the life of the request, it is not high, just need to take things a bit bearish on to be happy.
On our way to grow or any moment in life, all need to constantly go to the calibration of their own legal firms, let himself to make the heart of the American positions into the arena of life, social life, win, trust of others. An guard the most vulnerable to distribute talents get peace of mind, a beautiful talent! Closest to the happiness of life. 

 

















制作日期:2016.11.18.



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