長壽與健康連在一起，對於長壽，快樂卻與健康具有同等意義。據說，有人向一位醫生請教長壽的秘訣，醫生問：“你喝酒嗎？”答曰：“不喝！”又問：“你抽煙嗎？”答曰：“不抽！”醫生說道：“那你長壽了做什麼？”醫生的“樂趣”未必可取。人生在世，要有自己的目標與樂趣卻是真的，終日無所事事，長壽何益？總覺得過了一天少了一天，過了一年少了一年，時時刻刻都在走向死亡，又怎能快樂得起來？其實，誰也沒有規定你必須或只能活多少歲。人生在世，應當做加法。對於上了年紀的人，尤其如此。過一天又賺了一天，過一年又賺了一年，這會使人有“成就感”。還記得25年前的春節，羅竹風教授給我打電話說“我今年80歲了”這句話時，從他那洪亮的聲音中溢出了激情，並由此窺見其達觀的心態。
讀過一部科幻小說，寫的是一位有錢人，無論哪個器官壞了，都有人造的器官替代。活到兩百多歲時，肝臟壞了，這個器官比較複雜，體積也就十分可觀，在家時問題不大，將人造肝臟像冰箱那樣放著，用一條網絡線把它與人體相接就行。外出時就麻煩了，人坐在車中，肝臟還得用一個箱子裝著拖在後面。活到四百多歲時，有一次他去體檢，醫生說：“你還有一個牙齒是自己的。”他的人造聲帶也跟著說：“只有一個牙齒是自己的了。”如此這般，長壽是長壽了，卻已失去了作為人的意義。
母親晚年與我說過，她們老太太碰在一起時有人發問：“以後要是一直不肯死怎麼辦？”提出這樣的問題，年輕人或許感到不可思議，上了年紀的人卻能悟出其中的奧秘。有人說如今活在世上最長壽的人已有260歲。我想，即使確有其事，似也不值得慶賀。人生最怕白頭送黑頭。活到260歲的人，該是從乾隆朝過來的吧，在正常情況下，連他孫子的孫子都早已不在人世，活著還有什麼滋味？一代一代的人就像國慶遊行時走過天安門城樓的一個一個的方陣。屬於你的那個方陣過去了，獨獨你沒有過去，後面那個方陣未必就會接納你，或者說，你未必就能融入後面這個方陣。儘管你依然生活在熙熙攘攘的人群之中，也會因為很難與別人溝通而感到出奇的孤獨。
●人要能夠活得下去，需有三個條件。
一為目標的牽引，老人也要有目標的，此所謂“老有所為”，人生沒有目標，猶如行屍走肉，活得沒有意義；
二為情感的滋潤，包括親情、愛情、友情，缺乏這種滋潤，孤獨而且乾澀，活得沒有滋味；
三為內力的支撐，這內力便是能夠自立於世的智力與體力。
到了晚年，此三者就很難齊全，活著也就相對艱難。我於是想到年輕時在單槓上做引體向上，最後幾下特別吃力，上去了也就特別開心，實在上不去了就坦然面對，無怨無悔，因為自己已經盡心盡力了。 上了年紀的人想延年益壽無可厚非，提高生命質量充實人生內涵則更為必要。
The past is " life " men rarely seventy " is now " seventy or little brother said, " this is the embodiment of recognition " longevity on the concept of " volume changes. Indeed, living conditions have improved,"longevity" raising the standard follow, longevity also became widespread desire and pursuit. Purchase of longevity in health before, can also be understood as the health and longevity is the premise. Because, longevity, health, and longevity may or may not be healthy, lying in bed, relying on drugs to maintain, so, even if it's better to live a hundred years old, still life of misfortune, not a life of good fortune."to die rather than live" rice I may not see.
Longevity and health are connected together, for longevity, healthy and happy but has the same meaning. Someone said to a doctor ask the secret of longevity, the doctor asked :" do you drink?" answer :" " don't drink!" and ask :" do you smoke??" Answer: :" Do you smoke!" the doctor says :" that you live long. What to do?" the doctor's " fun " may not be advisable. Life is alive, to have their own goals and fun but it's true. All day, doing nothing, longevity ho ik? Always thought the day was less than a day, over a year. A year ago, at every moment of your death, how can it be happy too? Actually, who are also not required that you must live or can only the number of years. Life is alive, it should be done in addition. For older people, particularly in the case. Day. Made another day for about a year, also made a year, this will enable people to have " accomplishment ". remember 25 years ago, during the spring festival lo bamboo wind professor called me and said " I'M 80 Old " this word from him, that the voice of the resonating in the overflow. Passion, and by its daguan glimpse of mentality.
Read a science fiction novel, wrote a rich people, regardless of which organ is broken, there are artificial organs alternative. To live more than two hundred years old, the liver is broken, this complex organ, volume is also very impressive, at home, not a big issue will be artificial liver like that put in the fridge, and with a network line it just human. . To go out when in trouble, people sitting in the car, in the liver. Also need a suitcase filled with drag behind. To live more than four hundred years old, one time he had to go to a medical examination, the doctor said :" you still have a teeth. It's his own." his artificial vocal cords also follow said :" only one teeth is your own. ." so, longevity is longevity. But we have lost as a person.
With my mother in old age, they said the old lady in touch with someone to ask questions :" if has been refused to die. What do we do?" such questions, perhaps young people feel incredible, older people can realize which Mystery. Some people say that now live in a world where the oldest people there are already 260 years old. I want to, even if it did, it might also be worth celebrating. Life is most afraid of sending the blackheads whiteheads. Live to the age of 260, which is from the qianlong dynasty here. in normal circumstances, even his grandson grandson are already dead, alive, what else? One Generation of people like the parade at Tiananmen Square Walking through a phalanx of one. You're the one that belongs to the past, to mourn alone, you have no past behind that square would not necessarily accept you, or say, you may not be able to integrate into the back of this square. While you were still living in the midst of the bustling crowd, also because it was difficult to connect with others and feel surprisingly lonely.
● people need to be able to live forever, there is a need for the three conditions.
A goal for the tractor, old people have to have a goal, this so-called "worthiness", no goals in life, as if the walking dead, live meaningless;
Second for emotional support, including the affection, love, friendship, this lack of nourishment, loneliness and was dry and live no taste;
Three in the morning for the support, this poison is viable in the world of mental and physical strength.
