The spiritual enlightenment language] 186. How to make a strong myself
One, take care of myself.
-- in all relationships, in every individuals and self-relationship is most closely, the most important. If you can't take care of yourself, so unable to take care of others; so, in a variety of selfish behaviour, take good care of yourself is the best a pile of things. Read The Mastery of love this book.
Second, for yourself, do you think is right.
-- don't be scared all alone here.; but, if you like to walk alone, don't think that. Terrible. Don't let the noise of other ignorant foolishness, fuss or negative attitudes are blocking your footsteps, so that you can't make the best of yourself. Heart finds the right thing, the thing to do, just for yourself. Because, when you are completely self-Harmony of the state, and no one can shake you.
Three, walk the path of your own unique
-- every day is a life-changing opportunity. Hard work, to crave life direction. For myself believe things, struggles; with ambitious, contempt of worries. In line, don't overload; as long as every day there is progress. Also, in the absence of before, do you have to decide whether to do it, instead of making excuses and want to learn new knowledge, getting closer and closer to their goals; moreover, you will know also some others, like me, I admire you And we are all in the pursuit of excellence.
Four, away from the hustle, strive towards a goal
-- dream big, but they need to know the short-term, realistic goals is the key to success. Success is directly related to the daily acts. How to spend time to decide how we are. Daily Dribs, accumulated, gradually move towards the dream through, the successful people do, keep moving forward. Along the way, they will make mistakes, but they don't give up -- they learned, insisted on coming down. Go read the work of this book.
Five, when life changes to adjust their goals and dreams
-- life is a lot of unhappy from you really loving a dream, but it backfired, so who gets the blame. This time, you have to find another way. If you want to tame the heart of the devil, and play a life's greatest value, then don't be stubborn on a particular dream; when I got a better person, let the happiness of the same road, to keep an open mind . The impermanence of life, but it still gives dreams provides many opportunities. Just don't forget: sometimes to make a positive step, slight adjustment needs your dreams, or planning for new dream -- changed her mind or had more dreams, these are all normal.
Six, forgive those who have not be kind to your people
-- forgive others is that you give yourself a gift. Be strong and wise to be eligible to forgive. Forgive let you focus on the future rather than struggle with the memories. Forgive all my past, in order to understand the potential of the future. No forgive, the wound will never heal, so will not be able to move forward. No matter what happened in the past, it's just a chapter in life. Don't hop on, just turn the page.
Seven, give others love and kindness
-- heart if only to those who you think deserve the person, but to exclude all the strangers, so it's not love, it's called selfish; and concluded that it might be surprising. Marriot, selfish, loving hugs to all. It's like sunshine and equal treatment for all beings, true love nor boundaries. Love and kindness is a way of life. Caring, selfish place to heal. Haunted place of selfishness, love of safe havens. Read the five love languages of this book.
Pat, even though the reviled, but also to support others
-- sometimes, you really only use say simple words only group, but anyone can touch the hearts of hollow. The courage to touch the darkness. Will others dragged into sunlight. Remember, powerful man insisting on self; but stronger people stand up for other people, when has the ability, they would have someone to lend a helping hand.
Nine, from failure, killed in a road to
-- when feeling down, or face failure, do not feel ashamed. There's nothing to shame. You are a tough time, but still continue to move forward. You will kill all the way over here, slow recovery, this is something to be proud of. Let everyone know: today you are better than you were yesterday is much stronger, and the future of you than you are today.
- always keep your head up and keep smiling
-- the life of every day life is on the road to a page of the chapter. Stop unless otherwise, life will always have a chance. Don't cry over the past, but a prayer can cross that road yesterday in Canterbury. Don't laugh to anxieties; to hide the pain with xiào yì go healing wounds. Don't be thinking about this world of sorrow carefree; to think of those still around you much better.
