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听不进他人的批评， 是因为内心的力量不足， 正好在此境界中磨砺、成长。it means one lacks of inner strength. Take this opportunity to hone and grow. 听不进他人的批评，是因为内心的力量不足，正好在此境界中磨砺、成长。 When one refuses to accept criticism, it means one lacks of inner strength. Take this opportunity to hone and grow. 在意他人说自己坏话，才会对自己有影响；若不在意，一切不过是过眼云烟罢了。 When others speak ill of us, we will only be impacted if we mind what they say. If we don’t mind what they say, everything will pass just as clouds. 君子争罪，路便越走越宽；小人争对，事却越办越难。很多时候，忍一时、退一步并非软弱，识得大体，不必在小处争利斗气。 The superior man asks to take the blame for matters and things become smoother and smoother; the small man asks to take credit for matters and things become harder and harder. In many cases, tolerance and compromise are not signs of weakness. Consider the bigger picture and there is no need to fight for lesser matters. 做事情的时候，即要知道别人在干嘛，也知道自己在干嘛，不然就麻烦。 When doing things, we not only need to know what others are doing but also what we are doing, otherwise things might go wrong. 有利他的发心，还要有包容对方问题的慈悲心和善观缘起的智慧。随顺对方的缘起，而不是以自己认为正确的方式去助人，才能悲智双运，生出种种利他的方便善巧。 In addition to the aspiration to benefit others, it is also required to have compassion to tolerate others’ problems as well as wisdom to observe the dependent origination. We need to follow the dependent origination of others rather than helping them in a way we thinks is right. Only by doing so, can we be equipped with both compassion and wisdom, and create all kinds of expedient and skillful means to benefit others. 与他人寸步不让的，往往不过是很小的事，却让怒气伤害身心，这是保护自己还是伤害自己？智者当思之。 It is usually over trivial matters that one does not give in to; at the same time, we allow anger to harm us. Are we protecting or hurting ourselves? The wise has the answer. 来源：学诚法师的微博
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