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我们常常会努力的 做一些事情 只为了某些人的 夸奖或者开心
但如果做了以后 看不到我们所期望的态度 委屈、抱怨的情绪 马上会显现出来 最后原本好的发愿 反而弄得大家不欢而散
所以要就做了 不去期望回报 要就干脆不做 或者少做一点
因为抱怨不仅会 毁掉别人的好心情 更会毁掉自己的好心情
---加措活佛 Often we will work very hard to do something just for others’ approval or to make others happy. However, if after doing what we did, we do not see evidence of the attitude we hoped for, a mood of complaint will quickly surface, until at last our original good vows will create discord between ourselves and others. Therefore, either do something without expecting anything in return, or just don’t do anything, or do less—because complaining will destroy others’ good moods, and even more, will destroy our own good mood. Jia Cuo Rinpoche |
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