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-Thursday- 对话框回复“早安”或者“morning'，获取清晨元气满满的英文金句  脾气差，其实就是自私 Bad-tempered people are actually selfish.不可否认，人人都会遇到烦心事，每个人也都会有心情特别糟的时候。
有时，我们会因为生活中的压力而变得负能量满满，情绪糟糕，会因为自己的不满而突然变得烦躁。
这时，有人能通过自己的方式释放出压力和不满的情绪，不会影响到别人。而有的人，就不是这样了。他们会通过发脾气甚至大吼大骂来试着让自己的心情更舒畅，而他们的这种行为会影响到别人。
People are always apt to be affected by the environment, but no one is born with bad temper. Most of the so-called bad tempers are acquired bad habits. However, those who easily lose their temper, in essence, never take into account the feelings of others. That is selfish. 人总是由环境决定的，没有天生的坏脾气，所谓的坏脾气大多数都是后天养成的臭毛病。而那些总爱发脾气的人，其实是从来不考虑别人感受的，说到底就是自私。
We tend to blow off steam towards our most beloved people, and don’t treat them as well as strangers. 生活中，我们往往会对自己最亲爱的人发脾气，对待他们的态度还不如对待陌生人好。
In most cases, we take it for granted that our closed ones have always attached to us and are used to our way, so we slowly turn into bad-tempered people who can easily get anger and never consider whether hurt others. 很多情况下，我们仗着家人朋友会一直爱我们，于是就惯着自己，慢慢变成了一个脾气差的人，动不动就发火，从来不考虑发火会给他们带来多大伤害。
Never taking seriously the love from the family, just keep flying off the handle over them, so ain't you selfish enough? 一边享受着家人带给自己的爱，一边无休止地发脾气，这不是自私是什么呢？
In this connection, we are supposed to self-examine ourselves: Control you temper, and stop being so selfish. 关于这一点，我们每个人都该去反思，不要再对着家人乱发脾气了，不能再这样自私下去了。
In fact, the more capable people are, the better tempered they are as they can figure out that bad temper can not do any help in solving problems. 事实上，越是能力强的人，越是好脾气，他们明白发脾气是无法解决任何问题的。
The only way to settle a matter is to face it straight and calmly solve it. 解决问题的唯一办法就是去面对它，然后冷静地处理。
Just think how many times we’ve lost the chances for love and have hurt others in life, thus having wasted a lot of time. Once we lose temper, we find it difficult to normally get along well with others within a short period, nor can we normally work, so it is really of no avail. 试想，生活中我们因为发脾气失去了多少爱，伤了多少人，耽误了多少事。一旦发脾气，肯定在短时间内无法以一种正常的状态去和别人相处，也不可能正常地工作，真的是毫无益处。
So don’t take it for granted that bad temper is noting serious. The temper you have can fully show what a person you are. 所以，不要再觉着脾气差不是什么问题了，一个人的脾气真的能反映出这个人到底怎么样。
所谓的“脾气差”，就是自私和无能。
一、越有本事的男人越没脾气。因为素质，修为，涵养，学识，能力财力会综合一个人的品格。
二、世界上最美妙的一件事是，当你拥抱一个你爱的人，他竟然把你抱得更紧。
三、信任就像一张纸，皱了，即使抚平，也恢复不了原样了。
四、女人最可悲的，不是年华老去，而是迷失自我。女人最可叹的，不是红颜不再，而是自信全无。
一个有灵魂的女人，是一个有魅力的女人。一个有信仰的女人，是一个有正能量的女人。
五、成功根本没有秘诀，如果有的话，就只有两个词：谦虚，坚持。
六、能开口说出的委屈，便不是委屈;能离开的人，便不算是爱人。
七、往事不必遗憾。若是美好，叫做精彩。若是糟糕，叫做经历。把握眼前，当下才重要。
八、顺利，只是一种平庸的人生。
九、如果一个男人真的爱你，他只会怕没本事照顾好你而努力。如果他事事与你计较，随便对你发脾气，那只是说明他爱自己，没有爱你的本事和能力。
十、心态不好，说穿了，就是心太小了。
心态的“态”字，拆解开来，就是心大一点。
Actually we have the predestined affinity among us, which represents a heart-to-heart exchange of ideas and a feeling based on mutual-love; a true heart full of emotional feelings as well as the forgiving for errors. 人与人之间，就是一种缘分；心与心之间，就是一种交流；爱与爱之间，就是一种感情；情与情之间，就是一颗真心；错与错之间，就是一个原谅。
Everyone cherishes self-esteem but has different worries and difficulties, ideas, ways of doing things and living. You don’t have to change others but do your own bit. 人人有自尊，个个有苦衷，想法、做法和活法都不同。理念不同，做法不同，活法也不一样，不必去改变他人，只需自己做好就行。
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