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拆穿，别人不好过， 言明，会伤及感情。 有些东西，争夺没意义， 得到，却心存愧疚， 失去，反而更踏实。 There are things that you can't tell, It's hard for people to take it apart, Speak clearly, can hurt and affection. There's something, there's no point, I get, I feel guilty, Lost, but more steadfast. 很多时候， 我们选择给别人留余地， 不是不懂争辩， 而是为人大度的体现。 我们愿意去退一步， 不是没有道理可讲， 而是不想让对方太难堪。 A lot of times, We choose to leave room for others, It's not that you can't argue, It's about being magnanimous. We're willing to take a step back, It's not unreasonable to say, I don't want to embarrass the other person. 好言一句三冬暖， 恶语伤人六月寒。 人活这一生不容易， 要明白己所不欲勿施于人的道理， 有些事说出来既尴尬又无趣， 点太透伤害了别人也难为了自己。 A good word, three winters, Bad words hurt in June. It is not easy to live this life, Understand what you do not want to do to others, Some things are awkward and boring, It is hard for others to do too much harm. 糊涂也是福气， 有些事不必争，不必说，不必论。 水至清则无鱼，人至察则无友。 懂你的人，你不会与他争论， 不懂你的人，你不必与他争论。 生活本来已经很不容易， 为何还要为一点小事让自己生气？ 与其把时间花在争论上， 不如多花些时间提高自己， 让那些不懂你的人望尘莫及。 Ignorance is bliss, Some things need not be argued, needless to say, not necessarily. There is no fish in the water until there is no fish in it. You don't argue with people who know you, You don't have to argue with someone who doesn't understand you. Life was not easy, Why should you be angry about a little thing? Instead of spending time arguing, Instead of spending more time on improving yourself, Let those who do not know you. 守嘴不惹祸，宁少说多做， 不管是做人还是做事， 该你出面的时候你再说， 需要沉默的时候别乱说， 与小人争辩，辨不出道理， 与家人计较，伤的是感情。 Keep your mouth shut, and speak little. Whether it's a person or a person, And when you do, you say, Don't talk when you need to be silent. Argue with the little man, and make no sense, To care about family, hurt feelings. 人生匆匆，百年时间眨眼过， 争来斗去，到底能得到什么？ 生不带来，死不带去，何必执着。 聪明和睿智的区别就在于， 聪明的人知道什么话该说， Life in a hurry, a hundred years blink, What do you get when you fight for it? Life does not bring, death does not take, why persist. The difference between cleverness and sagacity is that, A wise man knows what to say, 睿智的人知道什么话不该说。有些话不说， 是隐忍也是度量， 有些事不争， 是让步也是成熟。 人活一世，要有个好心态， 做一个明理之人， 看人长处，记人好处， 沉默是金，吃亏是福。 A wise man knows what not to say. Some words don't say, It's the forbearance and the measure, There are things that are not contested, It is concession and maturity. To live a life, to have a good attitude, Be a man of understanding, Look at your strengths and remember the benefits. Silence is golden, but happiness is to lose. |
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