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7 types of toxic friends you need to ditch 7种你需要远离的朋友 1. People who always focus on the negative. Negativity is super contagious. 充满负面情绪人，负面情绪极易传染 2. It’s always about them, never about you. They never ask how you’re doing. They never say congratulations. They never want to know what’s going on with you. Because they’re so fixated on telling you and the world about how amazing, how horrible, how whatever they are. 对方只在乎自己。她从来不会问你过得怎么样，从来不会祝贺你，从来不知道你身上发生了什么。因为她只顾着跟你说他自己有多开心或是有多委屈… 3. Drama follows them. It seems like all this bad crap always happens to them. 他总是出各种状况，各种戏剧性的事情络绎不绝。 4. They like to point out all the flaws in you. Friends, they're not the ones that are supposed to point out all of your flaws. They’re the ones that are supposed to uplift you and help you out. 她总是喜欢指出你的缺点。朋友并不是用来一味地指责你的，她们应该帮助你变成更好的人。 5. You always have to walk very gently on eggshells. They’re just getting mad at you. You can’t ever be honest. You can’t have a real conversation… Because you’re too busy handling them with kid gloves. You know if you tell them the truth, they’re going to get pissed. 你跟他相处的时候总是感觉如履薄冰。一不小心对方就会龙颜大怒，在对方面前你都不敢说真心话。因为你一直小心翼翼地“维护“着这段友谊，你不知道自己哪句就会让对方炸开锅。 6. People who get jealous when you do something great. Our friends are there to support us. They’re not there to be envious and to resent you for being successful. 那些妒忌你成功的人。真正的朋友会祝福你，而不是在你成功时给你泼冷水。 7. People who pressure you to do things you don’t want to do. Peer pressure is a bitch. For example, when you quit drinking, some of your old friends would pressure you and call you names… it would make them uncomfortable because of your choices. 那些给你压力做你不想做的事的人。同辈压力非常普遍，比如你想要戒酒，你的那些老朋友就会酸你，让你觉得自己不合群。真正的朋友不应该因为你的个人选择而对你另眼相看。 END |
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