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很多时候，当别人需要我们去做一些事的时候，我们因为没时间，或没必要去做，而不知道该如何拒绝别人的要求，可能因为我们害怕说了“不”之后会受到别人的另眼看待，那么这样真的好吗？ 今天小编就和大家一起来学习如何礼貌的拒绝别人的要求，给自己避免很多不必要的麻烦。 首先，不要让别人觉得你的拒绝personal，或者Decline with gratitude. I’m sorry I have to turn you down. I’m really not in the mood. I would like to join, but… That’s a really good idea, but I … I wish I could help you, but I … Normally I would be able to, but I … I appreciate the offer, but … I am sorry I can’t come that day. I have… I don’t feel like… That’s very kind of you, but I’m afraid… 先表示感激或歉意，然后说出原因。 其次，关注于 what you CAN do，如果可能，提供 alternatives. I might be able to do it next week. I can’t come tomorrow, but I can volunteer….next week. I can’t right now, but maybe later. I can’t at the moment, but I’m happy to help you later. I would like very much to join you another time. 最后，keep confidence, unfront. 有礼貌地拒绝别人同时，要展现出自己的自信和坚决。不要因为拒绝而不好意思。人们都尊重有自信的人，而非因为拒绝了别人而感到内疚。 你学会了吗？ |
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