哈佛大学：内心真正强大之人的十个特质，你有几个！

1.Rigid yet adaptable固执而又会变通

Being firm in your belief yet be flexible enough to change when proven wrong.

坚持自己的想法，但是如果这些想法被证明是错误的时候，有足够的灵活性去改变。

2. Careful yet carefree 敏感但不执着

Being aware and cautious yet not giving a damn to every thing that crosses my way.

对身边的各种人事物保持敏感度，但没有任何人事物可以霸占你的内心，使你裹足不前。

3. Mellow yet fervent 稳重但又热烈

Being calm in calamity and a cracker in celebration.

在困境面前能保持冷静，但又能在欢庆中引爆全场。

4. Old yet young 成熟但又年轻

Being experienced like your grandfather yet energetic like a child.

像你的爷爷一样饱经世事，但又像孩子一样充满活力。

5. Learned yet foolish 博学但求知若渴

Being well read though knowing you still know nothing.

虽然读了很多书，但内心知道比起浩瀚的知识海洋，自己还是一无所知。

6. Sharp yet forgetful 善记但又善忘

Being intelligent with a strong memory yet deleting all the trash and negativity.

敏而好学，有很好的记忆力，但又懂得取舍，删除所有的垃圾信息和负面情绪。

7. Observant yet active 会观察但也爱尝试

Being able to observe and learn from others' mistakes yet not fearing to make my own.

会通过观察别人的错误总结经验，但有机会，也不害怕自己亲自去尝试。

8. Leader yet follower 领导者也是跟从者

Being the one that all look up to yet not looking down upon them.

能做大家都愿意追随的领导者，但也从不轻视任何一个队员，能跟他们和睦相处。

9. Selfless yet selfish 无私但又自私

Being able to help others yet making provisions for your own self.

愿意帮助他人，但也会为自己争得应有的回报。

10. Patient yet restless 既耐心又不安分

Being able to accept defeat with grace yet not resting a moment to achieve success once again.

能带着感恩的心坦然接受失败，不怨天尤人，同时自己也不会停下不断尝试成功的脚步。