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1、踏实做事，宽厚做人 十分不耐烦，乃为人大病 一味学吃亏，是处事良方 处事轻浮，耐不得麻烦，是一个人最大的缺点；为人永远抱着吃亏的态度，就是最好的处事之道。 嫌麻烦，说明心里浮躁，浮躁则浅薄；耐住麻烦，踏实下来做事，则就是修炼。人肯吃小亏，终不吃大亏，因为大亏正是不吃小亏累积来的。 One's greatest weakness is to be frivolous and not to be troubled; the best way to deal with things is to always take a losing attitude towards people. Suspicion of trouble indicates impetuosity in mind, while impetuosity is shallow; enduring trouble and steadfastly doing things is practice. People are willing to suffer a small loss, but they will not suffer a big loss, because it is the accumulation of a big loss that does not suffer a small loss.
2、私心是毒药，忍耐是素质 欲利己，便是害己 肯下人，终能上人 想要对自己有利，往往反而害了自己。能够屈居人下而无怨言，终有一天也能居于人上。 自私之人从来不受欢迎，路会越走越窄。能甘居人下，是具备忍耐之性，懂得等待时机，这是成大事者的必备素质。 If you want to be good for yourself, you often do yourself a disservice. To be able to submit to others without complaints, one day will also be able to live above others. Selfish people are never welcome and the road gets narrower and narrower. Being willing to live in the world is patient and knows how to wait for the right time. This is the essential quality of a person who can accomplish great things.
3、忠厚是第一人品，勤俭为最高家道 处世以忠厚人为法 传家得勤俭意便佳 在社会上为人处事，应当以忠厚的人为效法对象；传于后代的只要能得勤劳和俭朴之意，便是最好的了。 近朱者赤，近墨者黑。交朋友也会相互影响。 In dealing with people in society, we should follow the example of loyal people; as long as the meaning of diligence and frugality can be handed down to future generations, it is the best. Near Zhu is red, near Mo is black. Making friends also affects each other.
4、做人最忌宽己严人，做事最怕刚愎自用 但责己，不责人 此远怨之道也 但信己，不信人 此取败之由也 只责备自己，不责备他人，这是远离怨恨的最好办法。只相信自己，不相信他人，这是做事情失败的主要原因。 责己不责人，内则提升素养，外则不惹冲突，自己能成长，别人也不怨恨。 It's the best way to stay away from resentment to blame only yourself and not others. Believing only in yourself and not in others is the main reason why things fail. To blame oneself without blaming others is to improve one's accomplishment in the interior, but not to cause conflicts in the exterior. One can grow up without resentment from others.
5、为人处世，莫过于老老实实 打算精明，自谓得计 然败祖父之家声者，必此人也 朴实浑厚，初无甚奇 然培子孙之元气者，必此人也 凡事都斤斤计较、毫不吃亏的人，自以为很成功，但是败坏祖宗良好名声的，必定是这种人。诚实俭朴而又敦厚待人的人，刚开始虽然不见他有什么特别的表现，然而使子孙能够有一种纯厚之气、历久不衰的，必定是这种人。 人品有问题，也是一种败家。厚道积德，福能泽及子孙。 He who cares about everything and never loses money thinks he is very successful, but he must be the one who ruins the good reputation of his ancestors. Honest, frugal and generous people, although at first he did not see any special performance, but so that future generations can have a pure spirit, enduring, it must be such a person. Personality problems are also a kind of loser. Good morality, good fortune and future generations.
6、志高才能品高，踏实才能成事 志不可不高，志不高 则同流合污，无足有为矣 心不可太大，心太大 则舍近图远，难期有成矣 一个人的志气不能不高，如果志气不高，就容易为不良的环境所影响，不可能有什么大作为。一个人的野心不可太大，如果野心太大，那么便会舍弃切近可行的事，而去追逐遥远不可达的目标，于是很难有什么成就。 志气是一种气象和眼光，然而心态不踏实就会沦为虚妄。 A person's ambition can not be low, if ambition is not high, it is easy to be affected by the adverse environment, it is impossible to make any great achievements. One's ambition should not be too great. If one's ambition is too big, he will abandon the near feasible things and pursue the distant and unreachable goals, so it is difficult to achieve anything. Ambition is a kind of Meteorology and vision, but if one's mind is not solid, it will become illusory.
7、处世两要：敬别人，靠自己 敬他人，即是敬自己 靠自己，胜于靠他人 敬别人，就是敬自己；依靠自己，胜过依靠别人。 敬别人，别人也会敬你，受益的终归是自己。靠别人，人人都更看重自己，终归靠不住。 To respect others is to respect oneself; to rely on oneself is better than to rely on others. Respect others, others will respect you, the ultimate benefit is their own. Depending on others, everyone attaches more importance to himself, and ultimately can not be trusted.
8、为人忌清高，居心宜正直 和平处事，勿矫俗以为高 正直居心，勿设机以为智 为人处世要心平气和，不要故意违背习俗，自命清高；平日存心要公正刚直，不设计机巧，自认为聪明。 入乡随俗，和光同尘，这是心里装着别人，并与人为善。心机巧诈，一回两回或许能骗过别人，时间久了谁都看得出来。 Be calm in your life, don't deliberately violate customs and pretend to be noble; mean to be impartial and upright on weekdays, don't design cleverly and think you are smart. When in Rome, do as the Romans do, and share the same light and dust, this is to pretend others in heart and to be kind to others. With ingenuity, you may be able to cheat others twice a time, as anyone can see over a long period of time.
9、君子之道 和气迎人，平情应物 抗心希古，藏器待时 以祥和的态度去和人交往，以平等的心态去应对事物。以古人的高尚心志自相期许，收敛自己的才能以等待可用的时机。 君子藏器于身，待时而动。这个“器”，是才能、本事，也是器度、器量。 Communicate with people in a peaceful manner and deal with things in an equal manner. With the noble aspirations of the ancients, we hope to restrain our abilities so as to wait for the available time. Gentlemen hide their wares in their bodies and move around. This "instrument" is not only talent and ability, but also measure and measure.
10、给人留余地，自己守良心 求个良心管我 留些余地处人 守住自己的良心以约束自己，与人相处多给别人留些余地。 良心和余地，是永远不嫌多的两样东西。 Keep your conscience to restrain yourself, and give others more room to get along with others. Conscience and margin are two things that are never too many. 好文欣赏，点击即可阅读： 1、 2、 3、 4、 5、
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