【原】英语优秀短篇写作（精选）

低品质奋斗者         Low Quality Fighter

 

处于社会最底层，我们深知努力是爬高唯一出路。

Staying low in the society, we know working hard is the only way to climb high.

 

大部分人都知道为了什么要努力工作，不是为了未来，就是为了家庭， 当然还有极少的人还是不知道为什么要努力工作。

Most know why they work hard, either for their futures, or for their families, certainly few people don't know why they work hard yet.

 

知道为了什么而努力不直接影响结果本身，真正有关系的是系统的计划。

Whether or not you know why you work hard doesn't directly affect the result as such, what really matter is the systematical plan.

 

我们很少实现我们设定的计划，不是因为我们不努力，大部分也不是因为其他客观的原因。

We can hardly achieve the goals we set up, neither because we don't work hard, nor mostly because there are other objective reasons.

 

而是因为我们没有系统的计划，或是因为没有定期调整我们的计划。

It's because we don't systematically lay out our plans, or because we don't adjust our plans periodically.

 

当我们没有详细的计划，就容易迷失自我，容易生疑。

When we don't have any detailed plans, it's easy for us to get lost or make ourselves suspicious.

 

光有目标没有具体的计划的人被叫作低品质奋斗者。

Those who have goals without detailed plans are called low-quality strugglers.

 

没有详细计划的支持，成功将会是一个遥远的目标。

None of successes is easily achieved without a detailed plan.

 

 

坚持   Persistence

 

如果不坚持到最后，如何知道成功是什么样的呢？有些时候就在你身边或是偷偷从你眼皮底下溜走。

 

How would you know what success is if you don't stick to the end? Sometimes the success is just close to you or sneaks away under your eyes.

 

 

若成功很容易，那么任何努力都是白费的；成功需要多少努力极大地取决于成功如何被定义，成功所需努力直接决定了在成功前你要坚持多久。

 

If the success is rather easy to be achieved, any effort is in vain or wasteful; How many efforts a success requires greatly depends upon how the success is defined, which directly decides how long you should persist.

 

 

如果你定义走10公里为成功的话，那么成功就是你走完了10公里，任何少于10公里的都不能称作成功。

 

If you define walking ten kilometers as a success, then the success is that you finish walking ten kilometers, less than which any distance is not called a success.

 

 

在走完十公里前或是完成了大部分后，或许你觉得太筋疲力尽了以至于不能坚持走完，同时各种的气馁疑问开始困扰着你，使想宁愿马上放弃。

 

Before finishing that much walking or after finishing most of walking, maybe you feel too exhausted to insist on walking, in the meantime, all kinds of discourages and doubts start to bother you, making you would rather give up in no time than keep walking.

 

 

你一决定放弃你所坚持的，就会觉得遗憾悔恨。越是靠近成功就应该越努力。你觉得累的时候，正是需要你更多的精力和注意的时候。

 

You feel rather regretful the moment you decide to give up what you've insisted on; The closer to the success, the more efforts it requires. The time when you feel rather exhausted is the very time that requires your more intention and energy.

 

 

当你觉得累的时候，无疑你真的很累，且你能想到的只有气馁，然而为什么不转换下思维呢？浪费在气馁上的消极想法本身，就在耗费应该花在通往成功道路的时间和精力。

 

When you feel tired, no doubt you really feel it, and what you can think of is to retreat from tiredness, however why not alter the way you think？ The passive thinking as such, dissipated on this discouragement, also costs what originally should be spent on the way towards the goal, which are efforts and energies.

 

 

当你想放弃的时候，请花点时间想象成功的情形给自己充电，就像涡轮增压一样，让自己充满能量。

 

When discouragement is about to become the last thing left to you, please spend some time on imagining the situation of success to recharge yourself, just like turbocharging, forcing extra power into your mind.

 

 

看了上面的，当你累的时候你还想着放弃吗？不是看到了希望才去坚持，是坚持了才有希望。

 

Seeing above, do you still think to give up when feeling tired?  Hope is not what you persist when seeing it, it's what you insist on brings hope.

 

能让你成长的是经历，不是岁月  Experience decorates you

 

每个人的成长过程都有相同的岁月，但是每个人的经历大相径庭，能让人真正成长的是丰富多样的经历，而不是岁月。

Years of growth for everyone is identical, however, the abundant experiences during which are quite different, which really make you mature.

 

光阴似箭，能见证光阴的足迹的也只有丰富多彩的人生经历了。人生可以平淡无奇，也可以绚丽多彩， 但平淡无奇的人生是空白的人生，只有绚丽多彩的人生才不枉独一无二的诞生。

Only the ample experiences can mark the footprint of flying time. Life can be either plain or colorful, however compared with the plain life, the bright and colorful one is a unique and perfect painting for birth.

 

人生不容易，需要多经历，起起落落对于丰富的人生经历是常事，只要心中不放弃，才有更宽敞的路。讽刺的是平淡的人生也不容易，需要重复耗费自己来消磨岁月。

Life is not easy and requires assorted experiences, the rise and fall of which is normal for a persevering heart, and the following road will be more spacious. Ironically the plain life is also not easy for some people, because it also consumes themselves to kill time.

 

成长的时间需要岁月的累积，但成长的空间是由经历组成的。岁月的长短不是自己定的，但是成长的空间是可以通过丰富的经历来拓宽的。

The time of growth is accumulated from the years, however, what constitute the room of growth are the ample experiences. The length of years can't be set by anyone, but by constantly experiencing can one expand the room of growth.

 

一个人不是长大了就成熟了，而是成熟成长了才长大了。长大不止是岁月的流逝，更重要的是经历的沉淀。沉淀越多，成长的越充实。

Being a real adult is definitely with being sophisticated instead of being ageing. It is more than the passing of years, what is more important is the accumulation of experiences. The more the accumulations are, the richer the experiences are.

 

 

 

只要心到了，就什么都到了         Anything is possible for a willing heart

 

世上本无难事，难事都是被担心和紧张出来的。没有良好的心态，吃饭都会担心被噎死。

All difficulties are produced by worry and intension hold by those who don’t have a good state of mind, without which eating may also become a big trouble.

 

所谓违背自己的意愿，就是自己的所做不是自己心里所想的，若怀揣着这样的心里去做事，基本上都是事与愿违，而且过程会相当吃力，因为要克服内心的阻力。

The breach of will is to do things breaching heart, with which everything may go beyond expectation, and the process will be struggling due to the resistance from heart.

 

要想把一件事做好，首要条件是心要调到相应的频道，因为心是行动的导航器，而且事无巨细，只要心到位了，就能事半功倍。

Everything will always go well as expected for a good and ready heart, because a heart is like a navigator for every physical behavior, navigating them for the whole process, furthermore, everything will become easier when a heart is in the right place, and the efficiency of them will be double improved.

 

遇到紧急的事就紧张，不知所措；遇到危险的事就担心，失魂落魄；遇到讨厌的事就躲避，不屑一顾，这些都是心态没有摆正的原因。

If one's heart is not in a right place, he will get nervous when facing urgencies, or get worried when facing dangers, or get dodged when facing dislikes.

 

遇到紧急的事没必要紧张，因为越紧张，事情就越容易搞砸；遇到危险的事没必要担心，因为越担心，危险不会丝毫减少；遇到讨厌的事没必要躲避，因为越躲避，事情就越难完成。

Being nervous for nervous situations aggravates the situations, messing them more easily; Being anxious for anxious situations aggravates the situations, magnifying the dangers of them; Being evasive for the annoying situations aggravates the situations, further complicating them.

 

心到了，一切的不良状态都会很好的被调整为良好的状态。紧张或躲避都会加重事情本身的复杂度和严重度。

All bad situations will be adjusted to bad ones for a free heart, instead of a heart that is full of intension or fear.

 

 

 

让你平庸的是你的固步自封         Being stick-in-the-mud makes you mediocre

 

不存在谁一生下来就有非凡的成就，但存在一生下来直到老去还是很平庸的人，平庸的人之所以平庸，都是固步自封的结果。

The remarkable achievement is not born to the new-born; however, nothing can stay with those who reject to make progress till their deaths.

 

人有所不为，那是因为知其然，然而若不知其然而不为，不过是盲目地瞎想，跟随波逐流没有本质的区别，更好的机会和更大的挑战会因此失之交臂。

It makes sense that one behaves because he knows the involved concerns, however it does not when he does not behave before knowing the truth, which is a blind image, cutting off the sources of better chances and bigger challenges.

 

除了一些本能以外，人的其他技能都要经历从不知其然到知其然的过程，包括勇敢的尝试；若你固执盲目地否认自己，不敢接受尝试挑战，那么到死的那刻，充其量你就是自己出生的拷贝。

Before becoming sophisticated, everyone should experience a lot including the courageous tries. If the denial of yourself is taken as your first option before trying, your whole life is just the copy of the born you at most.

 

不断尝试新鲜事，不断挑战各种极限才能让有限的生命绽放绚丽的光泽。若固步自封，畏首畏尾，则人生足迹只是一条容易被遗忘的直线，找不到光彩面。

A limited life can be made more colorful and brighter by constantly experiencing fresh things and challenging new limits, and the plain life without glowing can be caused by stopping progressing and fears.

 

相对于大千世界，每个人都是独一无二的小小的一片叶子，当陷入无助迷茫时，可以多看看周围的人和事物，发现可能来挖掘潜力，逐渐变成茁壮的叶子。

For the universal, everyone is a unique tiny little leaf that is easy to get lost. When getting lost, everyone may look around time after time to discovery possibilities so as to dig potentials to make self strong.

 

人在成功之前都是平庸的，但是在固步自封之后就一直都是平庸的。有了梦想就应该勇往直前，没有人知道你的梦想能否实现，你才是你的梦想的主人，所以奋勇前进吧！

Being nothing is the only status for one before his success, and he will be always at this status when stopping progressing. Each dream deserves a crazy pursuit from the dream owners no matter how far or distant it is, so pull yourself together and go for it!

 

 

 

当你停下来休息时，请记住别人还在前进        Your stop is not others'

 

当你在竞逐梦想的道路上停下来休息时，请记住别人还在前进。虽然有了充沛的精力和体力，实现梦想才有前提，但是不能把休息当做追逐梦想所遇到的辛酸苦辣的借口。

 

One should always remember that others will continue to progress when you cease your progress. Rest is not supposed to become the excuses for the bitterness and sorrow encountered by one when chasing his dream.

 

 

机遇是昙花，转瞬即逝，时间像流水，一去不复还 ，只有当下的时间才是最真实的。或许休息是为了以更好的状态去竞逐梦想，也是梦想实现不可缺少的环节，但绝不是紧要环节。我们相信一个没有准备好的人，是不会轻易去竞逐属于自己的那片天空。

 

Opportunity is comparatively transient, waiting for nobody; Time is like running water, which is not recyclable, only the present time is real. Perhaps rest is to better chase a dream, and is a necessary step to achieve a dream, but definitely not a crucial step. We all believe that our futures require our tremendous effects with both a ready physical status and a ready mental condition.

 

 

休息是每个人都可以使用的权利，适当地使用权利是合理的。如果实现梦想需要走100步，那么可能休息一分钟就需要多一步了，变成101步，在这一分钟内继续前行的人就又少一步了，变成99步。无疑99步的肯定先实现梦想，因此若不累的话，应该把休息排除。

 

Everyone needs a rest when tired, and a proper break is reasonable. If a dream is equivalent to 100 steps of walk, then one-minute break will increase one more step up to 101 steps, however those continuing chasing their dreams take one less step down to 99 steps. No doubt the dreams of the latter will come true in advance, so the rest should be the last thing to consider when being tired never comes up.

 

 

现在的舒适日子让很多人淡化了曾经日思夜想的理想，停滞不前，早已经放弃了心中的那份执着，于是他们的未来就是现状的拷贝了，人生失去了活力。

Having a comfortable life at present, human beings start not to concentrate on their dreams in which they immerse themselves and stop moving forward, giving up the persistence in their hearts, whereupon their futures will be simple copies of current lives without any vitalities.

 

 

而那些利用现有的便利生活条件继续前行的人，生活充满了更高的梦想，更精彩的挑战，这样的未来才是绚丽多彩的。

 

However, those keeping moving with conditions in existence will have higher dreams and more splendid challenges, which is a very colorful future.

 

 

进步不是由满足的人所创造         Progress only belongs to the unsatisfied

 

进步不是由满足的人所创造，也就是说如果你感到满足了，那么你就停止进步了。虽然知足常乐是良好的心态，但是进步不是为这样的心态准备的。

Progress is not created by contented people, namely, If you had been satisfied, progress would have had nothing to do with you, and it is not prepared for the mindset of contentment.

 

不满现状才有进步的可能性，如果你讨厌现在的自己，那么就尽力用心让改变自己；如果你讨厌现在的工作环境，那么就下定决心换个工作环境；如果你讨厌现在的生活，那么就毫不犹豫改变现状。

Progress is of few possibilities created by contented people. If you dislike the current self, then try your best to change yourself; If you dislike the current working atmosphere, then make your decision to change it; If you dislike the current life, then feel no hesitation to change it.

 

如果人类满足现状的话，那么人类就不是现在的人类了。科技进步是科学家日新月异的思维的蜕变；医学发展是医学家不胜枚举的临床的实践；交通的发达是建造者夜以继日的辛勤的结晶，任何的进步都离不开精益求精，任何的发展都离不开持之以恒。

Human beings would not be current human beings if they stopped progressing since the very beginning of mankind. The progress of science and technology is the assorted transforms of the thoughts of scientists; The progress of medical science is the numerous practices of the clinics of medical scientists; The progress of traffic is the arduous fruits of the builder. Neither any progress will last without improving, nor any development will continue without improving.

 

当你感到平庸的时候，就是你要进步的时候；当你觉得无趣的时候，就是你要进步的时候；当你发觉无用的时候，就是你要进步的时候。在任何感觉自己接近荒废的时间里，只要停止了进步，任何正常的思维也会变得不正常。

It's time for you to progress when you feel plain or boring or useless. Within a time when you're about to dilapidate yourself, only with a progress can you think normally and upwards.

 

当你理屈词穷的时候，就是你要进步的时候；当你穷困潦倒的时候，就是你要进步的时候；当你虎落平阳的时候，就是你要进步的时候，这告诉我们，需要进步是没有理由的，进步就是硬道理，谁放弃了进步，就放弃了现在的或是将来的自己。

It's time for you to progress when you're not capable of arguing any more, or when you're on the beach, or when you're nothing. In other words, progress is not something that can be given up by no reasons. Whoever abandon progresses are to abandon themselves

 

如果你现在啥都不顺，你还有什么理由不奋起直追想方设法进步呢。

How would you stay still when what you have are totally out of control? Aren't you supposed to figure out a way to get rid of those castoffs?

 

 

办法总比困难多      Method overwhelms difficulty

 

你难，其实别人也难。但办法总比困难多，把工作做到极致，这就是工作态度，也是体现责任，更能反映你的能力。

You are never harder than anyone else, since there is always a better way helping you out, which also verifies your working attitude and responsibility, and more for your ability.

 

越来越多过不去的坎和看不穿的事都是困难比办法多的人现状，他们大部分时间都在纠结，都在犹豫，放弃了最佳的突破点，而且情况会越来越糟，以至于不攻自破，怨天尤人。

Bumpy and uneven roads belong exclusively to whoever waste most of their time in lingering, and worrying about what is useless, which leads to a failure destination and brings endless sadness and helplessness.

 

 

办法比困难多的人总是在寻找突破点，寻找制胜点，充分发挥现有的资源，稀释困难，淡化恐惧，以至于左右逢源，得心应手。

Spacious and straight roads belong to whoever dig themselves into exploring breakthrough points, and taking full use of what they have to dilute difficulties and fears, so as to conquer them.

 

成功之前，所有的疑问与不确定都是困难，但同时也是办法的发源处；越是遇到棘手的问题，就越应该急中生智。

Everything can trigger new thoughts, although they may be doubtful before success, especially for the tough ones.

 

如果你还在犹豫不决，还在杞人忧天，还在裹足不前，那么请赶紧丢掉不必要的思想包袱，去思索新的方法，去拓展更广的视野。

Please pull yourselves together and go out of troubles where you are stuck to widen visions and start a new life.

 

 

观念改变命运         Thoughts change life mostly

 

第一年咬牙买了房子了，第二年就不会乱花钱，因为想着还月供第三年已经养成好习惯，按时存钱还房贷。

Money is unexpectedly spent somewhere before being acknowledged, however it can be reasonably arranged once it is spent somewhere consciously, like

real estate, to which you will thus get used.

 

年以后你会发现：身边的朋友没买房子的，钱也不知道花哪里去了，也并没有因没买房生活更轻松，而买了房的人，也并没影响生活和家庭幸福！最终还积累了一大笔财富！

Compared with whoever spend money aimlessly, those, who spend money on something requesting continuously settled investment, accumulate rather considerable fortune increasingly, like real estate.

 

人与人最大的区别就是观念改变命运。穷最怕的是不思变，贫穷限定了思维，限定了未来。

Sometimes, what changes someone mostly is not how much effort he takes, but the bold and up-to-date thought. What can poverty only bring is still poverty, where nothing promising or gracious ever hit your eyes.

 

如果现有的观念没有改变命运的征兆，那么就得变观念，往大的和远的方向去改变。

When there isn't any good sign of future showing up, the action of changing thought can't be too soon to carry out.

 

计划赶不上变化，成熟的计划不一定意味着成功的结果，但是有胆识的观念才更有可能取得突破性的进展。

Every perfect plan might not definitely come out a great success, but a brave thought is apt to have a breakthrough.

 

 

只要肯拼搏，生活就没有弱者     Anything is possible for the strong

 

只要肯努力付出，就没有成为弱者的心态，那么就更可能成为强者。弱者是生活中为强者铺路的人，他们只仰望强者的高度，而放弃奋斗的大路。

It is of more possibilities to become strong for a passionate heart than an inactive one, with which the weak can achieve nothing but look up at others, then discard the bright future.

 

强者之所以是强者，是因为在生活中不断摸爬滚打，不甘示弱，奋勇前进。弱者之所以是弱者，是因为在生活中前怕狼后怕虎，犹豫不决，畏缩不前。

The strong are not strong before they experience toughly, and the weak are always weak when they are full of fear and negativity.

 

 

只有去摸索，去拼搏，大路才能越来越明显。只要坚持摸索，坚持拼搏，大路就会越来越宽敞。拿得起，放得下，才能变得强大，才能翻越更高的山顶。

The future will be bright when considerable efforts are exerted, and brighter when such efforts are continuously exerted.  The good balance between advancing and retreat makes you fly higher.

 

只有拥有无畏向上的精神，才能克服工作生活中的种种曲折困难，不断进取。 只要拥有坚定不移的毅力，就能成为生活中的强者和佼佼者。

The only effective way to overcome obstacles and difficulties from both work and life is to advance bravely and keep advancing.

 

不管你现在处于哪个状态，赶紧加大步伐，向理想进发，能把你打败的人只有你自己，能让你变强的人也只有你自己，你看着办吧。不把自己逼一把，还真不知道自己有当强者的潜质。

Adjust yourself right now no matter how bad or good situation you are in, and go forward for your dreams. You are the very one who can defeat yourself or make you strong. You never know how strong you could be before being pushed by your own.

 

 

 

凡是杀不死你的，都只会让你更强大     Those not killing you will be killed

 

如果遇到困难曲折就前怕狼后怕虎，自暴自弃，那么结局注定是死路一条。困难像弹簧，你弱它就强。

Self-loathing will kill you from A to Z when you confront difficulty which is like a spring, being apt to become strong while you are apt to become weak.

 

如果工作的繁杂没把你烦怕，或没让你崩溃，那么你就是工作上的强者。强者自强，披荆斩棘，工作上就能左右逢源，事半功倍。

If the miscellaneous details of work don’t bother you or break you down, then you are the strong at work, who always make themselves brave then stronger, and will be able to achieve success one way or another, and will accomplish twice as much.

 

如果生活的重担没把你累垮，或没让你逃避，那么你就是生活里的强者。强者自强，如释重负，生活里就能其乐融融，无忧无虑。

If the heavy load of life doesn't exhaust you or make you evasive, then you are the strong in life, who always make themselves easy and then stronger, and will become joyful and happy, and will live without sorrow and anxiety.

 

如果学习的压力没把你压趴，或没让你停止，那么你就是学习中的强者。强者自强，发奋图强，学习中就能积极向上，突飞猛进。

If the great pressure of study doesn't overwhelm you or make you stop, then you are the strong among study, who always make themselves aggressive and then stronger, and will become positive, and will make astonishing progress.

 

如果你不理会旁人的闲言闲语，那么就能心平气和，勇往直前。

You will be in a calm mood, then advance bravely when you don't pay attention to others’ gossips.

 

如果你不苟同别人的夸夸其谈，那么就能真知灼见，卓尔不群。

You will have correct and penetrating views, then make yourself brilliant when you don't agree with others' boasts.

 

如果你不嫉妒他人的丰功伟绩，那么就能脚踏实地，奋起直追。

You will be down-to-earth, then catch up with the successful people when you don't envy their achievements.

 

如果你不埋怨家人的满腹牢骚，那么就能家庭和睦，幸福美满。

You will have a harmonious family, then make yourself happy when you don't complain their complaints.

 

如果你不怨恨友人的背信弃义，那么就能宽宏大量，德重恩弘。

You will be tolerant, then make yourself respectable when you don't resent your friends’ ingratitude.

 

如果你不算计自己的利害得失，那么就能胸襟开阔，海纳百川。

You will have an open heart, then make yourself broadminded when you don't calculate your gain or loss.

 

 

你还在等什么         Now is the best time

 

舞台再大，你不上台，永远是个观众。

You'll be an audience forever when you don't perform, no matter how big the stage is.

 

平台再好，你不参与，永远是个局外人。

You'll be an outsider forever when you don't participate, no matter how good the platform is.

 

能力再强，你不行动，只能看别人成功。

You'll look up to others' successes when you don't take actions, no matter how capable you are.

 

想法再多，你不实践，永远改变不了现状。

You'll be what is now forever when you don't practice, no matter how thoughtful you are.

 

朋友再多，你不联系，最后只能彼此淡忘。

You'll be friendless to the end when you don't get in contact with your friends, no matter how sociable you are.

 

资源再多，你不整合，永远找不到商机。

You'll never find a niche when you don't integrate resources, no matter how ample hold.

 

 

嫉妒   Jealousy

 

当我们因为某些人的优点而羡慕他们时，我们希望自己也拥有和他们一样的优点，然而当我们嫉妒某些人的长处时，我们不但没有这些优点，而且还贬低排斥他们。

When we admire others for their merits, we wish we also had the same merits as them, while when we envy others for their advantages, we not only don't have such merits, also depreciate and exclude them.

 

我们都知道嫉妒会生恨，接踵而至的是愤怒；一旦我们变得非常生气，进而失去心智，就很容易发生任何愚蠢或是无意识的犯罪行为，从这里我们得出结论，嫉妒容易产生什么不良的影响。

None of us doesn't know what comes after jealousy, it's hatred, which is followed by wrath; Once we become rather angry, and further out of our minds, any stupid and unconscious crime is possible to be committed, from which we can

conclude what serious consequence it is easy for the jealousy to evolve into.

 

这不是危言耸听，且尊监狱思索我们的愚蠢行为也不是我们期待的。比我们好的人多的是，难道我们都要嫉恨他们吗？

This isn't scaremongering, and it's not what we expect to stay in prison pondering what stupid things we've done. There is an enormous number of people outside who are many times better than us, are we going to show our hostilities to all of them.

 

如果别人比我们好，那也只是在某些方面，这个现象非常普遍。就像其他人有优点一样，每个人都是唯一的，有他们自己的优点和长处，去嫉恨别人真的是不值得的事。

If others are better than us, it just means that they are better in some ways, which is a common existence. Just like that, everyone is unique, having their own merits and advantages, it's really not worth for us to waste time on envying others.

 

既然嫉恨别人是不合适的，那么我们多少可以取长补短，而不是白白地浪费一个潜在的机会。

Now that it's not an appropriate choice to envy others, we may more or less choose to learn from them to offset our demerits, instead of giving up a potential chance in vain.

 

嫉妒别人而不生恨的人实在是令人羡慕，但这终究不是什么轻松的事，在心里留下了隐患。

Those who envy others without evolving into anger are really admirable, which however, is eventually not a comfortable thing, sowing a risk in your mind.

 

关注自己越多，就越少嫉妒别人，迟早我们会发现我们是有潜力成为让别人羡慕的人。

The more attentions we pay to yourself, the less jealousies we have, sooner or later, we will figure out that we have the potential to be the one admired by others.

 

 

接触什么样的人和思想，就进入什么样的能量场        Energy depends on thinking

 

近朱者赤近墨者黑。不同人的带来不同的能量场，当正能量不足以抵消或打败负能量时，负能量就占上风，阻碍着本该顺利实现的任何事情。

Keep good men company and you shall be one of the numbers. Different people bring different energies, of which the negative one will dominate soon or later when the positive energy is not strong enough to offset or defeat it, impeding whatever are supposed to be achieved successfully.

 

当与开心的人在一起时，变伤心的可能性就降低了，同时开心的几率就变高了，因为开心是每个人追求的；如果与之相处的人也开心，那么开心的可能性就不止放大两倍了。

When one is with those who are happy, the possibility of being upset is reduced, increasing the possibility of being happy in the meantime, because happiness is what everyone seeks; If the one is also happy, the possibility of being happy will be enlarged more than twice.

 

当与痛苦的人在一起时，变伤心的可能性就增加了，同时开心的几率就变低了，因为每个人都不喜欢痛苦；如果与之相处的人也不开心，那么痛苦的可能性就迅速被放大。

When one is with those who are unhappy, the possibility of being upset increases rapidly, reducing the possibility of being happy in the meantime, because unhappiness is what everyone dislikes; If the one is also unhappy, the possibility of being upset will also be enlarged sharply.

 

当两种不同的能量场汇集，更强大的能量场就能占据上风；比如，如果某个人总是在你表达自己的想法之前埋怨，一种负能量，你迟早也会埋怨起来的。

When two different energies encounter each other, the one that is more powerful will overwhelm another, dominating the fields; For example, if someone always complains in front of you before none of your actions are taken, a kind of negative energy, you will also fall into starting to complain sooner or later.

 

相反地，如果当某个人在埋怨时，你试着去阻止，那么有可能或是可能性很大你成功阻止并开始表达自己，慢慢摆脱埋怨并占据能量场。有主见的人被其他人影响的可能性就小。

If you try to stop the complaints to the contrary when someone is complaining, there are few or many a possibility that you stop the complaints and start to express yourself, slowly escaping from the complaints and dominating the field. Whoever have their own judgements are of few possibilities of being affected by others.

 

难怪每个人都喜欢和充满正能量的人在一起，然而我们不全都是积极向上的；就像上面提到的那样，我们要经常和充满正能量的人在一起来抵消自己的负能量和培养积极向上的性情，且尽最大的努力避开充满负能量的人。

No wonder everyone likes to be with those who are full of positive energies, however not all of us are positive; As mentioned above, we should always stay with those who are positive to offset selves' negativizes and cultivate positive temperaments, and try our bests to stay away from those who are negative.

 

当你充满正能量时，请帮助他人，当你充满负能量时，请跟充满正能量的人在一起。态度决定是否成功，正能量助你成功。

Please help others well when you're positive, and stay with positive ones when you're negative. Attitude decides whether you will succeed or not, and positive energy helps you succeed.

 

 

 

 

控制自己的情绪      Control your temper

 

我们都有脾气，或好或坏，其中坏脾气对轻易发脾气的人及他们身边的人产生了坏的影响。

We all have tempers either good or bad, of which the bad tempers have negative effects on those who readily lose their tempers and the ones around them.

 

当你不能控制自己的脾气或是你的情绪支配着你时，你会很无助或难受，而且迟早你身边的人也会恼羞成怒。

You will be helpless or afflictive when you can't control your tempers or your moods dominate you, and sooner or later, the ones around you may also feel furious and lose their tempers too.

 

容易发怒的人会逐渐变得孤单孤僻，最后会被社会遗忘。

The ones who are easy to get angry will become lonely and solitary gradually, from whom others will keep themselves, finally will be discarded by the society.

 

显然地，温和的脾气帮助很大，特别是遇到一些激进和敏感的问题。

Apparently, having a mild temper will helps a lot especially when it comes to some aggressive and sensitive problems.

 

我们都希望自己有个好脾气，然而由于多样的主观性使结果截然相反。

We all wish we had a good temper; however, it turns out contrary due to its diversified subjectivities.

 

然而要培养一个好脾气不是不可能的，因为在发脾气之前我们都是理智的，我们要做的就是在发脾气前多思考，让思考缓冲你的情绪或是脾气。

Whereas it doesn't mean it's impossible to cultivate a good temper because we're all rational before losing our tempers, what we need to do is to think much before getting angry, let thinking buffer your moods or tempers.

 

如果你已经容易发脾气，最好经常外出让新鲜事物稀释和刷新你的脾气，同时慢慢培养一个缓和的性情。

If you've already been used to having a short temper, you'd better often go out to let fresh things dilute and refresh your temper, furthermore, to cultivate a new smooth temperament slowly.

 

 

 

宽容   Tolerance

 

一个简单的宽容可以容易地避免许多严重的错误。

Many a serious mistake can be avoided easily by a simple tolerance.

 

一个简单的宽容可以很好地延续许多美好的关系。

Many a good relationship can be maintained well by a simple tolerance.

 

一个简单的宽容可以完美地完成许多困难的任务。

Many a tough mission can be finished perfectly by a simple tolerance.

 

一个简单的宽容可以逐渐地培养许多温和的性情。

Many a mild temper can be cultivated gradually by a simple tolerance.

 

一个简单的宽容可以恰当地阻止许多残忍的杀戮。

Many a brutal killing can be prevented properly by a simple tolerance.

 

一个简单的宽容可以平稳地延续许多激烈的讨论。

Many a aggressive talking can be continued smoothly by a simple tolerance.

 

一个简单的宽容可以极大地缓和许多持久的冲突。

Many a sustained conflict can be eased immensely by a simple tolerance.

 

一个简单的宽容可以有效地聚集许多珍贵的建议。

Many a valuable advice can be collected effectively by a simple tolerance.

 

一个简单的宽容可以微妙地培养许多漂亮的情感。

Many a beautiful emotion can be fostered delicately by a simple tolerance.

 

一个简单的宽容可以优雅地修炼许多崇高的成就。

Many a lofty achievement can be refined gracefully by a simple tolerance.

 

 

 

乐观   Optimism

 

乐观是一种非常难得的个性，可以减轻麻烦的消极影响，同时增加面对麻烦的动力和睿智，这种个性有的时候比普通的方法更能有效地防止麻烦。

Optimism is a rather precious personality, enabling one to ease passive effects in troubles, in the meantime, increasing powers and wits to confront them, which sometimes is more effective than common ways to prevent troubles.

 

我们每天都会遇到这样那样的压力，如果不能恰当地减少或是释放压力，那么我们将跌入悲伤、痛苦和悲剧的深渊，毁了一生。

Every day of our lives we encounter stresses of one kind or another, if we are not able to reduce or release those stresses properly, we will fall into the abyss of sadness and misery and tragedy, destroying our lifetimes.

 

悲观滋生压力，使它们表面上看起来很可怕，相反地，当压力变得可怕时，又催生悲观，人生注定失败。

It's pessimism that fosters stresses, making them seemingly fearful, conversely, stresses

breed pessimism when they become fearful, by which life are doomed to failure.

 

当压力不与悲观共存时，它就不可怕，且乐观应对的话，压力就很容易被减轻或是释放，因为乐观本身是好的判断力和智慧的源泉，能大部分的减弱压力的负面影响。

Stress itself is not fearful when not followed by pessimism, and can be easily reduced or

removed by optimism, because optimism itself is a source of wisdom and intelligence, mostly weakening the adverse effect.

 

 

人之所以总是悲观是因为遇到困难时，第一时间就想到不良的结果，引起极大的恐慌，逐渐地占据了整个心，无疑积极的思维情绪无处萌生。

The reason why one is always pessimistic is that the bad result of difficulty is the first

thing coming up in mind, incurring great panic and gradually occupying the whole mind, no doubt there isn't any room for positive mood or thinking to sow.

 

 

要很好的除掉压力或困难的负面影响，人需要一直保持乐观，多考虑积极面，减少负面的影响，越乐观，就越能脱离悲观。

To better get rid of the bad effects of any stress or trouble, one should be always optimistic to consider more the positive aspects of them, diminishing the impact of them. The more optimistically one acts, the less pessimistic one will be.

 

让我们乐观面对每件事。

Let's get the hell out of pessimism and be optimistic against everything already happened or happening.

 

 

落差   Drop

 

当每件事不是按我们所期待或知晓地发生时，我们就会有心里落差，招致与其他人的矛盾冲突。

When everything happens beyond what we're expecting or realizing, we will feel upset or a great gap in our hearts, incurring contradiction and disagreement with others.

 

一般来说，落差越大，负面影响越大；当被告知工资降了一点时，或许我们直接忽略它或是埋怨一下，然而被告知要被开除时，我们会震惊或是暴跳如雷。

Generally speaking, the higher the fall or gap is, the more negative impact it will be; When we're told our payments decline a little, perhaps we just ignore it or complain a little, however when we're told we're fired all of a sudden, we will be shocked or furious.

 

每天我们身边总是有很多的事会产生落差，有时不是引起我们担心，就是引起我们迷失。

There are always plenty of things which bring up differences surrounding us every day, either causing us some worry sometimes, or making us lost sometimes.

 

落差怎么影响我们取决于我们关注它们的程度。如果我们对落差毫不在意，在精神上我们就不会受到伤害，反过来我们的身心或多或少会受到伤害。

How differences affect us depends on how much we care for them. If we are indifferent to them, none of them will do harm to us mentally, on the contrary, we will get hurt more or less both mentally and physically.

 

换句话说，如果我们拥有很强的承受能力和毅力，那么没有落差可以打败或困扰我们，即使它们给我们带来了损失。

In other words, nothing will beat or trouble us if we have strong endurance and will, even if they do cause some loss to us.

 

当落差不可避免时，它们正好提供我们锤炼承受能力的好机会。

Such differences just provide us with good chances to temper our endurances when they're inevitable.

 

有些落差是合理可接受的，因为它们是不可控的，月亮都有阴晴圆缺的时候；有些落差是不合理难以接受的，因为有人故意为之，我猜想当被别人无缘无故责怪时，没有人笑得出来。

Some differences are rational and acceptable because they are not controllable, the moon is also changeable; Some differences are unreasonable and unforgivable because they are made to happen intentionally, I guess nobody will laugh out loud when blamed for nothing by others.

 

 

 

能阻碍你的，从来不是别人         Nobody but you can impede yourself

 

在开始做一件事时，你必须想清楚你是否真的打算去做。如果你真想去做，那么全世界都会让路，没有谁会乐此不彼的阻碍其他人追究他们自己的幸福的；如果不想，那么全世界都会阻碍你。

Before starting a thing, you should be clear about whether you really intend to do it or not. If you really do, the whole world will give way, no one will be not tired of blocking those who pursue their own happiness’s. If not, the whole world will block you.

 

父母是你们最坚强的后盾，不会阻碍你进步的，哪怕你们彼此沟通有问题。实际上和父母的沟通没那么困难，因为你们的终极目标是一致的，就是让你们过的幸福，剩下要做的就是让父母知道你如何能过得幸福。

Your parents, the strong backup, will not impede your progresses, even if you can't fully understand each other. Actually, the communications with your parents are not that difficult because your final goal is identical, hoping you live happily, the left you need to do is to let your parents realize how you can live happily.

 

最好的恋人互相帮助，不会阻碍你彼此进步的。爱别人最好的方法是按照让别人舒畅的方式来爱别人，而不是你认为好的方式，剩下要做的就是好好沟通。

The best lovers help each other, will not impede each other's progress. The best way to love lovers is to love them with the way making them feel comfortable, instead of loving them with the way you think is good, the left required is to communicate well.

 

同样地，最好的朋友理解你的内心和执着，不会阻碍你进步的。他们不会为你两肋插刀，但他们尊重你。那些希望你过得好，但是不要比他们过得好的人不是最好的朋友。

Similarly, the best friends know your mind and persistence, will not impede your progresses. They do not strive for everything for you, but respect you. Those, who expect that you live well, but not better than them, are not the best friends.

 

走自己的路，让别人去说吧。能阻碍你的，从来都是你自己，没有其他人。这或许是因为你内心不够坚定，抑或是在你成功之前你总是对自己的追求充满疑虑。

Follow your course and let people talk. Whoever are able to impede your progress is only yourself, not anyone else. It's either because you're unstable in your heart, or because you're always suspicious of what you've been seeking before you really succeed.

 

无论你过得好坏，只是其他人的谈资而已，每个人都在忙自己的事，对他们来说你真的不是那么重要。

Others just gossip no matter how well you stand or how bad you fall, and dismiss when finishing gossiping, everyone has their own affairs, for whom you are really not that important.

 

来自别人的阻碍基本上都是自己假想出来的，因为你内心不足以强大到抵制内心深处的障碍。一颗强大坚毅的心拓宽你追寻的路。

The impediment from others are almost assumed by yourselves, because you're not strong enough to resist obstructions coming from your deep heart. A strong and determined heart broadens your way of what you've been pursuing.

 

 

 

你的不自律，正在慢慢毁掉你    Lack of self discipline kills you slowly

 

你的不自律，正在慢慢毁掉你。经常焦虑现状又缺少毅力改变自己的，或经常三分钟热度又自觉无用的人都是缺少自律的人，他们坚持最多的是坚持不下去。

What are gradually destroying one is the lack of self-discipline. Those who are always anxious about their statuses without perseverance to change themselves, or who are not persistent to a thing and always feel useless, are called as the lack of self-discipline. What they mostly insist on is to insist no longer.

 

自律就像一个正常工作的机器的标准工作环境，任何不稳定的因素都将影响机器的正常运转，日常的阅读和锻炼习惯，兴趣爱好和情绪的控制等等都是自律的行为表现，如果缺少这些表现，那就慢慢地脱离正常的生活。

Self-discipline is like a standard working condition of a stably-running machine, of which any disorderly interruption will deteriorate the stability of the machine, so is the self-discipline including route reading and exercise, hobby, the control of mood and so on, the lack of which will gradually apart one from the normal life.

 

此外，缺少自律的还包括每天对着手机；虽然信息化的高速发展，信息设备尤其是手机带来了极大的便利，基本上是一机在手中，万事很轻松，但是对手机的依赖越强，时间久了，很少能顾及其他的机会，能说上几句话的更是少得可怜，造成人与人之间的交流变少了，人也会变得孤僻自傲。

Furthermore, living with a mobile phone for almost every day, is also a sort of the lack of self-discipline; Surely the mobile phone has brought extreme conveniences since the rapid development of the informationization, however, it also brings some adverse influences, separating one from communicating with others in person, wasting other important chances and making one solitary and arrogant.

 

缺少对自己人生的思考和对梦想的追寻以及对社会的责任感，会使人变得懒散和漫无目的，慢慢地腐蚀正常的生活框架，使人迷失。每个人生来都有不同的使命感，虽不能使自己成为对社会有用的人，但也不要成为阻碍社会进步的人，不自律，毁了自己，也浪费了整个社会为你安置的资源。

The lack of the thinking towards life, the aspiration towards dream and the responsibility towards society, makes one indolent and aimless, gradually corroding the basic framework of a normal life and losing in windy life. Everybody, born with a special sense of mission, shouldn't become redundant for the society when contributing nothing to it; Self-discipline may not always make you useful for the society, but it wouldn't make you redundant neither.

 

对于每个人，无论贫穷贵贱，自律都是一种正确的人生态度，是选择正确生活的一种方式，也是社会良好风气与人类进步的阶梯。

Regardless of poverty or affluence, self-discipline is an accurate attitude towards life for everyone and a right way to live, which is also a ladder for the good ethos of society and the improvement of human.

 

自律使人获得真正的自由，使人不会受世俗的影响和在乎他人的七嘴八舌，因为自律之人拥有正确的三观，除此之外皆是荒诞。

Self-discipline grants human beings the real freedom, allowing one to avoid the unreligious eyes and gossips, because they have right three outlooks, beyond which others are absurd.

 

 

 

思维决定你前行的距离      Thinking enables a long journey

 

思想有多深，路就能走多远。生命的最源头，本无成功之道，但是深思熟虑者创造了通往成功的多种可能性。行成于思毁于随，行才有挑战冒险，才有可能成功。

How deep you think decides how far you can walk. From the very origin of each human being's life, there are not any successful roads, but the thoughtful create many possibilities of achieving them. Actions are done after thorough consideration rather than casual decision, and they are filled with colorful challenges and exciting risks, which is sufficient to create success.

 

三思而后行，如果思维对了，那么路的方向就对了，走下去的意志就更坚定了，即使悬崖勒马也很容易；只要道路对了，人生到处都有无限风光。

Think twice before you do. Provided thinking is correct, the right road is worthy of continuing with a firmer will, or the wrong steps can be even easily retarded. As long as the road is bright, life is rich and colorful everywhere.

 

如果思维停止，那么人生就停止不前，停得越久，就会患得患失，惊慌失措。只要思维不生锈，道路就不那么曲折，柳暗花明。

Life is easy to cease when thinking is blocked, giving rise to worry about personal gains and losses and panic. The path of life is not that intricate when thinking is always running, and the success of life is a matter of time.

 

突破思维，才能开拓不一样的路，创造不一样的人生，这样的人生才是给力的人生，才是令人羡慕的人生。

The path of life can be quite distinctive when the time and space of thinking approaches a high level, which is a brilliant and admirable life.

 

思维不集思，就思不远；不锤炼，就思不深；没有丰富多彩的人生阅历，就没有广袤的思维田地。

One's thinking is not born to be abundant and colorful without collective thinking. A great and significant thinking is based on intricate and rich experiences.

 

当你觉得自己已经不能再前进时，请停下来好好思考下走过的路，遇到的人，然后梳理思维，继续前行。重塑思维，为更好的前进保驾护航，让每一次的前行更轻便。

When you feel it's tired for you to continue to move forwards, please stop to refine your thinking, inspecting the road you've walked, the persons you've met, and reconstruct your thinking delicately to make the road smoother.

 

 

 

信任   Trust

 

信任是这个世界上最容易丢失的东西，也是最难挽回的东西。

Trust is the easiest thing in the world to lose, and the hardest thing in the word to get back.

 

 

在消除对他人的疑虑之前不要盲目地选择相信他们，因为他人一旦失信于你，你再选择相信他人就变得更难了。

Please don't rashly and blindly trust others before eliminating all doubts against them, because it will become harder to trust them again once they betray your trust.

 

信任不是夸夸其谈，而是在道德上人类要遵守的一些信念，不受法律监督，不受任何组织控制，这也充分解释了为什么它最容易失去。

Trust is not anything talked big but some faiths man abides by morally, neither supervised by any law nor regulated by any authorization, which fully illuminates the reason why it is the easiest thing to lose.

 

信任不像轮胎那样，没气了可以重复充气，且可以像没漏气的一样重新使用。信任一旦遭到破坏，重新被建立的可能性很小，这用来解释为什么信任很难挽回也是合情合理的。

Trust is not like a tyre that can be inflated again and again when flat, and reused as it never leaks. Once trust is breached, it's of tiny possibility to be reestablished, which also reasonably illuminates the reason why it's the hardest thing to get back.

 

违背诺言或是食言是造成失信的直接原因，越经常食言，就越难在社会上立足；我们永远不能拥有这样的一个意识形态，就是不能随便允诺别人自己办不到的事，因为经常这样做会慢慢地毁了我们的信任度。

Breaking our promises or failing to keep our words is the direct factor to destroy or collapse our trusts, the more we fail, the harder we will live in the society; We should never ever have such ideology to randomly promise others to do things of which we're not capable, due to the repetition of which gradually destroys our trusts.

 

要立足于这个社会，失信对于每个人来说是不可取的。当你已经答应别人时，请不惜任何代价去维护自己的信任度。

To inhabit the society, losing trust for everyone is the last thing to do; Don't hesitate to try your best to maintain your trust when you've made a promise, no matter how much it costs.

 

 

欲知婚姻好不好，看看厨房就知道        Good marriage is with a busy kitchen

 

有了婚姻就有了家，婚姻有很多细节，且婚姻好不好，可以从厨房来判断。爱情无非就是一天三顿，一年四季的陪伴。

What brings a couple together is a marriage, of which, there are quite a few details, and whether the marriage is good or not can be judged from their kitchen. Love is no more than company for three meals per day, and four seasons per year.

 

厨房，一个可以使婚姻具体化的场所，日常很少被使用的原因，不是因为夫妻双方不会下厨，就是因为他们都忙于各自的事业，中间没有任何交集。

The reason why the kitchen, a place that can embody a marriage, is seldom used in daily life, is either because both of the couple don't know how to cook, or because they are both busy with their own businesses without common points.

 

当厨房渐渐脱离婚姻时，婚姻就开始变质，特别是那些拥有各自的事业和朋友圈的夫妻。厨房的作用不只是当做做饭的地方，它也是夫妻双方倾诉心肠的地方，且是践行婚姻的地方。

When the kitchen gradually aparts from the marriage, the marriage starts to deteriorate, especially for those couples who have their own businesses or friends. The roles played by a kitchen are more than a physical place where a couple cook, it is also a place where a couple can pour out their hearts, and a place where the marriage is practiced.

 

当婚姻离不开厨房时，至少可以在一个地方被践行。一天三餐不间断地构成一天，一年四季不间断地构成一年，充分充实地延续着婚姻。

When the kitchen becomes rather essential for a marriage, the marriage can be practiced at least at a place. Three meals per day constitute a day continuously, and four seasons per year constitute a year continuously, adequately and fully continuing a marriage.

 

虽然不是所有结婚的人都懂得做饭，但这本质上不会使婚姻变质，问题在于夫妻双方愿不愿意做。如果愿意做，那么婚姻还是充实地被践行；如果不愿意，那么厨房将会变成一面镜子，反射婚姻的虚无缥缈。

Although not all of the married know how to cook, it doesn't essentially deteriorate the marriage, what really matters is that whether or not the couple are willing to cook. If they are, the marriage is still substantially practiced; If not, the kitchen will become a mirror, reflecting the nothingness of the marriage.

 

好生意带来好利润，但是好不过一个繁忙的厨房，因为好的生意有大风险，有的时候能摧毁婚姻；好朋友提高档次，但是高不过一个繁忙的厨房，因为朋友很少有守信的，有的时候会插兄弟两刀。然后，厨房即没有大风险，也不会杀人，处在婚姻的你我他没有理由不喜欢它。

Good businesses bring good profits, but not as good as a busy kitchen, for every good business has a big risk, sometimes ruining a marriage; Good friends upgrade levels, but not as high as a busy kitchen, for friends seldom keep their words, sometimes killing friends. However, a kitchen neither has a big risk, nor kill anyone, there is no reason that the married wouldn't like it.

 

 

 

求同存异      Seek common and keep difference

 

每个人都是不可替代的，双胞胎也是，尽管他们有相似的外貌，也就是不同的人有不同的生理和感官机能。

Everyone even twins in this world is irreplaceable, despite of their similar appearances, namely different people have different physiologies and senses.

 

正是这种差异带来了善恶，真伪，等级分类等等；换句话说，如果人与人之间没有任何差异的话，这个社会将永远不会改变。

It is the difference that brings good and evil, true and false, class and level and so on; In other words, if there were no differences among human beings, this society would be changeless.

 

无论人与人之间的差异多么大，不同的人还是能实现共同的目标或是拥有共同的兴趣，或能求同存异。

No matter how different they are, different people can still achieve common goals or have common interests, or can seek common ground while putting aside differences.

 

为了求同存异，我们必须经常控制调节自己的情绪，并且很少考虑或是忽略自己的得失。

In order to keep common ground, we should always control and regulate our emotions, and seldom consider or ignore our own gains and losses.

 

每一次成功的业务或是令人满意的会议都是靠求同存异实现的。

Every successful business or satisfactory meeting is managed by putting aside various differences.

 

两个人能达成共识也是求同存异的结果；共同点促进他们的利益，差异监督彼此的行为。

It works the same way when two people reach an agreement; The common grounds boost their common interests, and the differences supervise each other.

 

求同存异对一个公司或家庭都是必要的；对一个公司，共同点汇聚群策群力施行公司的大战略，差异激荡创造力；对一个家庭，共同点稳定家庭幸福，差异就像每餐的调味剂不可或缺。

Such a way is rather essential for a company, or a family; For a company, the common grounds put staffs' heads together to enforce the big strategy, and the differences spark creative thoughts; For a family, the common grounds stabilize the happiness, and the differences are just like different flavorings we need in every meal.

 

 

 

人和人之间的距离，太近了会扎人，太远了会伤人     A reasonable distance

 

向别人展示自己好的一面，包括修养，学问和外表，是人类的天性，这些面的差异使这个世界丰富多彩，这种差异产生了距离。

It's human nature that everyone likes to show their good sides to others, including culture, knowledge and appearance, making the world colorful due to the differences among them, from which the distance is made.

 

深谙世故又不世故，是一种非常成熟的个性，因为有时距离产生美，无形中维持一种平衡的状态，然而距离既不能太近，也不能太远，太近容易扎人，太远容易伤人。

Knowing everything, but not being worldly-wise is a really mature character, for distance sometimes produces beauty, maintaining a balanced situation invisibly, however, the distance shouldn't be neither too close, nor too far, when too close, it pricks people, and hurts people when too far.

 

当他人不想倾诉苦衷时，请保持这个距离，永不尝试强迫他们说，想倾诉他们自己会倾诉，否则你将会受到伤害，因为你正在向遗憾的边界靠近。

When others are not willing to say anything upset, please keep this distance from them, and never ever try to compel them to say, they will do when they want to talk, otherwise you'll get hurt, because you're approaching the boundary of regret.

 

当他人在倾诉不幸时，请由衷说点什么，让他们知道你在倾听和表示同情，否则当轮到你诉苦时，没人会理你的，因为他们觉得你不是诉苦的对象，不能帮他们排忧解难。

When others are pouring out their misfortunes, please sincerely say something to let them know you're listening, and showing your sympathy, otherwise, nobody will listen to you when it comes to your complaints, because they think you're not the one who can solve or help to solve the problems for them.

 

简单说，一个合适的距离就是一种方式，这种方式使彼此都能舒畅，或至少能接受彼此，尽管知道彼此的不足之处。

In brief, a proper distance between two people is a way making each other comfortable, or at least letting both accept each other even if both know each other's deficiency.

 

每个人都有别人不可接受的性格，包括好人，因此我们没必要苛求他人，也没必要埋怨自己，距离可以隐藏这种缺憾。

Everyone has their own unaccepted characteristics by others, including the good persons, so it's necessary that we should not exact others, and not complain ourselves, which can be concealed by distance.

 

由于没有保持合理的距离，情侣，朋友或同事之间经常有很多矛盾。情侣之间需要距离，心里深处的一个空间，让彼此保持理智，避免盲目的爱情，因为真实的爱情是理智的。

Many a contradiction can be seen among couples, friends or colleagues due to the inappropriate distance between them.

For couples, a certain distance, a room in heart holding reason, is necessary to avoid a blind love, because a long love is rational.

 

朋友之间需要距离，逆境中的一个空间，让友谊加固，避免短暂的友情，因为患难中的朋友才是真正的朋友。

For friends, a certain distance, a room in adversity consolidating friendship, is necessary to avoid a transient friendship, because a friend in need is a friend indeed.

 

同事之间需要距离，职位上的一个空间，让工作环境更明朗，避免混乱的流程，因为每个业务需要一个负责人。

For colleagues, a certain distance, a room in position maintaining a clear working environment, is also necessary to avoid a disordered flow, because each business requires a person in charge.

 

 

 

心窄了世界就大了，心宽了世界就小了  Make a heart big

 

心窄了，就会惧怕世界所产生的各种危机，寸步难行；心宽了，就能够从容的应付世界产生的各种危机，无所无惧。

It's hard for one to move a single step with fear when his heart is small, while it's easy for one to move many steps with confidence when his heart is big.

 

无论处在哪一个社会位置，都应该以平常心对待，不要羡慕别人的光鲜背景，因为令人羡慕的成功都是经过长期锻造的；哪里有崇拜，哪里就有信仰，但是不要盲目崇拜别人的成功。

A common heart or attitude towards everything is necessary and recommended no matter how admirable others are, because each great success can't be managed without persistent forging. Where there is adoration, there is worship, however blind worship is not practical.

 

每个人都生活在自己的世界里，不同的世界有不同的生活，没必要带着有色眼镜去看别人的世界，一颗宽容的心或许可以看清世界的繁简。

Every one lives in their own worlds where they are having different lives; There is no need for them to look at others' worlds with colorful glasses. Those who overreact could have had more comfortable and colorful world when having a tolerant heart.

人生十有八九不如意，会遇到不喜欢的人，会碰到讨厌的事，会失去宝贵的东西，这都会发生在每个人的世界。遇到不喜欢的人，不喜欢就是了；遇到讨厌的事，不要理会它就是了；会失去宝贵的东西，这代表我们不够强大到保护它们，那么我们需要更多的努力。

The road, where you meet people you dislike and encounter things you hate, in the lot of everyone is not always flat, or you lose valuable things, which occur in everyone's world. The feasible way to handle those situations is to keep disliking them when meet troublesome people, and ignore them when encounter hateful things, or to become strong when lose valuable things.

虽然社会有复杂的一面，但是世界是丰富多彩的，不要把精力浪费在复杂的事情上，要把复杂的事情想简单，人生百态，简单才是快乐的。

The world is colorful regardless of the complexity of the society, we should simplify anything complex to enjoy the meaning of life, instead of wasting most of life time on them.

 

 

替别人考虑是一种美德      Thinking of others is a good deed

 

如果全世界只剩下一个人，那么替别人考虑，为别人着想也无从说起，但是现实是我们活在一个大家庭，大到整个世界，小到一家公司，一个家，所以时刻都要跟别人相处，那么能替别人考虑的是一种非常难得的美德。

If the world only holds one person, then he only lives for himself without taking others into consideration, however everyone lives in a big family from a family to the whole world where they should get along with others, and taking others into consideration is a really great virtue.

 

那么什么是替别人考虑呢？当你想抽烟时，你不在公共场所或是禁烟的地方抽烟；当你听音乐时，你把声音调得很小；当同事聚餐，帮同事打包；当你跟别人聊天时，想放慢语速和降低分贝，这些都是在替别人考虑。

Then what is called as being considerate of others? You don't smoke in public and places that ban smoking when you smoke; You turn down the volume when you enjoy music; You pack for you colleagues when you have a dinner party; You slow down your speech speed and reduce your decibel;  These thinkings or behaviors are considerate of others.

 

替大众考虑是一种美德，且替别人考虑也是一种很好的运营人际关系的方法，会让他人觉得自己被关心尊重，感激之情油然而生，相处自然就更融洽了。

Being considerate for the public is a virtue, which is also a good way to run the interpersonal relation, making others feel respected and cared with appreciation so as to getting along better with others.

 

替别人考虑虽然是一种潜在的意识行为，事前是不为人知的，是乐于助人的花絮；如果乐于助人是一种美德，那么替别人考虑更是内心的修为，是美德的源泉。

Being well-known for nobody, being considerate of others is a potential conscious behavior and the feature of helping others; If helping others is a virtue, being considerate of others is the inner cultivation, and the source of virtue.

 

经常替别认考虑的人是一个非常善良的人，在当今社会更是不可多人的人；如果大家都替别人考虑，那么哪里还有纠纷和争吵，没了纠纷争吵，社会自然就和谐了，和谐的社会不就是我们共同的目标吗？来吧，替别人着想从你我做起！

Whoever are always considerate are kind-hearted persons and rare in present society; If we are all considerate, there will be less disputes and fights, and the world will become harmonious, which isn't a common goal for all of us? Come on, let us be considerate!

 

 

 

顺其自然      Let it be

 

忙碌里，谁都有难处，现实中，谁都有苦楚，人生，总有太多的纠结，让我们无助；总有太多的无奈，让我们无可奈何。所以，有些事，可以认真，但不要较真，心若轻松，路才顺当。

Life, full of troubles and difficulties, is not easy for everyone, no matter who you are, or what you do. Nevertheless, it can be a little easier for a steady heart.

 

 

有些事想不通，就不去想；有些人猜不透，就不去猜；有些理悟不透，就不去悟；有些路走不通，就不去走。

Sometimes it's not something or trouble that blocks your way, but yourself. To have a easy life, doing anything within your own ability and thinking anything within your own mind are way enough, beyond which are not advisable.

 

 

有些事情，拿不起，就选择放下，有些东西，要不得，就把它放弃；有些理念，想不通，就不去理会；有些过客，留不住，就让其离开；有些感情，理不顺，就忍痛割舍；有些伤痛，挥不去，就学着遗忘；有些过去，忘不了，就藏于心底；有些工作，做不好，就求助别人。

What really troubles you is that you dare not discard most useless things that don't belong to you, and people who are not in the same channel with you. Cherish people you care more than they care you, and remember things that witness your past before they are gone.

 

 

人生，总有路可走，风雨人生，淡然相随。人生，由人不由天，幸福，由心不由境。

There is always a feasible and controllable way for everyone, and you are your own master who decide your own happiness and future.

那就不一样把 You are you, not anyone else           如果你和别人不一样，那就不一样吧，即使是叶子，也没有两片完全相同的叶子。

If you realize that you are different from others, then ignore it, as there are no two identical leaves in the world, each of us is different.

 

如果你的想法和别人的不一样，那就不一样吧，即使同样的出发点，也不一定有相同的行动。

If you realize that your thought is different from others', then ignore it, as not the same actions come out of the same beginnings.

 

如果你的做法和别人的不一样，那就不一样吧，即使同样的方法，也不一定有相同的结果。

If you realize that your action is different from others', then ignore it, as not the same results come out of the same methods.

 

如果你的生活方式和别人的不一样，那就不一样吧，即使同样的生活条件，也不一定有相同的生活质量。

If you realize that your way of living is different from others', then ignore it, as not the same qualities of living come out of the same living conditions.

 

不要试图强加自己的思想给别人，可以畅所欲言，但不能咄咄逼人，看破不要点破，谁都有自己的底线。

Never ever try to impose your thoughts on others and make troubles from bad to worse, although you may speak freely or highly, because everyone has their own lines.

 

不一样既不代表自己有问题，也不代表别人有问题，求同存异，海纳百川有容乃大，吸取精华，去其糟粕，方能进步。

Being different doesn't mean anything special, it's but different. Take what is effective and discard what is useless, only under which can you advance.

 

 

爱自己            Love yourself

 

爱自己，心态良好，精神明亮的人，任何时候都会对人生充满希望。努力做好当下的每件事，便是对生命最大的尊重。

By doing the right thing and loving yourself with a bright and merry heart for the moment, you can always meet hopeful future, which is also a great respect to life.

 

爱自己，做自己力所能及的事情；不好大喜功，不半途而废，尽量把自己份内的事情做好，不然到最后，让他人吹毛求疵，自己也会怨声载道，因为很多时候，做好了是应该的，做错了就挨骂，所以能不做就不做，特别是一些不值得自己去做的或是不值得自己去帮助的人。

By reasonably doing what is in your power and try your best to persevere in it , you can make both yourself and others comfortable, in the meantime leave nothing to be complained, because not all the things deserve your contributions, and not all the people deserve your helps.

 

爱自己，不夸夸其谈，遵循社会公德线，做个重信用的人；人无信不立，特别是信息技术和大数据高速发展的今天，信用可是贯穿了生活的方方面面。要答应别人前，要先思考自己是否能做到，不能做到的事情千万别随便答应，但一旦答应别人，就一定要尽全力去做到，特别是自己非常友好信任的亲朋好友，因为你也有需要他们帮助的时候。

By complying with social morality and behaving reliably, you will gain great social respects from both people and government, especially the highly-developed information technologies and big data.  Think twice before you do, and never rashly promise before you are definitely able to do. Moreover, firmly fulfil what is promised by you, especially for your best friends or families, who may offer you their helps when you indeed need help.

 

爱自己，不随便议论别人的是非，每个人都有属于自己的隐私，看破不要点破，给别人留面子和后路，换位思考下，如果别人戳你的脊梁骨，你会觉得怎么样。

By obeying each other's bottom lines and showing your respect to others, you will never feel helpless and lonely, because privacy is not proprietary for anyone.

 

爱自己，每天都要为更闪亮光鲜的自己努力，都要为自己美好的理想和未来努力；不虚度光阴和挥霍金钱，让自己的每天都充实，让自己的每分钱都发挥最大的效益；结交良师益友，升华自己的朋友圈。

By striving for a bright and fresh future for yourself and reckoning with your time and money, you can make yourself rich in both material and spirit; In addition, make friends with helpful friends, so as to level up your circle of friends.

 

爱自己，每天坚持锻炼身体，因为除了身体是自己的，其他的都是身外之物，生不带来，死不带去。健康的体魄是幸福生活的前提，也是奋勇向前的有力保障。

By building your body well and keeping healthy, you can advance to success more easily and securely, because body is the only thing that can be carried wherever you go.

 

爱自己，扩展自己的兴趣爱好，用心去体验生活，去感受生命的美好，人只要见识广了，视野就宽了，格局就大了，那么就不那么容易被鸡毛蒜皮的事所困扰，而且任何的困难曲折或是抉择，都能坦然面对，更何况一帆风顺的人生本来就是不可能的。

By broadening hobbies and interests and attentively experiencing life, your vision, ambition and aspiration will be profoundly broadened, so will be your ways of coping with difficulties and setbacks; Furthermore, life itself is full of ups and down and is changeable.

 

 

毒品   Drug

 

与提供营养支持的食物相比，毒品是当被吸入或是注射时，会引起人类生理变化的任何物质。

Compared with food that provides nutritional support, a drug is any substance that causes a physiological change in human beings' body when inhaled or injected, such as morphine, heroin, cannabis and so on.

 

毒品问题是一个世界性问题，是20世纪最为严重的公害，也是全人类的公敌之一，目前毒品问题持续威胁着公共健康，安全，福利且损害社会，经济和政治的稳定和可持续发展。

The drug problem is a worldwide problem, is the 20th century, the world's most serious public hazard and one of the public enemies of all mankind, which currently continues to threaten public health, safety, well-being and to undermine social, economic and political stability and sustainable development.

 

毒品是如何一步一步影响到个体，然后影响我们大部分人，最后影响波及整个社会经济和政治的稳定性？你们听过蝴蝶效应吗？它可以很好的解释潜在的过程。

How does a drug undermine a single one, and then most of us, finally the social, economic and political stability step by step? Have you ever heard butterfly effect? It may precisely elucidate the potential process.

 

我们都知道毒品会引起人的生理变化，使你身体上和精神上都依赖它，当停止使用毒品时，生理功能会出现许多紊乱，使你生不如死。此外，为了避免吸毒者遭受痛苦，就必须加大药剂。

We've already realized that a drug will cause a physiological in a human being's body, making you both physically and mentally dependent on it. When not used, a drug causes a lot of disorders in your physiological functions, leaving you less than alive. And furthermore, more and more drugs should be used to prevent addicts from suffering from pains.

 

用药越多，花费就越高。普通吸毒者哪来那么多钱？所以他/她向家里求救，或是强加这个负担给家里。问题不是他们的家庭不肯帮他们，问题是如此无底洞实难触底。为了谋取暴利，不法分子或奸商不惜牺牲更多人，使毒品的传播蔓延到整个世界。

The more drugs used, the more cost.  How can a common addict afford so much?  So, he or she turns to their family for help or imposes the burden on their family. It is not that their family are not willing to help them, but that such an abyss is beyond their abilities. By sacrificing more people, the criminals or profiteers spread the drugs worldwide to make huge profits.

 

渐渐地毒品耗尽了吸毒者，毁了他们的家庭。如果一个政府放任这种吸毒行为，也会有垮的一天。为了阻止，限制和预防这种情况，多国或是多部门群策群力共同应付。

Gradually, destroying addicts' families, drugs exhaust what they have. If allowing such a situation to indulge itself, a government may also fail. In order to stop, confine and prevent this situation, many a countermeasure is being carried out with efforts from multiple sections or countries.

 

无论我们有多好奇，或是毒品有多诱惑，我们都永远不要碰它。珍惜生命，远离毒品。

We should never ever contact drugs no matter how curious you are or how seductive the drug is. Cherish life, keep away from drugs.

 

 

 

家      Family

 

金窝银窝不如自己的狗窝。

No other places are more comfortable than home where there is a family.

 

家是唯一一处可以使你彻底放松的地方。

Family is the only place where you can completely relax yourself.

 

无论什么时候你遇到困难，家里都会替你出谋划策的。

Whenever you're troubled, family is always there for you.

 

无论什么时候你有不开心，家里都会帮你排忧解难的。

Whenever you're unhappy, family is always there for you.

 

无论什么时候你觉得孤单，家里都会为你随叫随到的。

Whenever you're lonely, family is always there for you.

 

无论什么时候你感到无助，家里都会向你提供帮助的。

Whenever you're helpless, family is always there for you.

 

无论什么时候你迷失自己，家里都会等你早点归来的。

Whenever you're lost, family is always there for you.

 

无论你为什么离开家，家一直都是你的终点站。

No matter why you leave, there is always a family in your heart.

 

无论你从事什么工作，家一直都是你的原动力。

No matter what you do, there is always a family in your heart.

 

无论你现在处在哪里，家一直都是你的导航仪。

No matter where you're, there is always a family in your heart.

 

无论你什么时候归来，家一直都是你的起点站。

No matter when you return, there is always a family in your heart.

 

无论你是什么样的人，家一直都是你的大舞台。

No matter who you’re, there is always a family in your heart.

 

无论你现在过的怎样，家一直都是你的大港湾。

No matter how you live, there is always a family in your heart.

 

 

 

交通规则      Traffic rules

 

无方圆不成规矩，交通也是如此，而且规则毫无疑问要更严格详细。

Nothing can be accomplished without rules or standards, so is the traffic, which beyond all doubt needs stricter and more detailed rules.

 

交通规则就像一个国家的法律宪法，适用于所有有相应民事权利和民事行为能力。任何违反交通规则的行为将受到法律的制裁。

A traffic rule is like a country's law and constitution, applying to whoever have corresponding capacity of civil rights and civil conduct. Any behavior violating it will be punished by the law.

 

在你可以合法驾驶前，你必须先考驾照。 要取得驾照需要经过一系列严格的考试，包括交通规则的考试， 其中交通规则的书面考试看起来比较容易考过，但是真实的交通规则往往是错综复杂的，尤其是交通事故。

 

Before being able to drive legally, you should get a driving license first, to gain which requests a series of serious tests, involving the test of traffic rule, of which the written test seems a little bit easy to finish, however, the real situation embodied under the traffic rule turns out to be rather complicated and confused, especially a traffic accident.

 

交通规则越详细越好。为了创造安全舒适的驾驶，我们要文明驾驶，做到不开冒险车，赌气车，也就是我们要遵守交通规则，万一有交通事故，也能把损失或损害降到最低。

The traffic rule can't be more detailed. To ensure a safe and enjoyable drive, we should be courteous and defensive, instead of being offensive, namely, we should obey the traffic rule to minimize the losses or damages in case of a traffic accident.

 

因为语言的差异，不同的国家或许会用不同的标记标识一条路或是人行道，包括速度限制，车道，接合处，交叉处，立体交叉处等等。尽管有这么显著的不同之处，但它们扮演的角色类似，就是有效地警示驾驶者和有序地导航交通。

Different countries may have different marks organizing a road or pavement due to the differences of language, including speed limits, lanes, junctions, intersections, interchanges and so on. Despite the obvious differences, they play the similar role effectively warning drivers or orderly navigating the traffic.

 

 

 

莫把工作生活分开   Life and work should be together

 

今天不努力工作明天努力找工作。

You'll have to hunt for a job tomorrow if you don't work hard today.

 

工作维持我们的生计且允许我们按我们所期待的方式生活，它大体上构成了我们生活的大部分。

A job which by and large constitutes most of our lives sustains our livelihood and allows us to live the way we're expecting,

 

如果我们把工作从生活中分开，剩下的时间少得可怜，迫使你觉得生活时间不充裕，生活质量提不上来。

If we separate work from life, the time left to us will be rare and pitiful, compelling you to feel life is both not ample in time and not increased in quality.

 

如果我们把工作和生活融为一体，生活将更灵活多彩，同时由于时间空间的延伸使你的思维和行为发生了深刻的扩展。

If we integrate work with life, life will be more flexible and colorful, in the meantime, the way you think and behave will meaningfully enlarged due to the extension of time and space.

 

这种融合的直接影响是明显珍贵的，比如，由于整天都在同一环境下，使你不会那么容易情绪化，不会把不好的情绪带回家，这有助于你培养一种连续稳定的性情。

The direct effect of such an integration is obvious and precious, for example, you may not be easily moody and not bring bad mood home due to the constant environment for the whole day, which allows you to cultivate a consistent and smooth temperament.

 

这种融合还帮助你合理系统地安排时间，无疑当两者达到平衡时，工作促进生活，生活改善工作。

This also helps you rationally and systematically arrange your time, no doubt you will profit a lot when it comes to the balance point between work and life, which are work boosting life and life improving work.

 

工作生活都不容易，让我们通过整合彼此和最大化它们的好处使它们变得更容易，来实现完美成功的人生。

Life is not easy, so is work, let's make this two easier by integrating them and maximizing their merits to achieve a wonderful and successful life.

 

 

 

聆听和表达很重要   Both listen and expression are important

 

不管别人在聊什么，总有人一句话就能把别人堵死，再热闹的气氛也经不住猝不及防的冷语。良言一句三冬暖，恶语伤人六月寒。其实，聊天也是一门学问。

There are always some people who confuse others' conversations with aggressive and picky words, like a terminator. A good word keeps one warm when it's winter, and a bad one makes one cold when it's summer.  Chatting with others is actually a knowledge.

 

对于每个人来说，无论是有趣的还是乏味的聊天，都占了日常生活的大部分时间。同事之间的聊天可以增进彼此的了解，家庭成员之间的聊天可以增厚彼此的感情。

Everyone spends most of daily life on chatting with others, including family, friends and colleagues, regardless of the contents of conversations. Chatting with colleagues promotes mutual understandings, and chatting with family improves mutual emotions.

 

聆听和表达构成了聊天的两大要素，缺一不可。只顾着表达自己的情绪而丝毫不聆听别人的表达的聊天不长久；只顾着聆听不懂得表达的聊天达不到交流的目的；既不表达也不聆听的聊天从一开始就不该存在。

A conversation consists of listen and talk, each of which is essential for a joyful and significant conversation; If one only concentrates on expressing self's emotion, instead of taking others' emotions into consideration occasionally, the conversation won't be prolonged significantly; If one only concentrates on listening to others, instead of expressing self's emotion occasionally, the conversation can't enhance mutual understandings; If one ignores both, the beginning of the conversation is already a mistake.

 

一个有意义有趣的聊天就是一种在聆听和表达之间松弛有度的变换过程，并可以为下次的聊天打下基础。

A meaningful and joyful conversation is a process of switching smoothly between listen and talk, which may also contribute to next conversation.

 

有的人聊天不是真心真意，但是结果令人愉快；有的人聊天方式讨人厌，但彼此的思想都能清晰的表达出来，这种聊天方式没有什么意思，却也可以解决问题。

Some conversations are carrying on casually, but the result makes people comfortable; Some are carrying on nastily, but understanding can be clearly accepted, and problem can be solved regardless of insignificance.

 

最差的聊天状态是聊天不仅没有让彼此增进了解，解决问题，带来娱乐，却适得其反，引起了更深的误解。

The worst conversation not only fails to promote mutual understandings, solve problems and bring happiness, but incurs more misunderstandings oppositely.

 

 

人生如戏，全靠演技         Life needs your performance

 

人生如戏，全靠演技。演技越好，感觉倍好。要想演得好，特技不能少，有热情就该前行，想堕落只会背行。

Life is like a drama, and everything depends on your performance. The better the performance is, the better you will feel. To achieve advanced performances requires multiple special skills, which push you forward when you have a zest, otherwise drag your feet when you degenerate.

 

常觉疲厌时，演技不充实，演技步步提，疲厌慢慢失。

It's time to enrich your skills when feeling tired or bored is always the emotion you can think of, advancing your skills and removing the exhaustion.

 

同事关系处不当，定是演技不上档，皆因言行都带伤。遇事不古板，为人莫简单，关系方妥当。

If you can't deal with the relations of colleagues, there must be something wrong with your words and actions, because you don't say or do at right time. The words and actions in a company is neither too stubborn, nor too simple.

 

家庭要合拍，角色不能歪，对子不宽松，对老要尊重，对妻要言衷。

If you can't take your roles, including father, son, and husband, in your family, there must be something wrong with your skills, because you have to switch the roles frequently. Different roles need different words and actions, which are serious about children, respectful to parents, and honest towards wife.

 

友谊要长久，联系必须有，朋友非家人，有时胜家人。友情不容易，需要常联系，用心请尽意，实际请努力。

If you can't get along well with your friends, there must be something wrong with

contact, because friendship maintenances require a constant contact. Being not family members, friends have a larger role than them sometimes. Making contact with friends frequently maintains a stable friendship, and contact with sincere heart and upward mood makes a meaningful and practical one.

 

人生不容易，不演不给力，演戏尽全力，人生才有意。人生如戏，演技各异，悲欢得意，外人异议，无需在意。

Life is not easy, especially if you're not willing to perform, and will become harder when you're not perform determinedly. Everyone's life is a unique drama, depicting their own emotions and having nothing to do with outsiders.

 

 

 

习惯   Habit

 

习惯是一种例行的行为，经常性地重复，往往会潜意识地发生，且坏习惯经常带来严重的后果，造成自己或是他们的损失。

A habit is a routine of behavior that is repeated regularly and tends to occur subconsciously, and bad habits often incur severe consequences, causing losses to both self and others

 

因为我们重复的行为模式已经刻印在我们的神经通路上，所以要尝试去改变一个习惯是非常困难的，尽管养成好习惯是人类与生俱来的需求。有鉴于此，人应该在一开始就试着去养成好习惯。

Since the behavioral patterns we repeat are imprinted in our neural pathways, any attempt to fix them is extremely difficult, although human beings are born to form many good habits. Considering this, one should try to form a good habit for the very beginning.

 

好习惯总是帮你提高工作效率和取得同事的好评，使你更容易晋升,或更快完成老板分配的工作。

A good habit always helps you to improve the work efficiency and gain workmates’ favorable comments, allowing you to get promoted more easily or manage whatever jobs your boss assign to you more rapidly.

 

然而坏习惯总是成为你职业的绊脚石，会使你觉得每件事都在跟你作对，甚至简单的工作也会被一再复杂化。

Whereas bad ones always become the obstacles for anything boosting your career, making you feel everything goes against you, even some simplified jobs may also be complicated time and time again.

 

习惯就像电脑的配置一样，电脑运行效率的高低极大地取决于软硬件的配置；相比于配置低的电脑，配置高的能提前完成任各样的任务，好的习惯也一样，在一生中带来的影响是深远长久的。

A habit acts just like the configuration of a computer, the running efficiency of which greatly depends on how the hardware and software are configured; When configured highly, a computer can handle various tasks in advance, compared with the low one, so does a good habit, bringing profound and lasting impacts in life.

 

我们都知道好习惯的重要性及它的养成是多么的困难，基于这两个认知，所有尝试养成好习惯的努力都不会白费，生活本来就是一个形成各式各样习惯的大集合的过程。一个坏习惯与正尝试去养成的好习惯还是有本质区别的。

We all realize how important a good habit is and how difficult it is for us to form a good habit, based on which, all the efforts to try to form a good habit are not in vain, life anyway is a process of a big integration of forming various good habits. The differences between a bad habit and a good habit being formed are still obvious.

 

习惯只分为两种，一是好习惯，另外一个是坏习惯，如果你不打算养成好习惯，你就只能拥有坏习惯，也就是养成好习惯就是修复坏习惯，一个人越早认识到自己的坏习惯，就越容易修复它们。

There are only two kinds of habit, one kind is good, the other bad, if you don't intend to form a good one, you can only have a bad one, namely to form a good habit is to fix a bad one; The sooner one recognizes bad habits, the easier it is to fix them.

 

 

 

阅读   Reading

 

要获得光明的未来或是过自己想要的生活就要积累知识和经验，要积累知识就要扩大阅读。阅读不在局限于学校或是图书馆里的书了，可以通过网络，电视等来扩大阅读面。

To gain a bright future or have the life one wishes is to accumulate knowledge and experience, and to accumulate knowledge is to enlarge one's reading. Not limited to the books which usually are read in a school or library, reading can be achieved or enlarged by many other medias, such as network, TV and so on.

 

不习惯阅读，请趁早退出。日常工作所学已经不足以应对苛刻的社会压力。只有通过持续学习和多样化的阅读来积累知识才能克服多样化的问题和压力。

If reading can't be kept as a habit, please don't dig into it. What can be learned from daily work is not ample enough to cope with the demanding social pressure. Only under the accumulation of knowledge, by consistent and diverse reading, can one overcome diverse difficulties and pressures.

 

阅读量越大，不一定有用的就很多，因为商人或是不法分子在网络上蔓延不良的知识来误导读者来盈利或达到不可告人的目的。

The more one reads, the more useful knowledges one might not have, because undesirable knowledge, is always spreaded through network media to misinform readers by merchants or other lawbreakers, to reach their own profits, mostly money or some hidden purposes.

 

不良的知识是那些人们不认可的，或是破坏社会稳定的，或是违反法律法规的知识。因此，在阅读前必须有严格的规则，如什么可以读，什么不可以读和如何读。

The undesirable knowledges are what people don't identify or those which disrupt the stability of society, or those violating regulations and laws. Therefore, it's necessary that one have some strict rules before starting to read, such as what to read, what not to read and how to read.

 

量变引起质变，大量的阅读才能得到知识的积累，零星的阅读对知识积累的影响是微乎其微的，有的时候会紊乱记忆曲线-艾宾浩斯遗忘曲线，破坏记忆机制。

Quantitative changes lead to qualitative changes, which is also the way a large amount of reading affects the accumulation of knowledge, a sporadic reading contributes tiny little to the accumulation of knowledge, sometimes destroying the mechanism of memory by disordering memory curve- The Ebbinghaus Forgetting Curve.

 

只要时间允许，就可以随时随地进行阅读；而且阅读要广，要有目的性，读者知道要获取什么知识点，同时忽略没用的信息，这也有助于提高阅读速度。

Reading is flexible, occurring anywhere and anytime as long as time allows; And readings should be extensive, each of which should also be purposeful, readers know what knowledge to gain, in the meantime, ignoring the useless information, by which the speed of reading can also be improved.

 

如果跟别人分享自己所阅读的，那么将有助于知识积累的加速和巩固，而且在大家的监控下可以避免进入很多的误区。

If reading can be shared with others, the accumulation of knowledge will be accelerated and consolidated, moreover, many a misunderstanding can be avoided by overseeing together.

 

 

 

越长大，越普通     Most lives are common

相信小时候每个人心中都有一个梦想，就是长大后有所作为，但是长大后大部分人都成为了普通人，过着平凡的小日子，有喜有忧。

Everyone has a dream having a great achievement in future since childhood, however most of them become common people who live a common life of joy and sadness.

 

为了小时候的梦想，坚定的努力是必须的，但是其实世界上的许多事情，真的不是努力就能实现的。只要天时地利人和才能造就伟大的成功者，但现实残酷和时运不济造成了平凡。

It's necessary that one should struggle for his dream firmly, whereas not all dreams can be fulfilled by continuous hard working. Only under right time, place and people can a success be created, and other inappropriate conditions create common people.

 

因为一直在努力，知道平凡并不代表平庸；平凡不可怕，可怕的是心田荒废成漠；只要心里有乾坤，普通的生活一样可以过得有滋有味。

Perhaps hard working might not create success, but it won't create mediocrity either. Compared with ordinary, the desolation of heart is more fearful. Actually, a common life can also be lived meaningfully as long as heart is wide enough.

 

当人生过完了大部分，才知道平凡的人生或许就是一生的写照，只是不愿跟这平凡的人生握手言和罢了。承认平凡的生活而又能从中悟出不平凡的真谛或是就是一种成熟的标志。

An ordinary life is not what one has been expecting but what one should accept frankly when most of life has been consumed. An extraordinary life can still be explored from an ordinary life with a mature heart.

 

做不了月亮，可以考虑做一颗星星，虽然不是独一无二，却也足以照亮某个角落，毕竟宇宙中也不是只有月亮。

Choosing to be a little star is a reasonable choice sometimes when becoming a moon is not what we can achieve.  Although it’s not unique, it is bright enough to highlight some place, after all every part of this universe has their own missions.

 

长大了，思维范围就会缩小，也很容易一层不变，实现不了的梦基本上就实现不了了，但毕竟曾经努力过，奋斗过，留下的足迹就是成长的见证，即使路上没有鲜花掌声。

When people get older and older, what they are capable of thinking is limited in a small scope, in which the incomplete dream is hardly realized, however the footprint is clearly marked in the path of life, and is also the witness of maturity even if it's not gorgeous

 

 

 

礼貌   Courtesy

 

礼貌是人们为维系正常的社会生活所要求的最起码的道德规范，任何没礼貌的行为是不可接受和不受支持的，得不到别人尊重。

Politeness is the minimum ethic human beings should collectively abide by to maintain the normal social life, against which any act is not acceptable and supportable, respected by nobody.

 

要想得到别人的尊重，先尊重别人。礼貌待人正是显示一个人的敬意的方法，让别人知晓自己的友好，有助于深入的谈话或驱散陌生带来的紧张气氛。

You must respect others before you can get respect from others. Being polite is the very way to show one's respect, which allows others to realize one's friendliness, making further conversations more feasible or dissipating the tension due to strangeness.

 

因为飞速的网络蔓延与生活节奏的冲击，一些人开始说粗话或是故意行坏来释放自己的不满，破坏了应有的道德规范，尽管是最起码的道德规范。

Since the impacts of both the rapid spread of network and the rapid pace of life, a few people start speaking rudely or misbehave deliberately to release self discontents, breaking the required moral norm, even though it is the minimum one.

 

随着不讲礼貌的人的增加，整个社会逐渐变得乌烟瘴气，到那时人人自危，更不要说得到别人的尊重，社会迟早要回归原始社会。

With the increasing of the number of these people, the atmosphere of the whole society becomes foul gradually, at that time, human beings all have a sense of insecurity, let alone get respect from others, sooner or later the society will go back to the primitive society.

 

讲礼貌不是为某人特设的，大家都要共同讲礼貌，利己利人。无论什么时候别人帮助你或是无论别人帮你什么，请礼貌地说声谢谢你，或是礼貌地说对不起当你犯错时，很显然这是一件再简单不过的事情了。

Being polite isn't designed specifically for someone, it's essential that human beings abide by it together, which benefits both self and others. Whenever or whatever others help you, please show your politeness by saying thanking you, and please say you're sorry when it's your fault, which obviously is a rather easy thing for everyone to behave.

 

或许讲礼貌对有些人有难度，那么停止粗鲁或是保持微笑至少是一个不显示敌意的好方法，给对方更多的空间，也给自己空间表达自己的礼貌。

Perhaps being polite is a difficult thing for someone to do, then stopping being rude or keeping smiling is at least an alternative way not to show hostility, leaving more options to others and also allowing self to wait for a better chance to show one's politeness.

 

讲礼貌在日常工作和生活中都很有用，工作中可以营造轻松的工作气氛，生活中可以减少很多埋怨，连空气都是清新自然的，而且可以很好的避免矛盾冲突。

Actually, being polite is very useful in daily work and life, creating a comfortable atmosphere in daily work, and reducing complaints in daily life, the air is even fresh and natural, and the conflict can be easily avoided.

 

 

 

孩子该不该接触电子设备  Children's usages of electric devices

 

现在的社会是一个信息高度发展的社会，信息的承载体电子设备更是层出不穷，带来了极大的便利，然而同时也带来了很多不良的影响，特别是影响很少受监管的孩子们。

The present society is a society with the high integration of various information, whose supporting body the electronic device is overflowing, bringing extreme conveniences, however bringing many adverse effects in the meantime, especially for the children without consistent supervision.

 

不要说孩子们喜欢玩电子设备，就是现在的大人一旦离开了手机，就好像失去了依赖，生活变得无趣无味；孩子们喜欢电子设备的另外一个重要原因是他们可以在游戏中找到现实生活中找不到的证明自己能力的平台，他们在游戏中不断升级，不断变强。

The present adults have much more dependence on the electronic devices than their children. Once they are not with their mobile phones, they will feel boring and dull. Another important reason why the children like the electronic devices, is that they can prove their qualities there, where they can constantly become strong, and is not reachable in real life.

 

在这样的社会环境下，孩子们不接触电子设备是天方夜谭的，即使你在家里禁止孩子玩游戏，能够保证孩子不在其他地方如学校玩游戏吗？

To limit children to accessing electronic devices is out of the question under such a society. Even if you do that home, who can ensure that they won't play games in other places like school.

 

既然孩子们接触电子设备是不可避免的，那么就应该关注他们的内心需求，正确引导他们，陪他们一起玩，制定规则，这会让他们感受到尊重，同时也可以培养孩子的自律感。

Since children's access to electronic devices is unavoidable, they should be taught to use the electronic devices to meet their own needs, and play with them with some rules, which also confirms their self-esteems, and helps them cultivate their self-discipline.

 

陪孩子玩电子游戏虽然是一个选择，但是户外的游戏其实是更提倡的，既能真实地体验生活，拓宽孩子的视野，又能得到充分的释放。

Actually, there are other many games besides the electronic games, which are better options for the children to some extent. The children can not only experience the lives realistically and expand their visions, but release them thoroughly.

 

 

 

什么都舍不得扔是一种病  Keeping everything is a disease

 

什么都舍不得扔，总觉得将来可能会用得上，加上又控制不了买的源头，造成东西的积压，心情的压抑，这其实是一种病。

If everything is thought to be useful in future and the desire of buying things can't be limited, the house will be overstocked, causing the oppressive feeling, which is actually a disease.

 

家里堆积的东西不想收拾的理由有很多，有的人是想逃避现实，找诸如没时间的理由，或是有的人沉浸在过去的记忆，而舍不得扔的东西正好承载了那样的记忆，或是有的人囤积很多东西是为了将来备用。其实我们既回不去曾经的自己，也不能安排未来的我们，所以没必要积压那么多的记忆及担忧自己的未来。过去的我们回不去，将来的还没来到我们身边，只有当下才是最值得把握的。

The reason why plenty of things are kept so far is that some people escape from the fact by making excuses like having no time, or some people immerse in the bygone memories whose real embodiments are that much things, or some people hoard things that might be used in future. Actually, we can neither go back to the bygone ourselves, nor arrange our futures, therefore it's not necessary for us to store that many memories and worry about our futures. It's better we cherish what we have now.

 

人生应该是向前看的，我们不但要扔掉我们以为将来有用的东西，还有清理没用的人际关系，比如当你真正需要帮助的时候，人家未必会帮助你，而你也不想去找人家。

Life should be forward by laying down the things which are thought to be useful in future, and sweeping the useless interpersonal relations, for example, others might not provide you with what you need, and you don't want to turn them for help.

 

旧的不去，新的不来。没用东西的积压限制了你发现新的东西，回不去的过去的记忆的积压限制了你追求新的记忆。只有轻装上阵，才能得心应手，才不会心里压抑。

The new things never come before the old things are gone. The useless things confine you to discover new things; The past memories confine you to pursue new memories. Only under less loans can we be in our elements and be not oppressive.

 

对于日常的东西要理性购买，才不至于积压；对于没有价值的感情不要随意挥霍，才不至于被多愁善感缠绕，才能治愈这种病。

It's necessary that we shop reasonably so as not to overstock and not fall into valueless emotions randomly so as not to be troubled by sensitivity.

 

 

 

种下什么因，皆有什么果  Everything happens for a reason

 

种瓜得瓜种豆得豆，所以种下什么因，皆有什么果，有因才有果，这是永恒不变的真理。

You reap what you sow, so the result is consequent upon the reason, which is an invariable truth.

 

如果你平易近人，那么很容跟他人相处；如果你脾气暴躁，那么将会受到他人的排斥；如果你获得成功，那么肯定是付出了艰苦的努力；如果你停滞不前，那么肯定是荒废了努力。

You will get along well with others if you're easy-going; You will be excluded by others if you have a short temper; If you work hard, you will succeed; If you stop moving forward, you won't succeed.

 

做人要将心比心，不可以使坏的；一旦做了什么坏事，往后的生活就会受到良心的谴责，这就是使坏的结果。

Each human being should feel for others not to do harm to them, because you would be constantly blamed by your heart once you did harm to others, which is direct result of being harmful to others.

 

如果你跟一个人相处不好，那么可能是这个人的原因；如果你跟很多人都相处不好，那么一定是你自己的原因；这里的因包括做人的方式或处事的态度。

Perhaps it's not your reason when you can't get along well with someone, but it's definitely your reason when you can't get along well with many others. The reason includes the way you behave or the attitude you have.

 

如果你得到很多人的尊重，那么肯定是你平时待人友好；如果在你有困难时得到别人很多的帮助，那么肯定是你平时助人为乐；如果你做事得心应手，那么肯定是你平时训练有素；如果你左右逢源，那么肯定是你平时习惯良好。

You will be treated well when treating others well; You will be provided with great help when helping others mostly; You will be handy with everything when being well-trained; You will be popular when having a good daily habit.

 

上帝是公平的。我们不能做违背良心的事，不能对别人使坏，不要试着去尝试使坏。

God is fair, we mustn't act against our hearts, never ever trying to do harm to others.

 

 

你越省就越穷         Saving makes no fortune

 

勤俭节约，成了很多人生存和生活的智慧，几千年不变。

Thrift and diligence have become the wisdom of survival and life for many people, which is preserved constantly for thousands of years.

 

时代变了，我们已经迈入了工业化和商业化的时代，消费心理应该随之改变。刚刚摆脱贫穷的我们很容易分化成两个极端，一是有钱的毫无底线的炫富，二是贫穷的沉浸在恐慌中，存再多的钱也不敢花，也感觉不到丝毫的安全感，实际上越省会变得越穷。

The consuming psychology should be altered with the new industrial and commercial era from the poverty, which is easy to divide people into two extremes, one of which is the conspicuous show of being rich, and the other is the immersion into panic of poverty, constantly depositing money and worrying the insufficiency of money, actually this kind of saving won't bring wealth, conversely it makes poorer.

 

存再多的钱不舍得花，会降低生活的质量，更何况国家社会需要我们消费，消费促进经济增长，消费提高生活情趣。我们要学会与自己能力相匹配的消费。

The lack of consumption will reduce the quality of life, which is also not recommended by both government and society. Consumption not only boosts the economic growth, but improves the delight of life. We should choose the consumption matching our abilities.

 

漫无目的的节约只能让你数值上的财富增加，但财富的实际价值却不一定有想象中的价值。计划赶不上变化，而且一味的节省容易让辛苦的努力变成沉重的负担，反而不利于财富的积累。只有适度的消费才能真正的发挥挖掘财富的潜力。如果你身体没有变得更强，如何赚更多的钱。

Blind saving can only increase the numeric value of fortune, however maybe the real value of it won't value as much as expected. Plan is changing all the time, and the blinding saving will aggravate the burden out of hard work, which is against the increase of fortune. Only a proper consumption can we really develop the potential of digging new fortunes. How can you earn more money without a stronger body?

 

 

穷人不折腾，始终是穷人，你不折腾你的财富，时间久了就财负了。节约虽然是美德，但是要适度，消费也同样要适度。

You will stay poverty without properly using your fortune. Saving is a virtue, but should be moderate, so is the consumption.

 

 

忙里偷闲比闲着无聊好      A rest from something is better than that of nothing

 

生活中从来都不缺不忙的人，他们天天游手好闲混日子，表面上他们过的轻松自在，无忧无虑，其实太闲的日子反而累，心里不踏实。

There are plenty of people who are carefree in their lives, （killing time within a fixed time period, which is maybe considered as a pretty admirable thing, however such status brings them a more tired heart instead of a comfortable one.

 

忙里偷闲才最珍贵，才更明白工作的意思和生活的乐趣，相反若整天无所事事，庸庸碌碌，生活将是漫无目的漂泊的一艘船。

Some eases during busy time are the most precious, allowing people to realize the meaning of work and the joy of life. Contrarily, doing nothing and wasting time all the day is just like a boat sailing nowhere.

 

每天都忙碌的生活，虽然有的时候精疲力尽，拐走了很多的欢乐，但是这样的生活才安稳充实，人无远虑必有近忧，而且忙里偷点闲才能更感恩生活和激励自己。

Perhaps an occupied life consumes great energies and floods many delights, however such a life is a stable and rich life because if you don't plan for long, you will trouble soon. Eases during busy time will make you thank life more and encourage yourself more.

 

闲着闲着就废了。千千万的成功人士都还在奋勇前进，平凡的你我他有什么理由让自己闲着，有那么些可能你不会因为忙碌而让自己过上自己想要的生活，但是让自己废掉的方法一定就只有闲着了。

Many a person is discarded by themselves through wasting time on insignificant things.  It's not reasonable for common us not to struggle when the successful are still struggling, and it is of few possibilities that you will fail yourself after hard working, but it is of no possibility that you will not be discarded when you kill time insignificantly.

 

虽然有的时候很累，但别担心，至少我们还在进步，进步向上的人生不就是我们努力奋斗的方向吗，不累点说的过去吗？忙累了就充分休息休息。

Although we are rather tired sometimes, our lives are progressing, which isn't what we have been expecting? If so, being tired is a common condition all of us may encounter. When we feel tired, it's necessary that we relax ourselves fully.

 

 

 

生活是一部剧，上演悲欢离合     Life is a mixed drama

 

每个人的生活都是一部鱼龙混杂的长篇连续剧，需要他们不断变换角色才能有跌宕起伏的剧情，有生离死别的伤感，有喜不胜收的喜悦，有撕心裂肺的愤怒，有平淡无奇的平静等剧情，既然你是你生活这部剧的主演，就得演完这些剧情。

The life of everyone is a drama with assorted plots, requiring them to frequently switch roles to activate the ups and downs of the dramas, including the sentimental separation and death, the extreme delight, the thundering irritation and the inflexible calmness. You have to act fully in your drama since you star there.

 

当你在经历生离死别的伤感时，不要沉浸其中不能自拔，因为生活不会因此停止。生活在继续，剧情会发展，生活不只有伤感的剧情。只要处理好伤感的情绪，才懂得喜悦也是值得珍藏的。

When you experience the emotion of sentiment, don't suck yourself into it and be inescapable, since your life and drama will stop by no means. Your life continues and your drama progresses with more than sentimental plots. Provided you cope with the sentiment properly, you can figure out joy is also worth being treasured.

 

当你在经历喜不胜收的喜悦时，不要洋洋自得忘乎所以，因为生活不会因此停止。生活在进行，剧情会演变，生活不只有喜悦的剧情。只要包装好喜悦的情绪，才懂得伤感也是可以治愈的。

When you experience the emotion of delight, don't be complacent and forget yourself, since your life and drama will stop by no means. Your life progresses and your drama evolves with more than then delightful plots. Provided you cope with the delight properly, you can figure out sentiment can be also cured.

 

当你在经历撕心裂肺的愤怒时，不要气急败坏否定一切，因为生活不会因此停止。生活在起伏，剧情会突转，生活不只有愤怒的剧情。只要驾驭好愤怒的情绪，才懂得幸福也是需要守护的。

When you experience the emotion of irritation, don't get exasperated and deny all, since your life and drama will stop by no means. Your life bumps and your drama undergoes a revulsion with more than irritating plots. Provided you cope with the irritation properly, you can figure out happiness also requires guardianship.

 

当你在经历平淡无奇的平静时，不要怀疑人生杞人忧天，因为生活不会因此停止。生活在酝酿，剧情会高涨，生活不只有平静的剧情。只要优化好平静的情绪，才懂得平静也是难得拥有的。

When you experience the emotion of calmness, don't suspect life and overreact, since your life and drama will stop by no means. Your life accumulates and your drama upsurges with more than calm plots. Provided you cope with the calmness properly, you can figure out calmness is also rare to possess.

 

无论经历人生的何种剧情，我们都要尽心尽力演出最好的自己，让生活激流勇进，绽放属于自己的异彩。

We should always show our bests to experience the assorted plots in our dramas, flushing our lives and make them blossom.

 

 

人让车让出顺畅，车让人让出安全        Man and traffic should be harmonious

 

规则早期既然是由一些人制定的，并且是大家公认的，那么就应该按规则行事，违反的人应该受到应有的惩罚，就像交通规则，它守护着人身安全，维系着幸福的家庭，任何违法它的后果，轻的破财伤人，重的家破人亡。

Rules must not be breached by the first ones that legalize them, against which any behaviors deserve due punishment, just like the traffic rules that guard the personal safety and maintain the happiness of many families, and any violative behaviors will bring severe results from financial losses to the ruin of a family.

 

红灯停，绿灯行，交通信号灯一如既往的坚守着自己的岗位，但信号灯是机械式的，很多时候还是需要行人和行车的礼让配合。人让车让出顺畅，车让人让出安全。

Driving courteously and politely is always the ultimate goals the traffic lights are given; however, traffic lights are independent of man's will, often requiring pedestrians and car owners’ comity and coordination. The comity from the pedestrians’ side enables an unimpeded traffic, and a confirming safety from the other side.

 

上下班高峰期交通拥堵更严重，如果大家都只想着自己早点上下班，开车的变道加塞见缝插针，行走的横冲直撞置若罔闻，那么往往会事与愿违，使交通瘫痪，陷无尽的等待和拥堵。

Traffic jam is more dominant when it comes to rush hours. If everyone only considers their own requests going to work or home earlier by cutting in a queue or walking saucily, then everything will just go the opposite way, making the traffic paralyzed and themselves roam in the endless wait.

 

只要开车的多点文明驾驶，行走的多点文明礼让，很多的交通事故都可以很好的被避免。一粒老鼠屎坏了一锅粥，我们相信没有人希望自己成为那粒老鼠屎。

Many a traffic accident can be easily avoided by a little more polite driving and walking. A little gall spoils a great deal of honey.   We believe that none of us is willing to be this little gall.

 

上班下班，安全把关，人车互让，心情顺畅。既然顺畅和安全能为人生的目标和幸福的生活保驾护航，我们还有什么理由不去践行呢？

Safety, courtesy and smoothness are what we need for work.  Now that smoothness and safety can escort the goal of life and the happy life, are there any reasons that we don't fulfill.

 

 

 

真正聪明的人是不走捷径的         The smart conduct honestly

 

成功没有捷径，人生也是，谁的成功都不是从天而降，凭空而来的，都是从前经历的累积，在某个时间的叠加，才有了成功，真正的聪明人是不走捷径的。

There is no shortcut to success, neither is life, the success of everyone is the long-term accumulation of previous experiences, instead of coming from nowhere. Whoever are smart never take the shortcut.

 

我们每天重复着自己不喜欢的工作，杂乱无章，跟所谓的成功都扯不上关系，好累啊，都有撑不下去的感觉，加上其他人的牢骚埋怨，也让原本的疲倦感倍增，感觉人生颓废。生活难道就是无休止的上班下班吗？

We being tired of the same messy works repeat them every day instead of approaching the so-called success, feeling like giving up them, in addition, the complaints from colleagues exacerbate the boredom, finally bring people into the abyss of despair. Is life to work endlessly?

 

答案是否定的，人要活着就必须干活，要有所作为就必须有积累，就离不开那些繁杂的事情，工作再繁杂，心也不能累，这些繁杂正是成功之前的种种考验。只要心宽了，才能正确面对遇到的种种考验，才有可能打开通往成功的道路。

Life is not to work endlessly but work efficiently. It's essential that people work for a living, and experience a lot things so as to accumulate as much as they can, which more or less contain messy things. The right way to deal with those messy things is to have a big heart, with which people can confront all the risks and challenges and open the way to success.

 

相比其他的生活态度，累并快乐着或许才是真正的捷径，才是真正的聪明人所应该有的态度，想要过什么的生活，就应该付出什么样的努力。生活是自己的生活，没人为你开辟捷径，即使有也不稳固。

Compared with other attitudes of life, perhaps being tired with joy is a real shortcut, and is what the smart should have. What kind of life one will have has something to do with how hard he works? Nobody will set up a shortcut for you because they all work for their own lives.

 

换个角度来思考，会发现即使工作非常累，无助的你除了奋起，除了要改变现状，还能做什么呢。人生没有重来，任何一起痛苦疲倦的经历都是唯一的，都是宝贵的，更没有什么捷径。

If one changes his view for his current situation, he will find that he has no choice but to work harder and efficiently to get rid of each of the painful and boring experiences. Life without any shortcut never comes again, where every experience is unique and precious.

 

有时间喊累，为什么没时间消化累呢，其实就是态度没转正。真正意义上成功的人，谁没经历过所谓的累呢，只是他们选择有效的转化了累，并继续前行。

The reason why the time spent on complaining can't be spent on eliminating it, is that the right attitude can't be taken. A real success comes with various painful experiences and efficiently converts all fatigues into power and keeps advancing.

 

 

 

每个人不能被默认设置牵着鼻子走        Everyone should live colorfully

 

从生命的诞生到生命的结束这个轨迹上，每个人都应该做自己的主人，不能被默认的设置牵着鼻子走，也就是自己的人生轨迹要自己用心描绘。

Everyone should be the master of themselves from the beginning of life to the end of it, instead of being set up by others, namely everyone must describe their own journey heartily.

 

我们每天都过得浑浑噩噩，貌似度过了漫长的一年，其实只是在重复着过着同样的生活，就是所谓的默认的设置。我们很少察觉每天擦肩而过的生活，很少主动的想着去改变，去创造。

We've been ignorant for the whole year repeating the same life, which is so-called default setup. During this period, we are rarely aware of our lives, and rarely intend to update ourselves to a high level.

 

如果我们每天都能洞察我们的生活，就可以更好的感知人生，感恩生活，才能让一年的每一天过的充实，才有可能有靓丽的人生。

If we're able to see clearly our lives, we can feel our lives and appreciate them, allowing us to enrich our lives and to create beautiful lives.

 

生活的细节千千万，可以洞察的事情说不完，用心去体验，用行动去创造，才能避免被默认的设置牵着鼻子走。如果一个人没有想法或是懒惰，那么就很容易堕入默认设置的路。

There are plenty of things in life we can oversee. Feeling them with our hearts and carrying them out frequently can avoid a painful default setup of life. The default setup of life is always ready for those who is lazy to think and act.

 

 

默认设置还包括现在被许多父母设定的成才之路，孩子被要求学这个学那个，有的时候这些需求已经远远超过了孩子的承受能力。如果孩子选择被设置，那么就很容易被牵着鼻子走。

The success of life for children is always set by many a parent, under which children are required to learn many skills which are already beyond their endurances. If the children choose to be demanded frequently, they will be led by the nose.

 

父母要做的是在孩子成才的路上保驾护航，而不是自驾自航，掌舵的应该是孩子自己，只要让孩子成为了自己的主人，才能创造独一无二的人生。每个人都有不一样的人生，被设置的人生违背了出生的唯一性。

What parents should do is to escort their children in the way towards a great success, instead of driving by themselves. As long as the children become the master of their owns, they can create unique lives. Everyone has different lives, and the default setup is against the uniqueness of birth.

 

 

 

简历   Resume

 

一个人可以有多种多样的经历或是技能，其中一些主要且显著的经历或是技能的组合构成简历的大部分；就像第一印象能让他人了解自己的轮廓一样，一份简历可以让雇主或是猎头在最少的时间内对应聘者有个大体的认识。

One may have various experiences or skills, the combination of some primary and noticeable ones of which, forms the most of a resume; Like the first impression which acquaints others with one's profile, a resume allows employers or headhunters to get to know the applicant generally within a minimum time.

 

一份显眼且富有经验的简历无疑能快速捕获雇主的眼球，一开始就占据应聘的优势，与这样的简历相比，一份冗余混杂的简历还不如一份空白的简历。

No doubt a conspicuous and sophisticated resume can capture employers’ eyes rapidly, holding the advantage from the beginning of employment, compared with which, a plain one is better than a redundant and miscellaneous one.

 

当然简历要真实要有意义，不能造假，而且可以被很好地装饰，一份好的简历也是一个人组织能力的反应。如果一个人连简历都做不好，那么给雇主的第一印象将大打折扣。

Certainly, a resume should be real and meaningful without any counterfeit, moreover, can be decorated delicately, a good one is also a reflect of one's ability of organization. If one is not able to organize a resume well, the first impression to employers will be discounted a lot.

 

我们知道，没有丰富的经历或缺少学习是编写不出精美的简历的，然而随着生活工作阅历的增加，简历可以逐渐地被完善，所需要付出的就是多经历重大且有意义的大事情，这些事情构成了一份简历的大部分。

As we know, a resume will be plain or if one doesn't experience or study a lot, however a resume can be improved gradually with the increasing of experiences or skills gained from daily work or life, what one needs to do is to frequently experience major and meaningful events, which mostly constitute a resume.

 

比如，在应聘同一个职位上，如果一个人拥有的相关证书或是经历比其他人多的话，他就会被优先录用，而且可以相应的要求更多的福利待遇。

For example, if one has more relative certificates or experiences than others in applying for the same position, he may be hired prior to others, furthermore he can request more benefits accordingly.

 

简历就像镜子，映射人的主要经历和技能，有时也简单描述下性格，如果想看到一面漂亮的镜子，请好好努力，因为镜子是不会撒谎的。

A resume is like a mirror mirroring one's major experiences and skills, sometimes a brief of personality, if one intends to see a beautiful mirror, please struggle for that, because a mirror is not a liar.