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一个有涵养的人, 容得下别人, 看得清自己, 懂得了世事。对人不分地位高低, 始终彬彬有礼; 待人不管贫富差距, 一直以诚相待。 What is self-cultivation? A self-restrained person can tolerate others, see himself clearly and understand the world. Be polite to people regardless of their status; treat people honestly regardless of the gap between rich and poor.
睿智的人，看得透，故不争； 豁达的人，想得开，故不斗； 得道的人，晓天意，故不急； 厚德的人，重谦和，故不噪； 明理的人，放得下，故不痴； 自信的人，肯努力，故不误； 重义的人，交天下，故不孤； 浓情的人，淡名利，故不独； 宁静的人，行深远，故不折； 知足的人，常快乐，故不老。 A wise man can see through, so he can't argue. Open-minded people, open-minded, so do not fight; He who knows the way, knows the will of heaven, so he is not in a hurry. A man of good virtue is modest, so he is not noisy. Reasonable people can let go, so they are not foolish. Self-confident people are willing to work hard, so they are correct. Those who value righteousness are not lonely because they are handed over to the world. A person with strong affection is not alone because he lacks fame and wealth. The tranquil man goes far and never breaks. A contented person is always happy, so he is not old.
一、不要自视清高 天外有天，人上有人，淡泊明志，宁静致远。当别人把你当领导时，自己不要把自己当领导，当别人不把你当领导时，自己一定要把自己当领导，权力是一时的，金钱是身外的，身体是自己的，做人是长久的。 Don't think highly of yourself. Outside the sky, there are people, indifferent and ambitious, tranquil and far-reaching. When others take you as their leader, they should not take themselves as their leader. When others do not take you as their leader, they must take themselves as their leader. Power is temporary, money is external, body is their own, and life is long.
二、不要盲目承诺 言而有信，种下行动就会收获习惯;种下习惯便会收获性格;种下性格便会收获命运——习惯造就一个人。 Don't promise blindly Believe in words, you will reap habits by planting actions; you will reap personality by planting habits; you will reap destiny by planting personality - habits make a person.
三、不要轻易求人 把自己当别人——减少痛苦、平淡狂喜，把别人当自己——同情不幸，理解需要，把别人当别人——尊重独立性，不侵犯他人，把自己当自己——珍惜自己，快乐生活。能够认识别人是一种智慧，能够被别人认识是一种幸福，能够自己认识自己是圣者贤人。 Don't ask for people easily Think of yourself as someone else - less pain, dull ecstasy, others as yourself - sympathize with misfortune, understand needs, treat others as others - respect independence, do not violate others, treat yourself as yourself - cherish yourself and live happily. Being able to know others is a kind of wisdom. Being able to be known by others is a kind of happiness. Being able to know oneself is a sage and a sage.
四、不要取笑别人 损害他人人格，快乐一时，伤害一生生命的整体是相互依存的，世界上每一 样东西都依赖其它另一样东西，学会感恩。感恩大自然的福佑，感恩父母的养育， 感恩社会的安定，感恩食之香甜，感恩衣之温暖，感恩花草鱼虫，感恩苦难逆境。 Don't make fun of others. Damage to the personality of others, happiness for a time, damage to the whole life is interdependent, everything in the world depends on another thing, learn to be grateful. Thanksgiving for the blessings of nature, parents'upbringing, social stability, sweet food, warm clothes, flowers, grass, fish and insects, and hardship.
五、不要乱发脾气 一伤身体，二伤感情人与人在出生和去世中都是平等的——哭声中来，哭声 中去。千万注意自己恋恋不舍，而别人早就是去意已决人生应看三座山：井冈山 普陀山八宝山退一步海阔天空，忍一事风平浪静牢骚太多防肠断，风物长宜放眼量。 Don't lose your temper. One wound to the body, two wounds to the feelings and people are equal in birth and death - come in crying, go in crying. Must pay attention to their reluctance, and others have long decided that life should see three mountains: Jinggang Mountains Putuo Mountains Babaoshan step back vast sea and sky, tolerate a matter of calm and quiet complaints too much intestinal breakage, long-term view.
六、不要小看仪表 撒播美丽，收获幸福仪表是一种心情，仪表是一种力量在自己审视美的同时， 让别人欣赏美心灵瑜伽——调适、修炼、超越。 Don't belittle instruments Spread beauty, harvest happiness instrument is a kind of mood, instrument is a kind of power in their own view of beauty, while allowing others to appreciate the beauty of Mind Yoga - adjustment, practice, transcendence.
七、别封闭自己 多与人交流互动是一种必要的能力。帮助人是一种崇高，理解人是一种豁达，原谅人是一种美德，服务人是一种快乐，得到别人的理解或欣赏更是一种幸福。 Don't close yourself It is a necessary ability to communicate and interact with people. Helping people is a lofty, understanding people is an open-minded, forgiving people is a virtue, serving people is a kind of happiness, to be understood or appreciated by others is a kind of happiness.
八、别欺负老实人 同情弱者是一种品德，一种境界，一种和谐。心理健康，才能身体健康。人有一分器量，便多一分气质；人有一分气质，便多一分人缘；人有一分人缘，便多一分事业，积善成德、修身养性。 Don't bully honest people. Compassion with the weak is a moral character, a state, a harmony. Mental health is the only way to be healthy. If a person has a part of his temperament, he will have more temperament; if he has a part of his temperament, he will have more popularity; if he has a part of his popularity, he will have more career and accumulate good morality and self-cultivation.
一是生命的快乐，例如健康、亲情、与自然的交融，这是生命本身的需要得到满足的快乐。 There are two great joys in life One is the happiness of life, such as health, family, and the blending with nature. This is the happiness that life itself needs to be satisfied.
另一是精神的快乐，包括智性、情感和信仰的快乐，这是人的高级属性得到满足的快乐。物欲是社会刺激出来的，不是生命本身带来的，其满足诚然也是一种快乐，但是，与生命的快乐比，它太浅，与精神的快乐比，它太低。 The other is spiritual happiness, including the happiness of intelligence, emotion and belief, which is the happiness of satisfying people's advanced attributes. Material desire is stimulated by society, not brought by life itself, and its satisfaction is indeed a kind of happiness, but compared with the happiness of life, it is too shallow, and spiritual happiness, it is too low.
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