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群居守住嘴,独处守住心。切莫交浅言深。人际交往里的一些真相,怎样才算一个成熟有原则的人?  1、培养自己的核心价值 自己优秀了,优秀的人自然都会向你靠拢。不要年纪轻轻,满脑袋都是人脉。优秀的人看得懂你到底是真材实料,还是可以伪装。 2、学会适当拒绝。 没有人是万能的,哪里都需要你的身影。习惯性地讨好别人,比人反而觉得理所当然。 3、不要把别人对你的善意当成理所当然。 这个世界除了你的亲人,没其它人有义务对你好,遇到善意,请一定知道珍惜和感恩。 4、刻意维护的关系长久不了。 人和人之间想要保持长久舒适的关系,靠的是共性和吸引,而不是压迫,捆绑,一味的付出以及道德式的自我感动。 5、不要靠出卖一个朋友的隐私来取悦他人。 朋友信任你,才会表现出不愿为他人所知的一面。作为朋友,应该珍惜这种信任,而不是有朝一日将这些作为谈资。 6、说话别那么大声。 有时候我们说话大声,即使说话内容是没有伤害的,也会给旁人带来一种凶巴巴、没礼貌、偏激的印象。特别是对女朋友。 7、切莫交浅言深。 对不熟的人一定要管住自己的热情和嘴巴,适当有所保留。尤其小心自来熟的人,他们很多只是出于习惯的热情,根本没有走心。 8、不要以为真心的付出,别人就该欣然接受。 无论是感情还是物质,如果对方不接受,那对他就是一种负担。如果非要勉强,于己于人,都不是好事。 9、重要的话要说三遍。 别人可以自嘲但是你千万不能附和!别人可以自嘲但是你千万不能附和!别人可以自嘲但是你千万不能附和! Crowds hold their mouths , Alone and holding your mind. Chemo is a deep-talking one. Some truth in interpersonal communication, , how to be a mature and principled person? 1st Cultivate your core values I'm good. , Good people will naturally come close to you. Don't be , young, your head is full of people. Good people can see whether you are the real material, , or can disguise. 2 , learn to reject appropriately. No one is omnivant. , You need your figure everywhere. Habitually courting others , more likely than others to take for granted. 3rd Don't take others for granted your kindness. The world except your loved ones. , No one else has an obligation to be nice to you. , Meet the goodwill , Please be sure to know to cherish and be grateful. 4 , deliberately maintain the relationship is not long- . People want to maintain a long and comfortable relationship , Relying on commonality and attraction , Not oppression. , Bundled , Pay and moral self-touch. 5th Don't please someone by selling a friend's privacy. Friends trust you. , will show a side that does not want to be known to others. As , friends, you should cherish this trust, not one day , use it as a talking point. 6th Don't speak so loudly. Sometimes we talk loudly. , Even if the content of the speech is harmless. , It will also bring a ferocious, impolite, extreme impression to others. Especially for girlfriends. 7 , Cut the depth of the words. Be sure to hold on to your enthusiasm and mouth for people who are not familiar with it. , Appropriate reservations. Especially becareful people who know themselves , many of whom are simply out of habit , and have no heart at all . 8th Don't think of the sincere pay , Others should gladly accept it. Whether it's emotional or material. , If the other party does not accept , That would be a burden on him. It , is not a good thing if we have to be reluctant to be self-inflicted , . 9 , important words to say three times. Others can laugh at themselves but you can't agree. ! Others can laugh at themselves but you can't agree. ! Others can laugh at themselves but you can't agree.! |
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