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什么是真正旺夫的女人？所谓旺夫的女人是指能够拥有成功男人并且享受他的光环带来的甜蜜成果的女人。这本来是个迷信说法，但是每个神秘的说法都能够在现实的世界中找到支持点来讲通。这就像某人的八字说某人将来会成功，但每个成功的人都需要费好大的努力。实际上这个人的八字里边恰恰就包含了努力、聪明等因素在内。所以一个旺夫的女人必须具备这样一些特质： What is real lucky woman? So-called lucky woman is who could have a successful husband and enjoy the sweet fruits brought by his glory. It is originally a superstitious term, but every mysterial says can find its support in real world and make sense.Just like somebody's BaZi manifests he will be very successful in future, but we know every successful man must pay lots of efforts to achieve it.In fact, in his BaZi, there are exactly such elements such as strinous, clever and so on.The real lucky woman has these virtues: 首先，她是善良的，这是旺夫女人的基本特点。如果她是善良的，她不会抱怨丈夫正在经历的困难日子，甚至抛弃他。她将会给与鼓励和赞美。她投入所有的力量帮助他，从来不抱怨他暂时不能带给他好运。 First,she is kind, the fundamental personality to be a lucky woman.If she is kind, she will not complain about the bad times his husband is underthroughing, even desert him.What she will do during their hard life is encouraging and appraising. She will devote all her energy to help him out and never nag him about his temporally disability to carry good luck to her. 其二，她是孝顺的。她知道天下所有的父母都很不容易，她老公的父母同样花费了好多心血才将他培养成现在的样子。所以在回报自己父母的同时，她也给与公婆同样的照顾，从而让老公心里对她感恩。 Second,she is filial.She knows all the parents in the world are not easy to bring their children up,the parents-in-law have also expericenced all kinds of bitter tastes to folster his husband to today.So at the time rewarding her own parents, she also gives the same good care to his husband's, which makes his husband grateful of her. 第三，她知道如何教育孩子。她知道只有言语教育是不够的，首先她会以身作则。种瓜得瓜种豆得豆，你的孩子将会带给你自己行为的结果。 Third,she knows how to teach children.She knows only language is not enough to give her children a good guidance.Firstly, she behaves herself, she sets a good example to them.You will harvest what you sew. Your children will bring the fruits of your own behaviors. 一句话，这样的女人必须贤惠。 One word, the woman must be virtuous. 现在一些荒谬的女人不可思议地认为他们老公家里应该对她感恩，因为她嫁给了他。她的父母含辛茹苦将她抚养大，她来到了他家里给他当媳妇，她是他们的恩人，他们全家都应该供着她，她应该凌驾于他们全家之上。他们应该把所有的财富都给她，并且好好的伺候她，甚至当佣人。 Now some ridiculous women incrediblly think their husband families should be grateful of her ,for she marries him.Her parents offered so much blood to bring her up ,and she enters his famility to be his wife, she is their benefectress,all their families should be inferior to her, she is superior to them.They should give all their treasures to her and serve her well,even to be her servants. 我必须说，你会得到报应的。 I have to say , you will get your retributions for that. |
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