乔治·布莱尔·韦斯特(George Blair-West)博士是精神病学的作者,研究员和医生。 演讲者:George Blair-West 演讲题目:打造幸福婚姻,避免离婚的三个方法 Almost 50 years ago, psychiatrists Richard Rahe and Thomas Holmes developed an inventory of the most distressing human experiences that we could have. Number one on the list? Death of a spouse. 差不多五十年前,精神病学家理查德 · 赖特和托马斯 · 赫姆斯列出了一份清单,包含了我们所能拥有的最痛苦的人类经历。排名第一的是配偶的去世。 Number two, divorce. Three, marital separation. Now, generally, but not always, for those three to occur, we need what comes in number seven on the list, which is marriage. 第二:离婚。第三:婚内分居。通常是这样,但并非总是如此,要让这三件事情发生,我们需要先实现名单上的第七条,也就是婚姻。 Fourth on the list is imprisonment in an institution. Now, some say number seven has been counted twice. I don't believe that. 名单上的第四条是在监狱里被监禁。有人会说第七条已经算了两次。(将婚姻比做囚牢)对此我并不认同。 |
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