1. Have a unique personality. Be your own person, but be different from the rest of the crowd. Have stories to tell and experiences to share. Be wild and exciting. Don't be bland and vague. Have that addictive personality. 有独特的个性。做你自己，但要与众不同。有故事要讲，有经验要分享。要狂野，要兴奋。不要沉闷，不要含糊。有那种让人上瘾的个性。 2. Have a signature appearance and smell. I dress literally the same every day and smell the same every day, but it's apparently attractive. 有一个标志性的外表和气味。我几乎每天都穿一样的衣服，闻起来也是一样的气味，但这显然更有吸引力。 3. Be motivational and inspiring. Use this to your best advantage. 激励他人，鼓舞他人。充分利用这一点。 4. Humor. Make them genuinely laugh. I'm always making people smile and laugh, but for me, it comes naturally, without any deep thought. 幽默。让他们发自内心地笑。我总是让人们微笑和大笑，但对我来说，它来得很自然，没有任何深思熟虑。 5. Learn new skills. If you can pull off crazy magic tricks or dance good or sing or play an instrument, people are more likely to be drawn to you as well. People like people with skills, especially those that they lack. 学习新技能。如果你能表演一些厉害的魔术，或者跳舞、唱歌、演奏乐器，人们也更容易被你吸引。人们喜欢有技能的人，尤其是那些他们缺乏的。 6. Don't make it all about you. Talk to them about them. People love to talk about themselves, so open your ears, and be more than willing to give advice back as well. A simple answer to a long rant is not a way to win anything. Be willing to open up, listen, and talk it out. 不要让一切话题都围绕着你，和他们谈谈他们自己。人们喜欢谈论他们自己，所以打开你的耳朵，也要给予一些反馈。一个简单的回答并不能赢得任何东西。敞开心扉，倾听，并说出自己的看法。 7. Learn their love language, but time spent with your loved one is the greatest and most powerful love language of all. 学习他们爱的语言，和你所爱的人一起度过的时间是所有爱的语言中最伟大和最强大的。 8. Have a good career ahead of you. Have plans. Have a job. Go to school or have an education. Have your own place. Have your own means of transportation. Believe me, those whom are mature will greatly appreciate this about you. 前途一片光明。有规划，有工作。上过学或接受过教育。有自己的一片天地。有自己的交通工具。相信我，那些成熟的人会非常欣赏你的这一点。 9. Keep yourself well groomed. Oh and applying lip balm helps a lot. I mean, keeping those teeth nice and shiny and that breath minty fresh is a big step up too. 保持自己干净整洁。哦，涂唇膏也很有帮助。我的意思是，保持牙齿的光泽和清新的口气也是一大进步。 10. Exercise, keep fit, eat good. This shows you want what you crave and that you're willing to get it despite the opposition in front of you. 运动，保持健康，好好吃饭。这表明你有渴望的东西，而且你愿意努力去得到它，尽管你面前有反对的声音。
要特别，要优秀，要倾听。 Be special, be excellent, and listen. |
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