基于相互需要的关系只会带来冲突

“ 这样的关系永远不会带来幸福。”

基于相互需要的关系只会带来冲突。无论我们相互依赖，我们都是为了一个目的，为了一个目的而利用彼此。有了目的，就不是关系了。你可以利用我，我也可以利用你。在这种用法下，我们失去联系。一个以相互利用为基础的社会是暴力的基础。当我们使用另一种方法时，我们只能得到最终的图像。目的，利益，阻止关系，交流。在使用他人时，无论它多么令人满意和安慰，总会有恐惧。为了避免这种恐惧，我们必须拥有。从这种占有中产生嫉妒、猜疑和不断的冲突。这样的关系永远不会带来幸福。

Relationship based on mutual need brings only conflict. However interdependent we are on each other, we are using each other for a purpose, for an end. With an end in view, relationship is not. You may use me and I may use you. In this usage, we lose contact. A society based on mutual usage is the foundation of violence. When we use another, we have only the picture of the end to be gained. The end, the gain, prevents relationship, communion. In the usage of another, however gratifying and comforting it may be, there is always fear. To avoid this fear, we must possess. From this possession there arises envy, suspicion and constant conflict. Such a relationship can never bring about happiness.

COLOMBO CEYLON 2ND RADIO TALK 22ND JANUARY, 1950 `RELATIONSHIP'

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