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如果我们在说“我愿意”的时候犹豫不决，我们应该感到担忧吗？ 有人认为心有顾虑是很正常的，但研究表明，婚前的不确定性实际上预示着对婚姻不满，尤其当产生怀疑的人是新娘时。 科学家调查了232对结婚刚三个月的新婚夫妇，并在此后的四年里每6个月做一次跟踪调查。受试者中男性的平均年龄为27岁，女性为25岁。 在第一次调查中，47%的男方和38%的女方表示，他们在某种程度上对即将到来的婚姻并不确定。四年之后，当初只有男方疑虑的夫妇中有10%夫妇以离婚收场；而仅女方不确定的夫妇中……[查看全文] When the Bride Has Doubt Some say it’s normal to feel doubt. But new research suggests that pre-wedding uncertainty actually predicts marital dissatisfaction. Especially when that doubt is coming from the bride. Scientists surveyed 232 couples within the first three months of marriage and then did follow-up surveys every six months for four years. The average age for the men was 27, for the women, 25. In the first survey 47 percent of men and only 38 percent of women said they had, at some point, felt uncertain about their upcoming marriage. Four years later, ten percent of couples in which only the guy had doubts wound up divorced. But when only the gal was uncertain...[full transcript] |
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