       与其花时间应付不理想的生活，不如花时间造就你想要的生活。善良的人，总觉得拒绝别人像是自己做错了事；可有些人，你帮她七分，她反倒觉得你欠她三分。 Instead of spending time dealing with an unsatisfactory life, take time to make the life you want. Kind people always feel like they have done something wrong by refusing others, but some people think you owe her three points when you help her seven points. 我就这么一颗心，你省着点玩，悠着点伤。这个世界缺的不是完美的人，而是从心底给出的真心，正义，无畏与同情。你一定有过这样的时候吧，想要倾诉，却发现身边无人，所以，你习惯了孤独，学会了坚强。 I have such a heart, you save a little play, leisurely injury. The world lacks not perfect people, but sincere, just, fearless and compassion from the bottom of the heart. You must have had such a time, want to talk, but found no one around, so you are used to loneliness, learned to be strong. 愿你自律。时机和运气永远只是一时的。想要有所成就，真正靠得住的，只有自律、坚持和勤勉。管不住自己的嘴，别指望瘦；管不住自己的手机，别指望效率；管不住自己的时间，时间只能无情地忘记你。 May you be self-disciplined. Timing and luck are always temporary. Self-discipline, perseverance and diligence are the only reliable ways to achieve something. If you can't control your mouth, don't expect to be thin; if you can't control your mobile phone, don't expect efficiency; if you can't control your time, time can only forget you mercilessly.
千万不要把自己的软弱展现给别人看，千万不要把自己的狼狈述说给别人听。因为根本没有人会觉得你很可怜，只会觉得你很没用。有些路，只能一个人走，路上的艰辛，只有自己知道。 Never show your weakness to others. Never tell others about your woes. Because no one will think you are pitiful at all, only that you are useless. Some roads can only be traveled by one person. The hardships on the road are only known to oneself.
理解生命就是一个过客，聚散离合一场经过，承担着一场悲欢交错，但并不意味着生命就是一场被动，人世间的纷繁和复杂，恰恰需要我们内心的一种平淡与柔和，更不能把命运活成一场悲情，既然是那些平常的日子，那首先要活成一场平安，淡然，自然。 Understanding that life is a passer-by, gathering and splitting a process, undertaking a crisscross of joys and sorrows, does not mean that life is passive, the complexity and complexity of the world, just need a kind of plain and gentle in our hearts, not to live a sad fate, since it is those ordinary days, it is first to live a peaceful, indifferent, natural. 多想挽留住那段美好的岁月，留住那段属于你和我的时光。想要伸手去触碰那个有你的梦，却如同泡沫般一碰就碎，那碎裂的瞬间在光阴里格外的绚烂。 I want to retain that beautiful time, that time belongs to you and me. Want to reach out to touch that dream with you, but like a bubble crash, the broken moment in the time is particularly gorgeous.
人的一生，本就是一个认识人的过程。有的人起始于相逢，终止于相处；有的人曾经入了眼，如今离了心。生活会给你糖果，也会给你伤疤，到后来那些伤口褪去软弱，一定会成为你身上最百毒不侵的地方。 A person's life is a process of knowing people. Some people start from meeting and end from getting along with each other; some people have been in the eye, but now they are out of the heart. Life will give you candy and scars, and then those wounds will fade away and become the most poisonous place on your body. 有时，坚强的内心，往往会被一句简单的安慰打败，然后泪流满面。或许每个人的心里都有一个不可能的人，你不敢再去打扰，你故作潇洒地按下删除键，却没有人知道，你究竟用了多大的勇气。 Sometimes, a strong heart is often defeated by a simple comfort, and then tears flow down its face. Perhaps everyone has an impossible person in his heart, you dare not disturb, you pretend to press the delete key smartly, but no one knows how much courage you have used. 当时年少，从来不觉得和她是一路人，大概是平行线吧。可是莫名其妙的就是有了交集，然后命运就这么不可逆转的向前了。我开始变得可靠，隐忍得不像自己，这就是所谓的为爱改变吧。 When I was young, I never thought I was with her. It was probably parallel. But somehow there is intersection, and then fate is so irreversible forward. I began to become reliable and intolerant, which is what is called change for love.
心里踏实了，脚下的路才能走得安稳。幸福的时刻，就要开心；等待幸福的时候，就要耐心。看穿但不说穿，很多事情，只要自己心里有数就好了。好多时候，是我们自己想太多，才会让自己如此难受。 Only when you have a firm mind can you walk steadily. When you are happy, be happy; when you are waiting for happiness, be patient. See through but don't say through, many things, as long as you have a few in mind. Many times, it is because we think too much about ourselves that we can make ourselves so miserable. 世界上最残忍的事，不是没遇到爱的人，而是遇到却最终错过；世界上最伤心的事，不是你爱的人不爱你，而是他爱过你后，最后却不爱你。 The cruelest thing in the world is not that you don't meet the person you love, but that you meet and eventually miss it. The saddest thing in the world is not that the person you love doesn't love you, but that he doesn't love you after he loves you. When the weather is clear, you can feel the height of the mountains, the floating clouds and the white snow. Clouds are connected with the sea and air, the wind is accompanied by tides, falling trees and mountains are vast. Sometimes snow is scattered. More white is hidden in higher mountains and deeper pine forests. So I like to pace alone and calmly, while the cold wind is blowing on my face. When you are alone, you will always be there. |
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