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若要吸引有魅力的人，你自己必须有魅力。
To attract attractive people, you must be attractive.

若要吸引强大的人，你自己必须强大。
To attract powerful people, you must be powerful.

若要吸引坚定的人，你自己必须坚定。
To attract committed people, you must be committed.

不要在别人身上费工夫，先努力做好自己。
Instead of going to work on them, you go to work on yourself.

如果你做到了，你就能吸引别人。
If you become, you can attract.