 Sadhguru: If someone loves you, because you are theirs, in some way you are their property. But if they love you for who you are, you are a very fortunate being.Sadhguru（萨古鲁）：如果有人因你属于他们而爱你，某种意义上，你是他们的财产。如果有人因为你本身而爱你，那么你是非常幸运的人。This is all you need to earn in your life, make yourself in such a way that people can’t help loving you. Like everything else in the universe I’m saying, look at the sunset, look at the trees, look at the flowers. The whole lot of them, there are too many examples for you and look at yourself when you were a child, look at yourself when you were jolly joyful and wonderful, so there are so many examples, including yourself at certain moments.你需要在生命中赢得的全部，就是让自己成为人们情不自禁爱上的人。我说的是，就像宇宙中其他的一切事物，看那落日、看那些树、看那些花。所有这些，对你们来说有太多的例子，看看儿时的你，看看非常愉快和精彩时的你，所以有太多的例子，包括某些时刻的你自己。 Make yourself in such a way that every life around you inevitably loves you. This is important, not to please them, this is important that you exude pleasantness, you exude wonderfulness, you exude greatness in everything that you do and do not do. In your speech
and in your quietness, in your actions and inactions, if you exude a
pleasant sense of life around you, a pleasant sense of life energies
around you, well every life around you, I’m telling you not just human
beings, every life around you, even of plant, an animal life will
respond to you, this you must earn.让自己成为这样的人：你周围的每个生命都会无法避免地爱上你。这很重要，不是取悦他们，在你做或没做的所有事情中，你都散发着愉悦、你都散发着精彩、你都散发着了不起。在你的言语和沉默中，你的行动和不动中，如果你都在你的周围散发着生命的愉悦感，生命能量的愉悦感，那么你周围的每个生命，我告诉你，不只是人类，你周围的每个生命，甚至植物和动物都会回应你，你必须赢得这个。Don’t think this is some great thing you cannot do, as I said as a child you did it, without knowing a thing, many other examples, well every creature in some way is doing it, so it’s not difficult for you. Just a question of your willingness, are you willing, or are you always taking a stance of your own? Are you willing
to be a willing participant in life or are you always trying to exert
yourself upon everything around you, this is all it is about. People
need not belong to you, for you to love them, similarly you don’t have
to belong to somebody to be loved.不要认为这是什么你做不到的伟大之事，如我刚才所说，儿时的你毫不知情地做到了，很多其他的例子，某种程度上每个生物都在做，所以这对你来说并不难。只是你意愿的问题：你愿意吗，还是你总是持有自己的立场？你愿意做一个生命的自愿参与者，还是你总是试图将自己施加于周围的一切之上，这是问题所在。人们不需要属于你才被你爱，同样地你也不必属于谁才被爱。
Well, I want you
to know you did not make this life. This life, this greatest phenomena
in this universe has come to you free. So don’t crib and complain, make
yourself wonderful enough that nobody can help loving you.
那么，我想让你知道，不是你创造了这个生命。这个生命，这个宇宙中最伟大的奇迹是免费来到你这里的。所以不要发牢骚和抱怨，让自己足够美好，以至于没有人能不爱你。Isha视频链接： space.bilibili.com/489162014
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