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每个人都有与众不同的闪光点，越智慧的人，越懂得用欣赏的眼光和心态看人。 生活中，不乏有居高临下，以己度人，善用自己的长处比人短处的人。 这不是他本人有多优秀，反而恰恰是缺少赏识别人的能力。 欣赏，不仅是大度善良的表现，更是智慧的火花在不经意间的绽放。 人活着，都需要被人欣赏。而能够真心欣赏他人，是一个人最了不起的才华。 Everyone has his own unique shining point. The wiser the person is, the more he knows how to look at people with appreciative eyes and mentality. In life, there are many people who are condescending to others, and make good use of their strengths rather than their weaknesses. This is not how good he is, but just the lack of ability to appreciate others. Appreciation is not only a manifestation of generosity and kindness, but also a spark of wisdom that blooms inadvertently. Everyone alive needs to be appreciated. And being able to truly appreciate others is a person's greatest talent. 红尘中，有人身居高位，也有人身处泥泞，但都有同样的需求，就是希望得到别人的重视。 欣赏，是对别人的一种最高级的尊重，给比你优秀的人点赞，是锦上添花，对不如自己的人爱慕，是雪中送炭。 你的一次鼓励，或许就是别人的一根救命稻草，你的一句良言，或许就能让别人的人生从此开挂。 传递欣赏，是与人为善，一种正能量的循环往复。 如三毛所说：“人活着还真是件美好的事，不在于风景多美多壮观，而是在于遇见了谁，被温暖了一下。然后希望有一天，自己也成为一个小太阳，去温暖别人。” 人与人相处，帮助往往要以感恩回报，褒奖因为先有了付出垫底，只有发自内心的欣赏，才能打开人的心扉，让人体会出由内而外的舒展快乐。 所以，别吝啬你的欣赏，它胜过千金，具有神奇的力量。给别人带来的满足感和幸福感，可能是你想不到的。 In the world of mortals, some people are in high positions, while others are in mud, but they all have the same need, that is, they want to be valued by others. Appreciation is the highest respect for others. To praise someone who is better than you is icing on the cake. To love someone who is not as good as you is a timely help. Your encouragement may be someone else's life saving straw, and your good advice may be able to make someone else's life come to an end. To convey appreciation is to be kind to others, a cycle of positive energy. As Sanmao said, 'It is really a wonderful thing for people to live, not because of the beautiful and spectacular scenery, but because of who they meet and are warmed up. Then they hope that one day they will become a little sun to warm others.' When people get along with each other, help often needs to be rewarded with gratitude. Rewards are based on giving first. Only through heartfelt appreciation can people open their hearts and let the human body stretch and be happy from the inside out. Therefore, don't be stingy with your appreciation. It is better than gold and has magical power. The satisfaction and happiness you bring to others may be unexpected. 哲学家培根说过一句话：“欣赏者心中有朝霞、露珠和常年盛开的花朵，漠视者冰洁心城，四海枯竭，丛山荒芜。” 深以为然。 懂得欣赏，一定是自带光芒；被人欣赏，哪怕是星星，也会在夜空璀璨。 余生当你学会了欣赏，将追寻别人的特长，成为一种习惯，你的人生一定会所向披靡，多姿多彩。 The philosopher Bacon once said, 'There are rosy clouds, dewdrops and perennial flowers in the hearts of those who appreciate them, while those who ignore them are cold and clean. The seas are exhausted and the mountains are deserted.' I think so. If you know how to appreciate, you must bring your own light; Be appreciated, even the stars will shine in the night sky. In the rest of your life, when you learn to appreciate, it will become a habit to pursue other people's expertise, and your life will be invincible and colorful.    |
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