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随着年龄的增加，抵抗力和免疫力的降低，心里越来越喜欢起来了清净和安宁了！看到身边的朋友都越来越好，心里也是非常高兴！但是却没有了那种接触繁华的心境了！静静的站在街头，看着陌生人来来往往，看着车水马龙的陌生车辆，感觉这样反而是一种安宁的享受！ With the increase of age and the decrease of resistance and immunity, I like to be clean and peaceful more and more! I am also very happy to see that my friends are getting better and better! But there is no such kind of contact with the bustling state of mind! Standing quietly on the street, watching strangers come and go, watching strange cars in traffic, it feels like a peaceful enjoyment! 不愿意过多的去接触或者去走近别人的故事和生活中去了，我开始远离和走远！远离一切和自己不在灵魂高度上交流的人和事，不消耗自己！那怕静静地看天空飘过的一片云，那怕静静地听一首钢琴曲，那怕静静地欣赏一盆自己亲手摘的花！这些都是让我如此的喜悦和愉快！ Unwilling to touch or approach other people’s stories and lives too much, I began to stay away and go far! Stay away from all people and things that don’t communicate with you at the height of your soul, and don’t consume yourself! I am afraid of watching a cloud floating in the sky quietly, listening to a piano music quietly, and enjoying a pot of flowers picked by myself quietly! All these make me so happy and happy! 也喜欢了一种拒绝方式，就是开口直接谈钱，这样的拒绝方式也是真的检验了真诚和人性的弱点，一个对你很大方很舍得给你花钱的人，不一定是对你好，而是他看到了你背后的可利用的资源！一个对你不很大方但是可以无微不至关心的人他是可以长期交往的！因为他是单纯的，他对你的好取决于你自己本身，而不是你所在的职位和你背后所拥有的资源！ I also like a kind of refusal, that is, talking about money directly. This kind of refusal also really tests the weakness of sincerity and humanity. A person who is generous to you and willing to spend money for you is not necessarily good for you, but he sees the available resources behind you! A person who is not generous to you but can take care of you, he can have a long-term relationship! Because he is simple, his kindness to you depends on yourself, not on your position and the resources behind you! 真因为知己难求，所以人人都想求到一个知己，真因为合适的人很难遇见，所以人人都想遇见合适自己的人，相逢知己，遇见合适的人，这两件事情其实难度系数都和登天一样难！所以人才觉得知己珍贵，合适自己的人珍贵，任何容易得到的人和事都其实也容易失去，因为不珍贵的一切也都不会被在意！这是一个恒定的规律！ It’s hard to find a confidant, so everyone wants to find a confidant. It’s hard to meet the right person, so everyone wants to meet the right person, meet the confidant and meet the right person. These two things are actually as difficult as going to heaven! Therefore, people think that confidants are precious, and people who are suitable for them are precious. Anyone who is easy to get is actually easy to lose, because everything that is not precious will not be cared about! This is a constant law! 寻找一处清净的田园牧歌，并不是要远离都市的繁华，而是在繁华中坚守一种信念！坚守一份安稳和宁静！不去攀龙附凤，不去言听计从，而是踏踏实实的做自己！把自己的言行一致，说出来的话和做出来的事情，对自己负责！有干干净净的灵魂，有清澈见底的灵魂！不去让自己拥有牵扯不清的任何关系，不把自己捆绑进任何一个深井里面！要畅游在一片汪洋大海里面去！ Looking for a clean pastoral is not to stay away from the prosperity of the city, but to stick to a belief in the prosperity! Stick to a stable and quiet! Don’t climb the dragon and attach the phoenix, don’t listen, but be yourself! Be consistent with your words and deeds, and be responsible for what you say and do! There is a clean soul and a crystal clear soul! Don’t let yourself have any relationship that is unclear, and don’t tie yourself into any deep well! Want to swim in a Wang Yang sea! |
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