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家人，是我们生命中最重要的人，也是最应该被我们善待的人.mp33:29 来自辰起游风 家，是我们最应该珍惜的地方；家人，是我们生命中最重要的人。 Home is the place we should cherish most; Family members are the most important people in our lives. 对于一个家来说，是贫是富不重要，钱多钱少也不重要。 For a family, it is not important whether it is poor or rich, or whether it is more or less. 一家人相聚在一起，日子过得和和美美，就是世间最宝贵的财富 The most precious wealth in the world is that a family gets together and lives in peace and beauty  一个家庭里，每个人都有自己的脾气。 In a family, everyone has his own temper. 不同的喜好，不同的习惯，生活在同一屋檐下，难免会有矛盾。哪怕是一些鸡毛蒜皮的小事，处理不当也会引发家庭冲突。 Different preferences, different habits, living under the same roof, inevitably have contradictions. Even some trivial matters can cause family conflicts if handled improperly. 一个和睦的家庭，并非不吵架，而是吵得再厉害，都能及时化解，不让无意义的争吵消磨掉亲情的缘分。 A harmonious family is not one who does not quarrel, but how much it quarrels, it can be resolved in a timely manner, so as not to let meaningless quarrels wear away the fate of family.  钱钟书评价杨绛是“最贤的妻，最才的女”。二人家庭生活中曾经发生过这样一件小事。 Qian Zhongshu commented that Yang Jiang was "the most virtuous wife and the most talented woman". Such a small matter once happened in their family life. 杨绛生孩子住院期间，钱钟书一个人生活。他不时到医院探望杨绛，却常苦着脸对夫人说：“我又做坏事了。” During the hospitalization of Yang Jiangsheng's child, Qian Zhongshu lived alone. From time to time, he visited Yang Jiang in the hospital, but often said to his wife with a bitter face: "I have done bad things again."  今天撒了墨水，把房东家的桌布染了。杨绛说：“不要紧，我会洗。”钱钟书放心回去了。 I spilled ink today and dyed the landlord's tablecloth. Yang Jiang said, "It doesn't matter, I will wash it." Qian Zhongshu went back at ease. 第二天又不小心把灯给砸了。杨绛问明是什么灯，说：“不要紧，我会修。”他又放心回去。 The next day he accidentally smashed the lamp. Yang Jiang asked what the lamp was and said, "It doesn't matter, I will fix it." He went back at ease. 无论发生了什么事，只要夫人说句“不要紧”，钱钟书便会深信不疑，并且充满感激。 No matter what happened, as long as the wife said "it doesn't matter", Qian Zhongshu would be convinced and grateful.  杨绛出院后，果真把先生所做的“坏事”桩桩件件都料理妥当。而结婚前十指不沾阳春水的钱钟书也亲自下厨，为夫人炖补身的鸡汤。 After Yang Jiang left the hospital, she really took care of all the "bad things" she did. Qian Zhongshu, who did not touch the spring water before marriage, also cooked chicken soup for his wife. 很多人羡慕钱钟书和杨绛的婚姻生活，羡慕这个家庭的氛围。最重要的一点，就是羡慕他们始终相互包容、体谅。 Many people envy the marriage life of Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang and the atmosphere of the family. The most important thing is to envy them for their tolerance and understanding.  杨绛曾在散文集《我们仨》中写道：“我们这个家，很朴素；我们三个人，很单纯。我们与世无争，与人无争，只求相聚在一起，相守在一起，各自做力所能及的事。我们相伴相助，碰到困难一起承担，困难也就不复困难；不论什么苦涩艰辛的事，都能变得甜润；稍有一点快乐，也会变得非常快乐。” Yang Jiang once wrote in the prose collection "The Three of us": "Our family is very simple; the three of us are very simple. We have no struggle with the world, no struggle with others, just want to get together, stay together, and do what we can. We help each other, and once we meet difficulties, difficulties will no longer be difficult; no matter what bitter and difficult things, can become sweet; a little happiness, will also become very happy." |
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