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日得一悟3 kids vs parents 一小孩虽努力，但功课不怎么样。孩子因成绩不好，被家长骂笨鸟，孩子不服气地说：“世界上笨鸟有三种，一种是先飞，一种是嫌累不飞的。” 家长问：“那第三种呢？” 孩子说：“这种最讨厌，自己飞不起来，就在窝里下个蛋，要下一代使劲飞。”家长立马尴尬无语。 感悟： 家长总是对孩子的成绩恨铁不成钢，却忽略了遗传基因的重要性。 自己做不到的事，不要总把希望寄托于他人，哪怕是自己的孩子。 Hard as a child studies , yet his grades are not so good.Because of his poor academic record, the child was scolded and called stupid bird by his parent .At this, the child responded unwillingly ,unconvinced," There are three kinds of stupid birds in the world, one to take the lead in flying, one too tired not to fly."The puzzled parent asked," What about the third one?"The child faintly said," It is the most annoying.Unable to fly up itself ,it just lies in the nest to lay an egg, forcing it to fly hard." Immediately so embarrassed was the parent as to be speechless. Insight: parents are always haunted with gloomy thoughts of their children's school achievements ,complaining about iron not to be steel, but unconsciously ignoring the effect of the genetic blueprint on their kids .Never impose what you fail to do on others, even your own children. |
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