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1、意识到你在生活中不想要什么，如果你继续目前的道路，你最终会在哪里。这涉及花时间反思您的当前状况，并评估它是否符合您的目标和价值观。2、观察周围的人，看看盲目行动会导致什么结果。这包括关注他人的选择和行为，并考虑这些行为的潜在后果。3、深入思考，不要只接受你在表面上看到的事实。这涉及质疑假设并考虑多种观点，以便更深入地了解情况。4、为你的未来创造一个消极的愿景，或“反愿景”，以更好地了解你在生活中想要什么。这涉及花时间确定并写下您生活中不想要的一切，以明确您的目标和优先事项。5、使用负面情绪来推动您实现目标的努力，将负面能量转化成养分、动力。这涉及以富有成效的方式利用愤怒或沮丧的感觉，并将其用作实现目标的动力。6、 制定计划和策略，每天和每周都朝着您的愿景努力。这涉及设定具体的、可实现的目标，并制定如何定期实现这些目标的计划。7、让一切妨碍自己的人和事消失！这涉及排除与您的目标或价值观不符的人、活动或习惯。8、 打牢基本功，习惯忍耐无聊，埋头苦干，不要急于看到结果。9、 在你的生活中建立秩序，以防止陷入混乱。这涉及开发例行程序和系统来管理您的时间和资源，从而使您能够朝着自己的目标取得进展。10、将变得优秀当成一生的项目来做，这是一条很长的路，需要一辈子的时间，要对此感到舒适自在。Here's how you get ahead of 99% of people in 6 to 12 months. Become brutally aware of two things. The first is what you don't want. The second is is where you will end up if you keep doing the same things in life. Observe the masses and see where mindless action leads. It's not pretty at all by any means. When you do this, when you observe the masses, sit with your thoughts, think them through, don't just close your mind off and take what you see on the surface and accept it as reality. That's not how this works. That closed minded, surface level living is what got you into this situation in the first place, you need to think deeper. It's easier to know what you don't want from experience and observation than it is to know what you want from imagination and just thinking and having all of these grand ideas for your future.以下教你如何在6到12个月内领先99%的人。你要深刻认清两件事。第一是：你不想要什么。第二是：如果你继续重复同样的生活，你将会走向何方。观察身边的普罗大众，看看盲目行动会带来什么结果，绝不会带来什么好结果。当你观察的时候，当你观察大多数人时，要坐下来，静下心，理清思绪。不要只是关上心门，只看表象，将所见之物当做现实，这不是解决问题的方式。思维封闭，生活浅薄，正是导致你陷入糟糕境地的元凶，你需要深度思考。相比仅仅凭想象和思考，以及通过对未来的各种宏大构想，去知道自己想要什么，我们更容易从亲身经验和现实观察中知道自己不想要什么。And don't get me wrong here. I'm not writing those things off. Those things are good. They are not bad, do not label any of what I'm saying as good or bad. Test it through your direct experience. Many of that I'm very big on creating a vision for your future. But the best way to do that is by also creating an anti vision, having a negative thing, something that you despise, something that will get you angry, because negative energy is very, very potent. It can be used and transmuted to actually achieve what you want in life. It's like when you're going to the gym, I'll be walking on the treadmill as a warm up. And i'll just think of what my life would be without the gym. Where could I end up if I don't put my all into that workout? And somehow I just get very, very pissed and I can feel that energy I'm not being pissed, isn't bad. Negative emotions aren't that? They exist. They are what they are and they should be used, not suppressed, but used for good.不要误解我的意思。我并不否定想象的重要性。想象很美好，不是什么坏事，不要把我说的任何一点都贴上好或坏的标签。用你自己的亲身经历来检测它们。我非常重视为自己的未来创造愿景，但最好的方法是同时创造反愿景，创造负面的事物，创造一些你厌恶的东西，一些会让你生气的事情，因为负能量的威力非常非常强大。实际上我们可以利用和转化负能量，以实现生活中想要的目标。比如当你去健身房时，我会在跑步机上做热身运动，然后我会想象，如果没有健身房，我的生活会变成什么样子？如果我不全力以赴进行锻炼，我会变成什么样？不知何故，我会感到非常非常生气，我会感受到那股能量，而生气并不是坏事。负面情绪并非只有坏的一面。存在即合理，我们应该利用负能量做一些有益的事情，而不是压抑它们。So to create your anti vision, sit down with a notebook, become a mad scientist, draw out everything, sit with a notebook for 30 minutes and just draw out everything your entire future, but start with the anti-vision, write down every single thing that you do not want in this life. What do you not want to look like? What do you not want your future to be? What do you not want your day to look like on an everyday basis? And from that, it will be much clearer to you what your vision will actually be, because it's just the opposite of those things.因此，为了创造你的反愿景，你需要拿出一本笔记本，坐下来，假装自己是一名狂热的科学家，把所有想法都描绘出来，花30分钟专心致志地在笔记本上绘制你的整个未来，但从反愿景开始描绘，写下生活中一切你一点也不想要的东西。你不想变成什么样子？你不想让你的未来变成什么样子？你不想让每一天过成什么样子？从反愿景中，你会更清晰地知道你真实的愿景会是什么，因为真实的愿景就是你不想要事物的反面。And so when you look at your anti vision after creating it or as you're writing it, you should feel uncomfortable. You should feel very uncomfortable with the possibility of where you could end up in life if you do not take control of your life. With that discomfort, you should laser in on one big goal, laser in on your vision for the future. And this should be meaningful because your anti vision is usually meaningless. It comes from mindless action. It comes from not doing anything and letting entropy take hold and just drag your life into chaos. That's what entropy does. That is the supreme law of the universe. If you do not create order for your life, you will decline into chaos. In that same notebook with that vision for your future and your anti vision. Plan out, be the mad scientist that is going to work on the project of your life, create a plan, create a strategy for exactly what you are going to do on a day to day basis, week by week. Every single thing you're gonna do for the next week and write it out, get extremely specific, create the order. You do not be a victim of entropy.在你创建或写下你的反愿景后，你应该会感到不舒服，你应该会对你陷入的生活困境感到非常不舒服，如果你不能掌控自己的生活的话。伴随着不舒服，你应该把注意力集中在一项重要的目标上，聚焦于你对未来的愿景，这才是有意义的，因为你的反愿景通常是毫无意义的。反愿景来自于无意识的行为，来自于不做任何事情，让混乱占据主导地位，将你的生活拖入混乱之中。这就是熵的作用。这是宇宙的至高法则。如果你不为你的生活创建秩序，你将陷入混乱。在同一本笔记本里，既有你对未来愿景的构想，又有你的反愿景。详细计划出来，成为那个将要致力于你一生的项目的狂热科学家，制定一个计划，制定一份详细的日常和每周的行动策略。逐一列出接下来一周你要做的每件事情，要非常具体性，要非常明确，要井然有序。不要成为熵的受害者。Next, disappear. And whenever I say disappear, like disappear for 6 months. People take it literally. Almost every much of what I say is metaphorical and exaggerated to get the essence of the message across. I'm not saying, disappear, like your physical body is just gonna disappear. I'm saying disappear from the things that don't belong in your life, cut them out. This can be people, games, apps, or even bad habits, just become aware of the things that are holding you back. There are multiple ways to do this, but with the process that we've discussed and what's worked best for me is to just rip the band aid off, get rid of them all. You don't need to explain yourself here to other people that are gonna be messing you. Bro, where did you go? Just disappear.下一步，消失。每当我说“消失”，比如消失6个月，人们往往从字面意思理解。我说的几乎所有内容都是比喻性的，夸张的，目的是传达信息的本质。我并不是说你的肉身要消失不见。我是说要让那些不属于你生活的东西消失，摒弃它们。可能是人、游戏、应用程序，甚至是不良习惯，只要意识到这些东西在拖累你。让它们消失的方法很多，但根据我们讨论过的方法，对我最有效的方法就是毫不犹豫地摒弃它们，摒弃全部。你不需要向那些干扰你的人做出解释。有人会问：哥们，你去哪了？就直接消失吧。In other words, break your addiction with feeling like shit, because that feeling like shit has one cause and it has multiple causes, but we're talking about mental here, not physical, which would be attributed to something like nutrition or food, but mental energy that you are spending on people and things that don't give a *** about you and direct that mental energy that you now have into your vision for the future, because you have created a system that will prevent an entropy in your life. The thing that will take you from anti vision to vision the system there, and to maintain a system to prevent entropy, you need energy, in this case, mental energy to actualize or manifest that vision, If you want to call it that.换句话说，不要让自己对糟糕的感受产生依赖，因为感觉糟糕通常有一个根本原因，也可能有多个原因，但我们讨论的是心理层面，不是身体层面，身体糟糕可能与营养或食物等有关，而是你花费在对你漠不关心的人和事上的心理能量。将你现在拥有的心理能量投入到你对未来愿景的追求中，因为你已经建立了一个防止生活混乱的系统。那个系统将你从反愿景带到愿景，而要维护那个防止生活混乱的系统，你需要能量，你需要的是心理能量，去实现你的愿景，如果你愿意这样称呼的话。Last, make a habit of the boring fundamentals, but realize that the boring fundamentals are not boring, because most successful people they take the same repetitive actions on a day to day basis in a game, in like a game that mimics the real world. You are logging on, and you are repeating the same thing over and over to slowly level up over time. Right? 'You're killing monsters. You're going through dungeon. You're doing the same thing to stack experience. So you need to transfer that into the real world and move the levers that will actually take you towards your goals. These are fundamentals, these are principles, these aren't tactics.最后是，习惯忍耐无聊，埋头苦干的基本功，但要认识到看似无聊的基本功并不枯燥，因为大多数成功的人每天都会重复相同的行动，就像在模拟现实世界的游戏中一样。你登录游戏，一遍又一遍地重复同样的动作，以便随着时间的推移逐渐提升段位。对吧？你在击败怪物，探索地牢，以重复基本功的方式积累经验。因此，你需要将游戏世界的经验转化到现实世界中，操作那些实际会推动你实现目标的杠杆。这些就是基本功，这些是原则，而不是奇淫巧技。And so understand that these are not boring. They seem boring on the surface. When you look at someone else doing it day in day out like this guy, dan, he writes for 30 minutes every morning. That's that seems so boring, but it's mastery over misery. It's like how sushi chefs. They take years to perfect the preparation of rice. It comes in stages like a tennis player. You first learn how to hold the racket. Then there is a very specific way to do that. Well, and then you move up to the next stage, which is how do you angle the racket? How do you hit the ball? You have to practice these things over and over and over again, like how you were learning to walk until it becomes effortless or unconscious. So you open up more mental energy to move on to the next thing that will take you ahead of the people that are trying to just get a result that would usually take 10 years to get in 2 weeks. That's just not gonna happen.要明白基本功并不乏味，只是表面上看起来很无聊。当你看别人每天都在做这些事情时，比如一个叫丹的家伙，他每天早上写作30分钟，似乎很无聊，但精通一项技能必须经历痛苦难受。就像寿司师傅，他们花很多年时间准备米饭。高手是分阶段训练成的，就像网球运动员一样。你首先要学会如何握拍。然后有一种非常具体的方法。嗯，然后你进入下一个阶段，那就是如何调整拍子的角度？如何击球？你必须一遍又一遍地练习这些基本功，就像你学走路一样，直到变得轻松自如，你需要更多心力去投入到下一件事情中，这将让你遥遥领先，只想在两周内得到需要十年时间才能得到的结果，那是不可能的。So the question that everyone asks like, when you start something new is okay, when will I see this result? Like a tennis player? When will I be able to compete and stop asking that question? Because you're gonna get an answer that you don't want to hear and it's gonna throw you off track. It takes years, it takes an entire lifetime of trial and error to create a project, as I said, become a mad scientist. The essence of science is trial and error.所以，每当尝试新事物时，每个人都会问一个问题，我什么时候能看到结果？就像网球运动员一样？我什么时候能够参加比赛？不要再问这个问题了，因为你会听到你不想听的答案，而且欲速则不达。这需要多年时间，需要一生的试验和错误才能创造一个项目，正如我所说的，成为一个狂热的科学家。科学的本质就是试验和错误。So to perfect a project, your life that you are building out, it is going to take a lifetime, get comfortable with that, thought this entire process that we just went over of realizing what you don't want creating a strategy in launching yourself into the opposite direction and prioritizing long term success in mastery is the origin story. You will hear this in every origin story of a successful person. So flip the switch inside of you. New years is coming up, flip the switch inside of you and build a foundation that will carry you into the life you want.因此，要完善一个项目，打造自己的人生，需要一辈子的时间，要对此感到舒适自在。我们刚刚讨论的整个流程，认识到你不想要什么，制定策略并投身于相反的方向，并将长期成功和精通置于优先位置，这就是最初阶段的创业故事。你会在每个创业故事中听到这一点。所以，在你内心翻开这个开关吧。新的一年年即将到来，点燃你内心的开关，并打造一个能让你走向你想要的生活的基础。 译制：良哥 source: Dan Koe 微信的规则进行了调整 学完请多点“在看”，喜欢请点分享和赞 这样小one的推送才能继续出现在你的订阅列表里 才能持续给大家分享实用有趣的学习干货~
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