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很多时候不是你不好,而是你遇到的人不对。

 徐泽权 2024-12-11

We often fall into self-doubt, always wondering if we're not good enough for some relationships to turn sour. But in fact, most of the time, it's just that we haven't met the right people. 

我们常常会陷入自我怀疑,总觉得是不是自己不够好,才让一些关系变得糟糕。但其实,很多时候只是我们没有遇到对的人罢了。

Some people are like an untimely gust of wind that blows into our lives. Their behaviors and attitudes make us clearly see the kind of people we don't want to be. 

有些人就像一阵不合时宜的风,吹进我们的生活,他们的行为和态度,让我们清楚地看到自己不想成为的样子。

At this time, we should understand that if a relationship has already lost its due color and meaning, it's the right way to let it go bravely and there's no need to be distressed about it.

这时候,我们就应该明白,一段关系如果已经失去了它应有的色彩和意义,勇敢地放手才是正途,不必为此而苦恼。

In life, there are always some things that follow us like shadows and can't be avoided, and interpersonal relationships are one of them. Time and distance are like two invisible hands that inadvertently change the people around us. 

生活里,总有一些事情如影随形,怎么也躲不开,人际关系就是其中之一。时间和距离就像是两个无形的手,在不经意间就把我们身边的人换了一轮又一轮。

Those friends who used to chat freely and share joys and sorrows with us may gradually lose contact because of the different tracks of life. Lovers who were once thought to accompany each other for a lifetime may also see their feelings fade away slowly due to the erosion of time. This is really quite common. After all, nothing can remain the same forever, and love is no exception to the changes in this world.

那些曾经一起谈天说地、分享喜怒哀乐的朋友,可能因为生活的轨迹不同,渐渐就没了联系;曾经以为会相伴一生的恋人,也可能因为岁月的侵蚀,感情慢慢变淡。这真的是太常见了,毕竟没有什么东西能永远保持原样,爱情也无法超脱于这世间的变化。

We all know that no one can accompany us from the beginning to the end of our lives. When two people are together, if they can have many beautiful memories and spend the time happily, that is a precious gift bestowed by fate

我们都知道,没有人能从我们生命的起点一直陪伴我们走到终点。两个人在一起的时候,如果能拥有许多美好的回忆,能开开心心地度过,那就是命运赐予的珍贵礼物。

As for why they separated later, it really doesn't matter. 

至于后来为什么会分开,其实真的不重要。

We shouldn't always be hung up on past relationships and keep brooding over why we lost them. You know, life is like a journey. People keep getting on and off the bus along the way. 

我们不能总是对过去的关系耿耿于怀,不能一直纠结于为什么会失去。要知道,人生就像一场旅行,途中不断有人上车,有人下车。

When a relationship makes you start to lose yourself and your smile, then let it go decisively. Don't struggle to maintain it anymore, and don't linger in memories. Because new people will always come with new stories and meet us at the next intersection of life to start a new wonderful chapter.

当一段关系让你开始找不到自己,让你失去了笑容,那么果断地放手,别再为了维持而苦苦支撑,也别在回忆里徘徊不前。因为新的人总会带着新的故事,在人生的下一个路口与我们相遇,开启新的精彩篇章。

词汇

  1. sour:[ˈsaʊə(r)]

    adj.酸的;有酸味的;酸腐的;馊的;阴郁的;闷闷不乐的

    v.(使)变坏,恶化;(牛奶等)变酸

  2. gust:[ɡʌst]

    n.一阵狂风;一阵强风;(感情的)迸发,爆发

    v.(风)猛刮,劲吹

  3. blow:[bləʊ]

    v.吹;吹气;刮风;吹响(乐器等);炸毁;爆炸

    n.打击;猛击

  4. attitude:[ˈætɪtjuːd]

    n.态度;看法;姿态;姿势

  5. clearly:[ˈklɪəli]

    adv.清楚地;清晰地;明显地;明白地

  6. bravely:[ˈbreɪvli]

    adv.勇敢地;英勇地

  7. distress:[dɪˈstres]

    n.忧虑;悲伤;痛苦;危难;不幸

    v.使忧虑;使悲伤;使痛苦

  8. shadow:[ˈʃædəʊ]

    n.影子;阴影;昏暗处;背光

    v.跟踪;盯梢;笼罩;遮蔽

  9. interpersonal:[ˌɪntəˈpɜːsənl]

    adj.人际关系的;人际的;人与人之间的

  10. distance:[ˈdɪstəns]

    n.距离;间距;远方;遥远

    v.拉开距离;与……疏远

  11. invisible:[ɪnˈvɪzəbl]

    adj.看不见的;无形的

  12. inadvertently:[ˌɪnədˈvɜːtəntli]

    adv.无意地;不经意地;非故意地

  13. chat:[tʃæt]

    v.聊天;闲谈

    n.聊天;闲谈

  14. sorrow:[ˈsɒrəʊ]

    n.悲伤;悲痛;悲哀;伤心事

    v.感到(或表示)悲伤

  15. gradually:[ˈɡrædʒuəli]

    adv.逐渐地;逐步地;渐进地

  16. contact:[ˈkɒntækt]

    n.接触;联系;交往;熟人

    v.联系;(与……)接触;(用电话或信件)联络(某人)

  17. track:[træk]

    n.轨道;小道;足迹;踪迹;跑道

    v.跟踪;追踪;留下足迹(或踪迹)

  18. lifetime:[ˈlaɪftaɪm]

    n.一生;终身;有生之年;寿命

  19. erosion:[ɪˈrəʊʒn]

    n.侵蚀;腐蚀;削弱;减少

  20. exception:[ɪkˈsepʃn]

    n.例外;除外;一般情况以外的人(或事物)

  21. accompany:[əˈkʌmpəni]

    v.陪同;陪伴;与……同时发生;为……伴奏

  22. precious:[ˈpreʃəs]

    adj.宝贵的;珍贵的;珍视的

  23. bestowed:[bɪˈstəʊd]

    v.(bestow的过去式及过去分词)给予;授予;献给;赋予

  24. fate:[feɪt]

    n.命运;天命;天数;天意

  25. separated:[ˈsepəreɪtɪd]

    adj.分开的;分居的;单独的;不同的

    v.(使)分开;(使)分离;隔开;区分(separate的过去式及过去分词)

  26. hung:[hʌŋ]

    v.(hang的过去式及过去分词之一)悬挂;吊着;垂下;(使)低垂

  27. brood:[bruːd]

    v.焦虑;忧思;孵(蛋)

    n.(雏鸡、鸟等的)一窝;一家的孩子

  28. struggle:[ˈstrʌɡl]

    v.奋斗;努力;挣扎

    n.斗争;奋斗;拼搏;难事

  29. linger:[ˈlɪŋɡə(r)]

    v.继续存留;缓慢消失;逗留;徘徊;磨蹭

  30. intersection:[ˌɪntəˈsekʃn]

    n.十字路口;交叉路口;交点;相交

  31. chapter:[ˈtʃæptə(r)]

    n.章;回;篇;(人生或历史上的)重要时期

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