[英文绝交信范例两篇]
DearJohnLetter绝交信范例一
DearJohn,
Ihavebeenseriouslylookingbackuponourrelationshipandgetting
veryclearonwhatIneedanddesireoutofarelationship.
TheconclusionIhavecometoisthatwearetoodifferentinbothour
personalityandourdesiredlifestylestobeabletosuccessfullylive
togetherwithjoy,bliss,goodcommunication,andinteraction.
Thisisnotaboutyouoraboutme"winningorlosing",oraboutoneof
usbeingwrong--itisabouttwowaysofbeing...whichdonotfulfill
eachother,orgotogether.ThoughIhadbeenopentohavingyouvisit
withthethoughtthatpossiblywecould''try''again,afterthinking
aboutitalot,Irealizethatitisnotagoodidea.Iamveryclearthat
wearenotthe''right''peopleforeachotheratthistimeinourlives.
Pleaseforgiveyourself,andme,forany''mistakes''wemadealongthe
way...andrememberthatwebothhavegrownimmenselythroughbeing
together...butthetimehascometomoveon.
SobasicallywhatIamsayingisthatIwouldliketo''cancel''my
invitationforyoutovisit.Ifeelatthistime,thatIneedtomoveon
withmylife,andhavingyoucomeandvisitwouldnotserveanypositive
purpose.Youneedtoacceptthatthisrelationshipisoverandopen
yourselfuptoreceivingtheblessingsoftheuniverse...
Ithinkwebothneedtoletgoofthepast,begratefulforwhatwehad
foratime,learnfromourexperiences,andmoveonfromthere.
DearestJohn,wehavebeenthroughalottogether...Ihavealearneda
lotaboutmyself,asyouhavelearntalotaboutyourself.Atthis
point,wearebothreadytograduatetothenextlevelina
relationship...Whatwehavelearned,whetherwhileweweretogether,orwhetherafter,
throughlookingbackonhowwe''operated''together,willserveusin
ourfuturerelationships.
Ithasbeenmyexperience,thatallrelationshipsthatendaresimply
openingthedoortoanotherlevelofjoy,andabetterrelationship
builtonwhatwehavelearntinthepast.SoIknowandtrustthatthereis
someoneouttherewhowillsupportyouinyourgrowthwhilelovingyou
exactlythewayyouare...whichissomethingthatwewerenotdoing
foreachother.Iconstantlyjudgedandcriticizedyou,inthesame
mannerthatyoujudgedandcriticizedme...Outthereistheperfectperson
foryouthatwillloveyouandnotfindasinglethingtocriticize
aboutyouinthesamewaythatyouwillnotfindasinglethingto
criticizeaboutthem...Youwillacceptherassheis,evenwhileseeingthat
sheisnot"perfect".
Donotseethisaslosingsomething,butratherashavinggained
knowledgeandwisdom...Everythingthatyoulearnedfromusbeingtogether,
aswellasfromusbeingseparated,youwillbeabletoputinpractice
inyournextrelationshiptoavoidthetrapsthatwegotinto.
EVERYTHINGALWAYSWORKSOUTFORTHEBEST,andthisisnoexception.
Trustinyourself,trustintheUniverse,trustinthepowerofLovethat
rulesourlives.Pleasedon’tgetintofeelingsorryforyourselfand
wantingto''enditall''.Rather,thankGodforthelearningexperience,
andaskfortheopennesstorecognizetheblessingsinyourlife.They
arethere...openyourselfuptobeingyou,acceptingyourself
completelywithoutjudgment,andlovingyourselfunconditionally.
Iwishyoujoy,Iwishyouhappiness,Iwishyouheavenonearth.
PleasetrustinyourselfandtheUniverseenoughtotakesomedeepbreaths,
andstartlookingtofindandcreatejoyinyourlife.Itisthere...
simplystepoutandclaimit.
Blessingstoyou...Bethelight!
DearCigarette绝交信范例二
25SmokeyLane
OurTown
4GOT10
DearCigarette,
Forthepast17years,youhavebeenmybestfriend.Youhaveseenme
throughdifficulttimes,happytimesandjustabouteveryphaseofmy
life.YouhavealwaysbeenherewhenI''veneededyou.Someofmyfamily
andfriendsdidn''tcaremuchforyou,butIalwaysdefendedyouno
matterwhat.Ialwaysthoughtyouwereagreatfriendtohave,andIcounted
onyouatalltimes.
It''shardformetotellyouthis,butinthepastfewmonths,Ihave
beenseriouslythinkingaboutendingourrelationship.I''vedecidedthat
I''vejustbeentoodependentonyou,andIfeelthatattheageof35
itistimethatIstartbeingmoreindependent.Ithoughtaboutjust
maybeseeingyouonceinawhile,butIdon''tthinkthatwouldwork.
Eventually,I''dstartrelyingonyouallthetimeagain.Ifeeltheonlyway
toendourrelationshipistoenditforgood.
I''vealwaysincludedyouineverythingI''vedonebutnextweek,I''m
goingonatrip,andI''vedecidednottotakeyoualong.Ifeelthiswould
beagoodtimetobreakup.Iwillbegoneawholeweekwithoutyouand
ifIcanmakeitonmyownforthatweek,IknowIcanmakeitforever.
ItisalittlesadformeknowingthatIwon''tbeabletorelyonyou
anymore,butIthinkIwillbeabetterpersonintheend.
Sincerely,
LettyGogh
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