??????????????,????????????????????.人类的对应方式主要由思想、情感以及其后的行动决定。Yourexplanatorystylelargelydeterminesyourthoughts,emotions,andsubsequentactions.
95%????????????????????????????.与事情的好坏无关，感情的95%是由某事发生时如何接受而有所不同的。Yourexplanatorystyleisdefinedas“thewayyouexplainthingstoyourself.”Fully95percentofyouremotions,positiveornegative,aredeterminedbythewayyouinterpretthethingsthatarehappeningaroundyou,andbythewayyoutalktoyourself.
-??????(马丁?塞利格曼/MartinSeligman)
,??????????????????????.根据此逻辑，令人心情不好的事情是我们自己这样认为的，令人心情好的事情最终也是我们自己这样理解的。Followingthistrainofthought,badthingsarebadandgoodthingsaregoodbecauseweperceivethemtobethatway.
.问题的核心就是：消极情绪导致不圆满的结果；积极情绪产生优秀的业绩。Theheartofthematteristhatanegativeattitudeleadstoinadequateresults,andmaintainingapositiveattitudeyieldssuperiorresults.
.这都取决于一个人的观点。Itallcomesdowntoone’sperspective.
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