今天是2023年10月27日，星期五，天气晴，温度21-35°。王志文有一句经典台词说:“世界上有两套规则:一套在明，一套在暗。明的那套是给螺丝钉看的，看起来非常合理，用起来难如登天。暗的那套是给聪明人看的，看起来粗鄙丑陋，用起来事半功倍。"
有人问:行走社会的精髓是什么？行走社会的精髓是人情世故，人情世故就是礼尚往来，人际关系就是合作愉快，这就是人生。什么是人情世故的精髓？那么，人情是什么，事故又是什么？
"人情”就是人之常情，说穿了就是人性。现实中，其实并不存在绝对的好人和坏人。一个人帮你还是害你，那要看客观条件。人性是趋利避害的，如果利益一致，一个坏人，甚至是你的仇人，都有可能帮你；如果利益冲突，一个好人，甚至你的亲戚，都可能落井下石，你说对吗？
所以说，人性是经不起考验的，做人做事必须时刻想着顺应人性。
“事故”就是透彻了解事物运转的规律，懂得过去、现在、未来。故就是故事，包括历史，包括你自己经历的事，懂得人性，懂得事物规律，这就是人情事故。
Today is Friday, October 27, 2023, the weather is fine, the temperature is 21-35°. Wang Zhiwen has a famous line: "There are two sets of rules in the world: one is bright and the other is dark." Ming''s set is for screws to see, looks very reasonable, difficult to use. The dark one is for smart people. It looks crude and ugly, but it does more with less." Some people ask: What is the essence of the walking society? The essence of the walking society is the sense of the world, the sense of the world is the exchange of courtesies, interpersonal relationships are happy cooperation, this is life. What is the essence of worldly wisdom? So, what''s a favor? What''s an accident?
"Human feeling" is the common feeling of human beings, to put it bluntly is human nature. In reality, there are no absolute good people and bad people. A man helps you or hurts you, depending on the circumstances. Human nature is to seek advantage and avoid harm, if the interests are consistent, a bad person, even your enemy, may help you; If there''s a conflict of interest, a good person, even a relative, could be in trouble, wouldn''t you say?
Therefore, human nature can not stand the test, people must always think about adapting to human nature.
"Accident" is a thorough understanding of the law of the operation of things, to understand the past, present, and future. So it is the story, including history, including your own experience, understand human nature, understand the law of things, this is human accident.
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