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生活这么大，你，明白了什么
I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. I've learned that it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it. I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts. I've learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes, after that, you'd better know something.
我明白人无法强迫别人爱自己。我们所能做的就是成为那个被爱的人。剩下的取决于他人。我知道无论我多么在乎，也不会得到同样的回报。我明白多年来建立起的信任在几秒钟内就可以毁于一旦。我明白在生活拥有什么并不重要，重要的是拥有谁。我明白靠魅力最多可以蒙混十五分钟，之后你最好学到点什么。
I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do. I've learned that it's not what happens to people, it's what they do about it. I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides. I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you'll see them. I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.
我明白人不该拿自己和别人所能做到的最好相比，而是和自己所能做到的最好相比。我明白重要的不是人们遇到了什么事，而是人们如何应对它。我明白不管你把它切得多薄，它总会有两面。我明白应该对自己所爱的人说一些深情的话，因为那可能是彼此的最后一面。我明白在你认为自己不行后，还能继续向前走很远。
I've learned that heoros are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. I've learned that there are people, who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it. I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
我明白英雄是那些在需要时刻义无反顾地去做必须做的事情的人。我明白有人深爱着你却不知道如何表达。我明白有时候我是有权利生气的，但我没有权利变得冷酷。
I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others, sometimes you have to learn to firgive yourself. I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other and just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
我明白即使再好的朋友偶尔也会伤害你，你必须原谅他们。我明白只有别人的原谅是不够的，我们必须学会原谅自己。我明白不管有多么伤心，世界也不会因为你的痛苦而停止。我明白两个人争吵并不意味着他们不爱对方，而两个人不争吵也不意味着他们就彼此相爱。
I've learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions. I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. I've learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves get farther in life. I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours when a firend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
我明白有时你必须先下手为强。我明白有时你不得不先发制人。我明白两个儿即使看同一个东西，看到的也会截然不同。我明白不管结果如何，只有坦诚的人才会在生活中走得更远。我明白在朋友向你抱怨时，生活会在瞬间发生改变，你会尽力帮助他。
I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains. I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon. I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe. I've learned to love and be loved. I've learned.
我明白写作和交谈一样，可以缓解情感的伤痛。我明白生命中最在乎的人离去太快。我明白很难界定向善和不伤害他人感情以及支持你的信仰之间的界限。我明白了爱与被爱之间的含义。我明白了。
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