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一、余生很贵，请别浪费，如果连眼前的生活都不好好珍惜，又有什么资格谈余生，余生又能好到什么程度呢？时光啊，就请你慢点儿走吧，留住我们的美好时光，也留住我们的青葱岁月。 the rest of your life is very precious. Please don't waste it. If you don't cherish the life in front of you, what qualifications do you have to talk about the rest of your life and to what extent will it be better for the rest of your life? Time, please go slowly, keep our good time, also keep our green years.  二、因为你太过于热情，所以总觉得别人对你都太冷漠；因为你太爱一个人，所以别人一个疏忽你都觉得那是不爱你了。多把精力放在自己身上，你会减少很多矫情的情绪。 because you are too enthusiastic, you always feel that others are too indifferent to you; because you love a person too much, so a negligence of others, you feel that it is not love you. Focus more on yourself, you will reduce a lot of emotional affectation. 三、人生的道路上，我们需要一些“弯路”，因为“弯路”是砥砺人才锋芒的硎石，是催人奋进的精神力量。有时候觉得自己像个神经病。既纠结了自己，又打扰了别人。 on the road of life, we need some "detours", because "detours" are the stone to sharpen the talent's edge and the spiritual force to inspire people to forge ahead. Sometimes I feel like a neurosis. It entangled itself and disturbed others.  四、 年纪大了，自尊心也跟着一起长大，有眼泪也不能轻易流，就得让它倒回去，于是啊，心里慢慢有了一片海洋。 as we get older, our self-esteem grows up with us. We can't easily shed tears, so we have to let it go back. So, there is an ocean in our heart. 五、 你要相信，总有一个人是在等你的。不管经历多少风浪苦痛，他都在等你。你们相遇，就会知道从前的伤都是为了让你如今更好的跟他在一起。 Believe that there will always be someone waiting for you. No matter how many storms and pains he has experienced, he is waiting for you. When you meet, you will know that the old wounds were all for you to be better with him now.  六、即使看不到阳光，我也相信有太阳；即使自己很孤独，我也相信世间有爱；即使自己很无助，我也相信有上帝。我料定了你会走，只是没想到那么快，所谓的心理准备还是不攻而破，看来，我们还是输给了时间。 Even if I can't see the sun, I believe in the sun; even if I'm lonely, I believe in love; even if I'm helpless, I believe in God. I anticipated you would go, but I didn't expect so fast, so-called psychological preparation or not to attack and break, it seems that we still lost time. 七、成长过程中最大的挑战在于，有些路段，只能你一个人寂静地走；有些辛酸，只有我一个人无奈地尝。人生苦短，但愿有人，能给我一世纵容。 难过以后需要增加的是免疫力，而不是一边痛苦，一边非要作践你自己。 The greatest challenge in the process of growth is that in some sections, you can only walk alone; in some bitter sections, only I can feel helplessly. Life is short, I hope someone can give me a life of indulgence. What you need to increase after you are sad is your immunity, not your pain, but your practice.  八、真实的生活是，认真做好每一天你分内的事情。不索取目前与你无关的爱与远景。不纠缠于多余情绪和评断。不妄想，不在其中自我沉醉。不伤害，不与自己和他人为敌。不表演，也不相信他人的表演。 the real life is to earnestly do your part every day. Don't ask for love and vision that are not related to you at present. Don't dwell on superfluous emotions and judgments. No delusion, no self-indulgence. No harm, no enemy to oneself and others. No performance, no trust in other people's performance.  九、努力，不是为了要感动谁，也不是要做给哪个人看，而是要让自己随时有能力跳出自己厌恶的圈子，并拥有选择的权利，用自己喜欢的方式过一生。 Efforts are not meant to impress or show anyone, but to enable oneself to jump out of the circle of disgust at any time, and to have the right to choose and live a life in the way one likes. 十、人生祸福相依，笑泪交织，得到不必太喜，你拥有一些，必然会放弃另一些；失去的无须过悲，没有什么可以永久地停留。不要以事业的成败、收入的多寡来定义人生的幸福，它们只是一种附庸，与幸福的内涵没有必然的联系。只要凡事抱以平常心，不抱怨，不嫉恨，不懈怠，不冷漠，幸福才有所依附。 Life is interdependent with misfortune and happiness, laughter and tears are intertwined, you don't need to be too happy to get. If you have some, you will give up others. If you lose something, you don't need to be too sad. Nothing can stay forever. Don't define the happiness of life by the success or failure of career and the amount of income. They are only appendages and have no inevitable connection with the connotation of happiness. Happiness can only be relied on if everything is carried out with an ordinary mind, without complaint, without jealousy, with unremitting idleness and indifference.  十一、没有一个人天生就懂得爱，都是需要慢慢的去经历去感受，从懵懂到心跳，从想触碰到拥抱，从点点滴滴爱的萌芽开始，慢慢的靠近喜欢的人，然后，慢慢的走进对方的心底。 No one is born to know love. They all need to experience it slowly, from ignorance to heartbeat, from wanting to touch hugs, from the germination of love bit by bit, slowly approaching the person they like, and then slowly entering the other person's heart. 十二、沉默，可以让混乱的心，变得清澈。不用告诉别人，你有多愚蠢，多天真，多善良，多无奈，多幸运，多倒霉，多痛苦，学会用沉默去掩饰自己的情感。也许有人说你洒脱，但洒脱有时候只是一种假象，我们需要一个理由，净觉浮躁的身心。沉默，是睿智，是内涵；沉默，是最后的清高，也是最后的自由。 Silence can make the chaotic heart clear. Don't tell others how foolish, naive, kind, helpless, lucky, unlucky and painful you are. Learn to hide your feelings with silence. Maybe some people say that you are free and easy, but free and easy sometimes is just a kind of illusion, we need a reason, pure feeling impetuous body and mind. Silence is wisdom and connotation; silence is the ultimate nobility and freedom.  十三、 不要沮丧，不必惊慌，做努力爬的蜗牛或坚持飞的笨鸟，我们试着长大，一路跌跌撞撞，然后遍体鳞伤。坚持着，总有一天，你会站在最亮的地方，活成自己曾经渴望的模样。 Don't be depressed, don't panic, try to climb snails or foolish birds, we try to grow up, stumble all the way, and then bruise all over. Hold on, one day, you will stand in the brightest place and live like you once longed for.  十四、成长的道路上你可能会遇见很多人。有人嫌弃你的体重，有人介意的容貌，有人害怕你的无理取闹，有人受不了你的脾气，有人嫉妒你太优秀也有人看清你不把你当回事儿。尽管如此，总有一个人正在接受并习惯着你的这些，他没走，一直都没走。 You may meet many people on your way to growth. Some people dislike your weight, some people care about your appearance, some people are afraid of your unreasonable trouble, some people can't stand your temper, some people envy you are too good, others see that you do not take you seriously. Nevertheless, there is always someone who is accepting and accustomed to you. He has not gone, has not gone.  十五、疯过，傻过，执着过，坚持过，爱过，可到最后还是一个人过。才知道，不是我的，当初我就不该要。大概，每个学不会分手的人，都会遇到一个不能在一起的人，放手舍不得，坚持又太累，爱而不得时最煎熬。 crazy, silly, persistent, persistent, loved, but in the end, or a person. Only then did I know that it wasn't mine. I shouldn't have wanted it at the beginning. Probably, everyone who can't learn to break up will encounter a person who can't be together, let go, persist too tired, love can not be the most painful. 十六、你可以要求自己守信，但不能要求别人守信，你可以要求自己对人好，但不能期待人家对你好。你怎样对人，并不代表人家就会怎样对你，如果看不透这一点，你只会徒添不必要的烦恼。 You can ask yourself to be trustworthy, but you can't ask others to be trustworthy. You can ask yourself to be good to others, but you can't expect others to be good to you. How you treat people doesn't mean how they treat you. If you can't see through this, you just add unnecessary worries.  十七、我们改变不了宿命，也改变不了结局，有时候苦苦的执着，是一种心累，心累了，心疼了，再也念不起，再也爱不起，学会了放下。曾经心碎，曾经在梦里无数次梦到你，醒来，是一个清冷的黎明，往事只能回忆，无论是快乐和痛苦，都是人生的一种经历，就像我爱过你，拥有过那些美丽的记忆已经足够。 We can not change our fate, nor can we change the outcome. Sometimes painful persistence is a kind of tired heart, tired heart, heartache, can not remember, can not love, learn to put down. Once heartbroken, have dreamed of you countless times in the dream, wake up, is a cold dawn, the past can only recall, whether happy and painful, is a life experience, just like I loved you, have those beautiful memories is enough.  十八、成功的人生不在于成就了多大的事业而重在做好了什么，所以，见到茂密的森林，你只要无愧地做其中挺拔的一棵；见到奔腾的长江，你只盼无愧地做浪花里晶莹的一滴；虽是一棵，却能抗击风雨，虽是一滴，却能滋润禾苗。这样的人生也就够了。 Successful life does not lie in what you have accomplished, but what you have done well. So, when you see the dense forest, you just need to be one of the upright ones; when you see the Pentium Yangtze River, you just want to be a glittering drop in the waves; although it is a tree, it can resist the wind and rain, although it is a drop, it can nourish the seedlings. Such a life is enough. |
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