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李阳特别赠言： Enjoying success is a very positive experience. 享受成功是一个非常积极的体验。 每天我们都想着我们的目标。每天我们都在进步，在慢慢的接近所谓的成功。有时以至于我们如此专注于我们的目标我门没有时间思索我们为什么渴望成功。 是什么原因使我们如此追求成功？我们真的需要么？是不是你有意识无意识的就这样做？ 请务必反复朗读直至背诵： Each day we are dreaming about our goals. Each day we are moving forward, step closer to the success. Sometimes we are so focused on our objectives that we don’t have time to think why we desire success. What is the reason? Do we really need it? Is it coming from the conscious or unconscious part of our mind? 不用担心，朋友，这里有一个简单的练习；你只需要看着屏幕，这不会花费你很多的时间。你只需要放松下来把思想专注于你最近所获得的成功上面。它不必是一些很大或特别优秀的。你最近经历的一个很小的成功就好，明白了吧！
将你获得成功的过程想象成一个旅程。有时旅程会很简单，同时有时候会很复杂，也可能是个简单的旅程也可能是一个漫长的旅程。让我们指出你如何进行和完成这次旅程。 I have a simple exercise for you, my friend. Don’t worry; it doesn’t require you to move away from screen and it will take no more than few minutes. Just relax and focus thoughts on your latest success you have achieved. It doesn’t have to be something really big and outstanding. A small success that you have recently experienced is absolutely enough. Ok, got it?
Imagine that achieving success is like a journey; sometimes it can be quite easy, sometimes really tough, can be also short or very long. Let’s figure out why you took this journey and what helped you to accomplish it. 将你的思绪放到旅程的开始。重新唤起你当时的感觉和心情。当时你选定这个目标的理由是什么那？你怎样走出的第一步？当你在迈向你目标的过程中同时也移动你的思想，尝试确定使你充满活力无畏前进的因素是什么?同时也想想旅程中谁阻挠了你，你是如何解决的？最后，到达你的目的地。当你成功时候你的感觉是什么？你是真的感到高兴或是由于达到目标没有带给你满足和成就而稍微有些失望？
如果你觉得上面的问题有困难，那么也不必担心。为了帮助你回答这个问题，我提供了6个最主要的原因，我门通过它们来确定我们为什么要达到成功。 Jump in your memories to the point where your journey began. Recall feelings and emotions connected to this moment. What was the reason you decided to set yourself this goal? How did you take your first step? While moving your thoughts on the path toward your goal, try to identify factors that motivated you and increased your energy to go forward. Look also for those who obstructed your journey. How did you cope with them? Finally, arrive to your destination point. What did you feel when you succeed? Were you truly happy or maybe disappointed as the goal didn’t bring you satisfaction and fulfillment?
Don’t worry if above questions was difficult for you. To help you answering them, I share with you the six main reasons, which I identify why we want to achieve success. 一、成功是我们人生计划的一部分
成功和我们的人生计划密切相关。我们可能在我们的人生计划中设定了很多的里程碑，比如：毕业，找到一个理想的工作，开创我们自己的事业或者建立了新的人际关系等等。达到这些里程碑对我们来说就是胜利。达到这些目标会带给我们愉快的心情因为我们知道我们的计划正在一步步实现，我们取得了长足的进步。 1. We want to achieve success because it is a part of our life plans.
Success is strongly related with our life plans. We can distinguish certain milestones in our plans, like graduating, getting a desired job, starting own business or new relationship. Achieving these milestones are successes for us. Each of these goals brings us positive feelings and emotions because we know that our life plans are fulfilling and that we are making visible progress. 二、我们希望得到伴随成功得到的其他利益
很多时候我们的每一个成功都有很多潜在的利益。在我们心中我们将我们成功与否与我们的这些利益密切的联系在一起。这种联系使我们获得成功时候感到愉悦。 2. We want the output related with certain success.
In many cases we want to experience benefits related with the achievement of a certain goal. In our minds, we have a strong association between these benefits and a state when we are successful. This association causes our success to be desirable and enjoyable. 三、我们喜欢成功的感觉
获得成功是一种非常愉悦的体验因为它增加了我们的阅历。获得成功就像个人的胜利。人们喜欢胜利。这是人的本性。当两个小孩做游戏的时候，他们每个人都希望自己能赢。这时候有没有物质的奖励都不那么重要，他们不需要附加的利益。只是在我们的本性中我们喜欢这种胜利的感觉。 3. We love the taste of winning.
Achieving success is a very positive experience also because it adds value to us and pumps our egos. Achieving success is like personal victory. People love winning. It is very natural. When two children play a game, each of them want to win. It is not important if there is any material prize. They don’t need any additional purpose. It is deep in our nature that we love the taste of winning. 四、我们需要激情
我们知道有一个目标等着我们去实现，它激励着我们去执行。目标越具有挑战性，我们就越想成功。这样我们就获得了达到更大目标的活力，并且我们自觉的激励自己自我发展，增长自己的能力学习如何才能实现自己更具挑战性的目标。 4. We need stimulation.
Knowing that there is a purpose, a goal we want to achieve, it stimulates us to act. The more challenging goal, the stronger success feeling is related to it. This way, we can get a better motivation to achieve bigger goals and we get additional stimulus to self-improve, grow personally and learn to handle challenging goal. 五、我们想要弥补我们过去的失败
人人都会犯错误。失败无可置疑是不美好的经历，但是在我们的人生旅程中失败是不可避免的并且它们也都提供给了我们有价值的反馈。他们也促使这我们走向更进一步的目标。我们失败过，但是最终我们成功了。这种胜利，经历了很多的失败，但是能弥补以前所有不愉快的经历。这也是我们想要获得胜利的一种很有代表性的原因。 5. We want to compensate lacks and failures from the past.
We all make mistakes. Failures are definitely not nice, but they are unavoidable in our lives and they should always provide valuable feedback. They also raise a strong force that will push us toward further goals. We lost, but in the end we want to win. This victory, preceded by many failures, can compensate all previous unpleasant experiences. This pattern is very often responsible for a reason why we want to achieve success. 六、我们把成功当做我们解决问题的一种方法
享受成功是一种很愉悦的经历。他可以减少我们生活中其他不愉快的经历对我们的影响。我们会发现朝着一个方向努力会更容易一些，当我们渴望成功时候我们避免同时解决很多不同的不愉快的问题。重要的是这种原因总是存在于我们的潜意识中。
现在，我们不需要再重复的问文章开始时候我们提出的问题。现在是否能更容易回答这个问题:你为什么要获得成功？
我想如果你仔细想了你为什么要获得成功，那么你的意识会达到一个新的高度。 6. We find success as a solution for our problems.
Enjoying success is a very positive experience. It can weaken influence of other, bad experiences in our life. We often find it easier to act in one direction, when we expect success, while we avoid handling different, unpleasant problems in our life. What is important is that we are often unaware of this mechanism as it mostly works on unconscious level.
Now, one more time ask yourself questions from the first part of this article. Is it easier now to answer them and identify your reasons?
I’m sure you have just achieved higher level of consciousness, as far as achieving success is concerned.
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