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▼ 爱上一个人和与一个人恋爱有啥不同 ▼ 这就是那36个神奇的问题 1.Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner gu est? 全世界给你选择，你想与谁共进晚餐？ 2. Would you like to be famous? In what way? 你想成为一个名人吗？通过什么方式？ 3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to sa y? Why?打电话前，你会先想想你要说什么吗？为什么？ 4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you? 一个完美的一天对你而言是什么样的？ 5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else? 你最后一次自己对自己唱歌是什么时候？对别人唱歌是什么时候？ 6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want? 如果你可以活到90岁，然后可以其中后面的60岁里选择30岁的身体或者思想，你会选择 哪样，为什么？ 7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?你有没有什么预感你会如何去世？ 8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.说出三样你们有共同点的三件事情 9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?你生命里最感激什么？ 10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be? 在你的成长过程里如果可以改变什么，你会选择什么？ 11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as po ssible. 用4分钟尽可能详细的告诉对方有关你的生活故事 12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be? 如果明天醒来，你会获得一样新的技能，你希望是什么？ 13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know? 如果水晶球能告诉你真实的自己，你的生活或者未来，你最想知道什么？ 14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why have n’t you done it? 有没有一件你特别想做的事情？为什么还没有做呢？ 15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?你一生最大的成就是什么？ 16. What do you value most in a friendship? 你在友情里最看重什么？ 17. What is your most treasured memory? 你最宝贵的记忆是？ 18. What is your most terrible memory? 你最可怕的记忆是？ 19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why? 如果你知道一年后你会突然去世，你会改变你现在的生活吗？为什么? 20. What does friendship mean to you? 友情对你来说意味着什么？ 21. What roles do love and affection play in your life? 爱和欢喜对你来说扮演什么样的角色？ 22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items. 举例说说你认为对方身上的积极面，可以说5个。 23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s? 你的家人亲密吗？你觉得童年比其他人幸福吗？ 24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother? 你和妈妈关系如何？ 25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “ 用我们造句，3句。比如我们在同一个房间感觉到.... 26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “ 完成这句话，我希望有一个人可以分享.... 27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know. 如果你和对方将成为亲密的朋友，你觉得最重要和他分享的是？ 28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met. 告诉对方你喜欢他什么？要很诚实，哪怕说一些对你初次见面的人不会说的话。 29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.和对方描述一个尴尬的时刻 30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?最后一次在别人面前哭是什么时候？自己默默的哭是什么时候？ 31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already. 告诉对方你已经喜欢他的某些方面。 32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?有什么事情你觉得太严肃不可以开玩笑的。 33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet? 如果你今天晚上就会死去，你最后悔没有和人说的会是什么？为什么还没有说? 34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why? 你家里装满了你所有的东西，着火了。救了你的爱人和宠物后，你还有时间救出一样东西，那会是什么？为什么？ 35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why? 在所有的家人里面，谁的去世对你影响最大？为何？ 36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen. 分享一个你自己的个人问题，问问对方有什么方式来面对它。让对方告诉你你选择的这个问题会让他对你有何感受。 -END- |
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